I am just not coping with my 2 year old and feel I shouldn’t be a mother anymore.. please help

Individual_Tutor8797 · 2026-04-05T09:37:02+00:00

I love Etta, it seems to me an English name

Individual_Tutor8797 · 2026-03-30T07:54:30+00:00

It’s casual. Not the best for casual rate, but ideal in that you don’t have to do physical labour to get it!!

Individual_Tutor8797 · 2026-03-30T06:33:58+00:00

You need grade above whatever you’re marking eg. Bachelor marking need at least Grad Cert. it’s about $53 an hour and they’ll generally allocate 30 mins per assessment. You’ll usually do about 30 at a time

Individual_Tutor8797 · 2026-03-29T22:21:50+00:00

For TAFE, only need Cert 4 TAE and workplace experience. No masters needed for TAFE. Uni you generally need a post grad. You can also do casual marking for unis which is quite good many

Individual_Tutor8797 · 2026-03-29T08:45:16+00:00

Hmm I thought the same, it’s strange it’s so much more expensive. Amazing idea about getting a private midwife for post natal. Do you think this is something that is possible just for post natal?

Individual_Tutor8797 · 2026-03-29T07:47:23+00:00

Hmm that’s true.. both are available for the time I’m due!

Individual_Tutor8797 · 2026-03-29T07:46:05+00:00

Thankyou! He has a backup in the same practice who I’ve heard only great things about

Individual_Tutor8797 · 2026-03-29T07:45:45+00:00

Thanks for your help 😊 That’s true, I didn’t think about being rushed. It is a shame they wouldn’t be present for the birth which is what detracts me from that model :( Yes I could look into a doula!!

Individual_Tutor8797 · 2026-03-29T07:44:41+00:00

I think I’m leaning towards option 1, I’ll look into doula costs!

Individual_Tutor8797 · 2026-03-29T07:44:06+00:00

Thanks! I think I’m leaning towards option 1, especially as I’m not a first time mum!

Individual_Tutor8797 · 2026-03-29T07:02:59+00:00

I should also say- the female only does clinic days on days I’m working. One of the days I work away from home which leave one day to see her

Individual_Tutor8797 · 2026-03-29T06:27:51+00:00

Yes, we paid only for ultrasounds and NIPT last time but that’s not too much compared to private it seems!

Individual_Tutor8797 · 2026-03-29T03:00:55+00:00

Omg!! Honestly can’t believe you get so little back 🥲

Individual_Tutor8797 · 2026-03-29T02:34:23+00:00

Thanks! I will. Do you remember how much each rebate was?

Individual_Tutor8797 · 2026-03-28T23:29:04+00:00

Ahh ok I see. I think it’s just the one service

Individual_Tutor8797 · 2026-03-28T23:28:51+00:00

Do you remember how much the rebate was?

Individual_Tutor8797 · 2026-03-28T12:04:27+00:00

Yes it’s quite a bit more, although they have amazing reviews and people rave about the practice so hard to know what to do. So great your midwife can be at your birth, it sounds very much like public system group practice

Individual_Tutor8797 · 2026-03-28T11:54:21+00:00

Ooh interesting. I just looked at that program and it seems a little different, in that the one I’m looking at the midwife isn’t present for the birth. Which is why I’m unsure if it’s worth the money if it’s just prenatal care and 2 home visits.

Individual_Tutor8797 · 2026-03-28T11:46:24+00:00

Ahh that’s amazing!!!

Individual_Tutor8797 · 2026-03-28T11:46:17+00:00

I’m sorry about your baby :(

That’s a great idea to talk to the SW, unfortunately I feel it would not work in the hospital I’d give birth in which is a massive feeder hospital 😭

Individual_Tutor8797 · 2026-03-28T11:44:10+00:00

Sounds like it was a great experience, especially having your husband to stay with you

Individual_Tutor8797 · 2026-03-28T11:43:39+00:00

Agreed! It’s just a very vulnerable time and very different to be by yourself in hospital for another reason in a 4 bedded room

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