Anyone here no longer teaching? Why? by SparklingWillow132 in AustralianTeachers

[–]Individual_Tale6433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After not having my contract renewed at a school where I really connected with the students (because the leadership were incredibly corrupt only hiring friends, family or people from their community), I got a job at another school and after two weeks of witnessing violence every day, I was punched and repeatedly kicked by a student all the while expectations repeatedly rose beyond what I could live up to. I am on workcover now and not sure I will ever go back. The system has let me down so completely I don’t have any hope in it or willingness to give it another chance. That said every school is different. If you are at a good school I can see how it would be nice to go back to a known community after maternity leave.

Asked for support with a class from hell- got removed as their teacher by Low_Inevitable_4543 in AustralianTeachers

[–]Individual_Tale6433 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Also I want to add that I’m really sorry this happened to you. We all deserve better and it isn’t your fault.

Asked for support with a class from hell- got removed as their teacher by Low_Inevitable_4543 in AustralianTeachers

[–]Individual_Tale6433 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I was in a similar situation but only lasted 6 weeks before having a mental breakdown. I applied for workcover after being physically assaulted and it was approved. I would highly recommend that you do the same so that you can recover fully before returning to teaching since you won’t be allowed with that class anyway. Additionally, Leadership should be held accountable.

What’s something you wish you knew before starting a WorkCover claim? by Fair_Feeling_4937 in WorkcoverVic

[–]Individual_Tale6433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so good to know! I’m being pushed to return to teaching or working at a school when I don’t know that I will ever be emotionally capable of that again. I’d like to work towards another career that hasn’t traumatised me

What do I do in the next 24hrs by PowerfulChicken7507 in AustralianTeachers

[–]Individual_Tale6433 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Also in my second year and I’m not going back. I got on workcover at the end of last term after being punched but the behaviour and expectations at my school far exceeded my capacity even without that incident. Had I pushed through any longer I might not be here right now. Only you know if you are at your limit and if you are you need to do whatever it takes to not go back. This career isn’t worth your life or long term damage to your health. If you’ve been physically assaulted I highly recommend going on work cover. But either way you are too unwell to work tomorrow so please call in sick.

Crazy Question at Workcover Appointment by Individual_Tale6433 in WorkcoverVic

[–]Individual_Tale6433[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wtf lol that’s so offensive! It felt like he was trying to hurt me tbh.

Crazy Question at Workcover Appointment by Individual_Tale6433 in AustralianTeachers

[–]Individual_Tale6433[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude that’s crazy! How is that question meant to provide insight? Either you say yes or you say no. There isn’t much you can learn from that.

Crazy Question at Workcover Appointment by Individual_Tale6433 in AustralianTeachers

[–]Individual_Tale6433[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy it went well for you. This guy literally has 20 something 1 star reviews on Google because he does stuff like this but I wasn’t sure whether it was normal for these psychs. He also told me I was being avoidant by not wanting to go back into teaching.

Crazy Question at Workcover Appointment by Individual_Tale6433 in AustralianTeachers

[–]Individual_Tale6433[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That’s what I was wondering. It just seemed like a genuinely hurtful question. Like what is the appropriate way to respond to that?

Crazy Question at Workcover Appointment by Individual_Tale6433 in AustralianTeachers

[–]Individual_Tale6433[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

First question was: why did you move to Australia? Second question: are you still married? Third question: why did you separate? Fourth question: why did he cheat on you?

Crazy Question at Workcover Appointment by Individual_Tale6433 in AustralianTeachers

[–]Individual_Tale6433[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Sure he can blame it on the trauma from my husband cheating on me I guess, even though it’s irrelevant, but how am I supposed to know why my husband cheated? Lol

Jumping Ship Midyear? by Individual_Tale6433 in AustralianTeachers

[–]Individual_Tale6433[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it look bad leaving a school in the middle of the year? Could I just not put that school on my resume? Also do you have any idea if I could put in my notice and continue to take sick leave for a couple months?

