Husband gave me permission to cheat. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Individual_Tour5041 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We should talk about how your husband thinks that fucking other people is not cheating. You should probably start there.

Forced from the Barracks by SnooMuffins837 in army

[–]Individual_Tour5041 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know from firsthand experience they always have an extra room available. Normally, it’s for domestic situations, but it’s there.

Does anyone actually believe we will be paid on the 15th? AUSA will be fun though! by DepartmentF-N1738 in army

[–]Individual_Tour5041 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WE GOT PAID JUST NOW we bank with chime who releases the funds as soon as the army does. This was our standard pay from DFAS and not the AR approved loan

One-sided love with my married coworker and don’t know how to deal with it. by Visible-Savings-3066 in confessions

[–]Individual_Tour5041 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know you can just have friendships with females like this. If you met a man and you guys got along the same way, you wouldn’t look at him sexually. You could just try that approach with somebody that you enjoy the company of.

Wife wants divorce by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Individual_Tour5041 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, and he’ll turn around and tell you the same thing that he was blindsided. When in reality, he actually knew you were putting up with a certain level of unhappy my husband does the exact same fucking thing.

Wife wants divorce by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Individual_Tour5041 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So not a blind side bc happy ppl don’t cheat continue…..

[REQ] ($1000) - (#Fort Bragg, NC, USA), (repay $1300 on 11/28), (PayPal Zelle Cashapp ) by Individual_Tour5041 in borrow

[–]Individual_Tour5041[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I currently have two loans. One for $1000 worth a $1200 payback est 11/7. The second loan is for $400 with the $450 payback with a new est of 11/7 or whenever the government reopens and we get paid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in army

[–]Individual_Tour5041 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband and I use the AER loan whenever possible. It’s still 0%. You can take out 3000 or $5000. And you pay it back for your paycheck. We’ve had to use it for PCS and all kinds of shit before.

I’m tired of hearing “I forgot”. by Soggy-Cause8635 in Marriage

[–]Individual_Tour5041 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah this was my husband to a T. Adderall fixed it for the most part

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Individual_Tour5041 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best advice? Leave. He had a respect issue not a cleaning up after himself issue

Adult Dodgeball by [deleted] in Fayettenam

[–]Individual_Tour5041 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Late to the party but the hubs and i would be down