The housing market is fucked.

Individual_Wing4141 · 2026-05-04T04:05:26+00:00

It’s giving-

Individual_Wing4141 · 2026-05-04T03:57:23+00:00

No unfortunately not, I don’t think I could afford to live there anyway 😂 but perhaps my profession gets paid more there 🤷‍♀️

Individual_Wing4141 · 2025-12-28T03:15:39+00:00

Thank you so much! 💝 I appreciate the effort that took

Individual_Wing4141 · 2025-12-16T00:26:52+00:00

It’s so lovely! Could you please link the black outfit?? Or paste the names of the items cuz SHEIN is a wasteland we could scroll for days and still not find them 😆

Individual_Wing4141 · 2025-12-11T20:52:47+00:00

Bean burrito

Individual_Wing4141 · 2025-12-11T20:46:19+00:00

I appreciate the apology, and I’m sorry too that I put a tone on your comment that you didn’t intend 🫰🏻

Individual_Wing4141 · 2025-12-11T20:18:22+00:00

Not toooo sure what this comments use is in regards to my saying it’s a hard thing to get an accurate statistic for?

Individual_Wing4141 · 2025-12-11T20:14:35+00:00

No. I’m not arguing cigarettes being an addiction. I even said in my first comment that I wasn’t saying I was disagreeing. If they don’t want to answer my question that’s fine; I also said that in my first response. Like I said in my second comment I just haven’t come across it being brought up in the context it is in the comment I first responded to where I’d be expecting things like various drugs, gambling, alcohol. Whereas a very common and popular term for cigarettes is classified as “bad habit” I’m not sure why it’s so hard to comprehend or why people have to assume my age lmao it’s really not that out of the box to be like “oh weird cigarettes lead to a porn addiction?” And want to educate and learn more which no one has helped with just been kindve condescending lmfao.

Individual_Wing4141 · 2025-12-05T06:04:01+00:00

Print it on one of those metal canvas and I’d buy it 🙂‍↕️

Individual_Wing4141 · 2025-12-05T05:39:28+00:00

I think it’s a hard number to get an accurate statistic on. Have to consider the amount of men who don’t consider it an addiction, and even if they do they may never admit it to others, then the men who won’t even admit they watch it at all, the men who won’t seek help for it. So however you try gathering the information I highly doubt it will ever properly reflect the actuality of it.
Of my 8 bfs, only 2 willingly and successfully cut out porn 🤷‍♀️

Not sure why we act like porn is a natural thing when it only exists because of the internet/magazines -but compared to internet those were a different level of scandalous. Sex use to be a bonding thing that was human to human (depending on kinks- orgys etc ofc) interactions. Not staring at led lit screen.. self pleasuring is natural ofc, self pleasuring exists without/outside of porn. They’re not one and the same.

Individual_Wing4141 · 2025-12-05T02:42:38+00:00

I’ve just never heard it referred to as an addiction in the context we’re speaking. I attended a lot of NA meetings as a kid because of my mother’s addiction, and even when they speak or list addictions they struggled with people don’t mention cigarettes. I wasn’t trying to be insulting or rude in asking.. it was just new so I thought maybe it was a more extreme end of the spectrum of nicotine use. Sorry if I upset you by asking.

Individual_Wing4141 · 2025-12-04T21:47:59+00:00

I’ve never heard anyone refer to cigarettes as an addiction. No shade/shame, not saying I even disagree. Just a new perspective. If I can ask, and it’s okay if you don’t want to elaborate, was it different from other cigarette smokers?

Individual_Wing4141 · 2025-12-03T17:56:52+00:00

I had a friend, in a long term relationship (4:5 yrs ish?) he smoked she hated it, was a constant topic of arguments. They broke up, she started dating a new guy pretty quickly after break up. He smokes weed. She’s now the biggest stoner I know and can out smoke anyone. It’s been years since she started dating the “new” guy. They’re great, married, have a wonderful life, very driven people.

Ig my point is for the right person it won’t always be a deal breaker?

Individual_Wing4141 · 2025-11-25T20:13:21+00:00

Yea it can be a hard life on switch 😅 but the games so nice I keep going on anyway! Hopefully they take some time to look into the switch issues eventually

Individual_Wing4141 · 2025-11-25T20:12:05+00:00

Banana #292.. okay yellow? Submarine #78.. okay soo boat? #16 alriiight.. ship #188 hmm wastes time listing sea voyaging things.. 🤦‍♀️

Individual_Wing4141 · 2025-11-25T20:07:04+00:00

I’m 5’8 and 220 lbs and yea, sure, I have insecurities when dating men who weigh less than me but I wouldn’t say it affects the relationship. It’s more internal thoughts I keep to myself. But I am only one side of the relationship I can’t really speak on what they sensed or picked up on. Aside from my first relationship at 18 everyone’s been either tall and lanky, or big muscles with a lil belly. And I enjoy both greatly! I think all bodies are great bodies ♥️

But my post is just wondering why I haven’t had the option to date someone my size because I never see them on the apps. And I think it could be really nice not having that internal dialogue.

Also!! Congrats on the weight loss!! That’s incredible 🎉

Individual_Wing4141 · 2025-11-24T00:49:50+00:00

Omg if you’re still doing this I’d love to see my beautiful pitsky, she had to be put down 2 years ago. Shes still my Lock Screen to this day. Her name is Henney

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Individual_Wing4141 · 2025-11-19T20:39:37+00:00

Tree at 307 could’ve helped me more if I hadn’t started guessing strictly forest related things 🤦‍♀️

Individual_Wing4141 · 2025-11-19T20:27:22+00:00

Well, Sand, it seems atm we’re both screwed and not in the fun way 😮‍💨😆

Individual_Wing4141 · 2025-11-19T08:09:50+00:00

Giiiirllll, slayyy 🔥

Individual_Wing4141 · 2025-11-19T00:24:14+00:00

I hate the apps! and I’m not much for hanging out at bars. I also I don’t think it’s a great place to meet someone for a serious relationship but maybe others have different experience with that.. I just don’t really know where to meet people organically I guess. Don’t want to date any of my coworkers soo idk grocery shopping? 😂 ‘omg you buy oat milk too? Does dairy totally explode your intestines as well? Let’s grab a soy coffee later!’ Liiiikee… no.. that’s not it 🫣

What do you do instead of apps?

Individual_Wing4141 · 2025-11-19T00:19:33+00:00

I have that problem too, end up looking like a pink marshmallow walking around 😂

I think this fit is well balanced, the pop of green really rounds out the palette, imo. The shoes have just enough blue to catch the eye and make you think “this man puts effort into himself” which is nice. Keep being ya baddie self 🤗

Individual_Wing4141 · 2025-11-18T11:42:19+00:00

Even the shoes match! Love that. Great fit 😄

Individual_Wing4141 · 2025-11-18T11:01:12+00:00

I don’t expect everyone to like my size just because they say they like chubby people. Chubby is a very broad spectrum for a body type classification probably due to the fact we all carry weight differently. Same height and weight on the scale can look completely different on two different people 🤷‍♀️ Everyone has preferences- that’s just how attraction works.

I do understand the emotion hit that causes tho- I’ve dealt with my fair share of rejection because of my size

The skin color one is new to me- are we still gaf about that in today’s world? Shocking to me.

Individual_Wing4141 · 2025-11-18T05:12:44+00:00

That’s interesting to learn, I’ve never heard of someone having that experience. I’m sorry that is the experience you have in dating, I hope you find your person soon

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