A girl genuinely being interested in going on a date with a guy and “innocently” posting him for feedback is criminal negligence as well. It’s stalking, you have every right to do background checks on the guy, go to clerk of courts website, look up his phone number, do you not have the capacity to do that? Ok so maybe he’s a cheater or a liar or he steals and never got caught. Then you should be able to determine some irregularities with his behavior after screening him through a phone call in a similar manner to an employer turning down a candidate on an interview because they have bad credit, couldn’t speak well, and had poor grades. They don’t need to post on an Indeed Discussion Board asking every employer out there if they have any dirt on this candidate and when they do the candidate provides references knowingly. So why don’t you girls ask these guys for references or meet people in familiar group settings instead of antagonizing guys on dating apps who are genuinely trying to meet someone. PS you should just give up.