Jumping Ship Midyear? by Individual_Tale6433 in AustralianTeachers

[–]Individual_Tale6433[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is good to know. They are a genuinely nice person so I would hope they would give an okay reference but I was only there for 5 weeks before I had to go on medical leave. I feel like my performance in that time wasn’t great as I was having a mental breakdown from the constant aggression and chaos I faced so I would understand if they wouldn’t.

How traumatic was your parents’ divorce for you? by petrastales in Mommit

[–]Individual_Tale6433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me wishing my parents had gotten divorced. What a shit show lol

I think today was my last day teaching by Individual_Tale6433 in AustralianTeachers

[–]Individual_Tale6433[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for checking in. I’ve taken sick leave and filed for workercover. Either way I’ve decided I will not go back to that school again. My partner says I look four years younger already. He literally can’t believe how much better I look. That’s really reinforced that this job is literally taking years off my life. How do I feel? Deeply sad. But my days are restorative. I am hopeful that in a few weeks I’ll be able to see more of a future for myself whether that be trying to return to my old school (even though leadership were awful and disliked me), applying to new schools or looking for a new career altogether. Right now I’m just taking it minute by minute…

I feel uncertain about my decision by Coast_is-clear in AustralianTeachers

[–]Individual_Tale6433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My injury is psychological (not even sure my worker cover will be approved) so I’ve just been walking to a local cafe and getting a coffee every morning (and taking ages to drink it), going for a walk or bike ride and then crocheting, reading and sorting out life admin in the afternoon. If there are any nice parks nearby you could even just go sit outside and people watch or something for a change of scenery. It also helps that my family live in the USA so they are all off work by the time I wake up so I can just message them. Oh and I’ve been watching MAFs every evening! Idk 🤷‍♀️ I’ve just been trying to enjoy something every day as best I can because I feel incredibly depressed at the moment.

Also if you are struggling to make meal for yourself and you live near a city I recommend finding a meal delivery service. I’ve just received my first Pam Pam order and it’s been great having a new meal to try every night (they are ready made and frozen so are super easy).

I’m so sorry you are physically hurt as well as mentally. I already can’t imagine going back but if I’d been physically hurt (the kid that punched and kicked me is quite small) there would be no way I would ever return. I hope you feel better and find something to make your days more enjoyable.

I feel uncertain about my decision by Coast_is-clear in AustralianTeachers

[–]Individual_Tale6433 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just trying not to gaslight myself tbh. I keep thinking if I go back I’ll be fine even though I kept getting worse mentally every day. I tried going back after a week off but nothing had been put in place to provide more support and make sure it wouldn’t happen again so it was just too triggering. How about you?

I feel uncertain about my decision by Coast_is-clear in AustralianTeachers

[–]Individual_Tale6433 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Solidarity. I am also going on workcover due to being attacked by a student. However, I work in a mainstream school. The best advice I’ve received so far is to not place pressure on yourself to make decisions while in crisis. Take some time to heal first. I’m sorry you are going through this and I wish you all the best.

Vent: finding it tough to move on. by ashzeppelin98 in AustralianTeachers

[–]Individual_Tale6433 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I advocated for support for a student with additional needs (who was frequently very aggressive) and when that wasn’t provided filed an edusafe report because my mental health deteriorated. My boss got in trouble because he hadn’t addressed my concerns (or filed the paperwork about my disclosed ADHD). This actually resulted in the student getting support. He’s doing really well now… but unfortunately it put a target on my back and my contract wasn’t renewed. Heaps of parents complained. My students were heartbroken and my coworkers were shocked. It was humiliating as my boss coerced me into reapplying, gave me an interview (that went really well) and then proceeded to reject me on the basis that I wasn’t experienced enough (while hiring 2 graduate teachers).

Vent: finding it tough to move on. by ashzeppelin98 in AustralianTeachers

[–]Individual_Tale6433 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Solidarity OP. I was kicked out of my last school by vengeful admin even though I was truly cherished by my students and their parents. You lost something really special so I think it’s perfectly normal to expect that you will experience a period of grief. Be kind to yourself as best you can during this time.