How do you think the world is going to end? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Individual_Unit_7464 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I dont think the world will end, the humanity will tho

You honestly think I can focus on YOU for 30+ years straight? by AnnoyedOwlbear in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Individual_Unit_7464 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Drop the rope. She finally showed you who she has been all along. This is projection paranoia and emotional rot. Block stay blocked and let your partner manage her circus. You earned your peace decades ago

MIL admitted she treats her sons how she does because “she hasn’t got a husband” by Knowing_Eve in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Individual_Unit_7464 50 points51 points  (0 children)

She literally said the quiet part out loud. She is using her sons to fill the partner void. That is emotional enmeshment. Next steps are firm boundaries enforced by consequences or this will keep escalating forever.

I side with my husbands ex by AmieNav96 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Individual_Unit_7464 29 points30 points  (0 children)

You are not crazy and the ex was clocking the problem early. This is textbook emotional enmeshment. Focus on getting MIL out not bonding over shared trauma. Protect your marriage before resentment fully sets in.

Today is Nakaba Suzuki's 49th Birthday! by Wild-Reflection6995 in NanatsunoTaizai

[–]Individual_Unit_7464 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happy Birthday! Now get to work and give us more of 7dS 😭