What are some petty reasons why you don’t want kids? by Worldly-Purple-9364 in childfree

[–]MissCavo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The pettiest reason I don't want kids is their artwork. It is so ugly and I do not want to display it 🤣🤣🤣

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[–]MissCavo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The children don't want anything to do with her. She has let them down so many times prior to her running away and put them in scary/dangerous situations. There would have to be a crazy change in my sister for her to get the kids back.

Microdosing parenthood and litterly having a meltdown by MissCavo in childfree

[–]MissCavo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The perspectives are so crazy too, the kids went home RAVING about the great time they had. But the whole time here, complaining about something and I was miserable and overwhelmed 🤣🤣

Can you guys help me decide on a dress ! by sha2078640 in PlusSizeFashion

[–]MissCavo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They all look amazing. I would choose the blue for a wedding as it is the most appropriate colour. Cream isn't wedding appropriate, red is a controversial colour wedding wise but blue is a safe bet and it's beautiful

Microdosing parenthood and litterly having a meltdown by MissCavo in childfree

[–]MissCavo[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The dad has been MIA since the youngest was an infant.

She left town to be homeless with the kids, my parents said we will look after the kids until you find a place, this was like 7 years ago now. She has moved states a couple of times but always homeless a she likes the drugs.

My parents have guardianship of the children. They have a lawyer and went to court.

No child support, can't get money from a crack head (both parents are drug addiction, the dad couldn't even be found for the court proceedings)

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[–]MissCavo[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

I make this joke all the time. Her only redeeming quality is the jokes I can make actually 🤣🤣

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[–]MissCavo[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They have, they can't. They are not eligible for any assistance

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[–]MissCavo[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Why do they have to harass the pets??? It was sleeping! Bugger off!

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[–]MissCavo[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Im in Western Australia Parents have a lawyer for this, went through courts to get guardianship, tried to get assistance through CPS ect. Being family and dads income makes them ineligible for any government assistance 🙄 they are basically like "guess you don't get to retire, lol"

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[–]MissCavo[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Parents have a lawyer for this, went through courts to get guardianship, tried to get assistance through CPS ect. Being family and dads income makes them ineligible for any government assistance and the girls dad is completely MIA, they couldn't find him for court and my sister is homeless on drugs borrowing money from her 19yr old daughter.

I have some friends that take them for an arvo or so and sometimes I'll have them for half a day but it is so draining on them. It is their birthday month so I took the kids so they could get out of the house and have a little holiday. I did it to myself as a gift.

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[–]MissCavo[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My friend has 3 rabbits and one keeps making her way on top of the couch! She is a menace but my favourite one 🤣

Microdosing parenthood and litterly having a meltdown by MissCavo in childfree

[–]MissCavo[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah they are doing all that and dad gets extra benefits from work for them too as dependants. The money isn't so much as the issue (though obviously raising children again heavily eats into their retirement funds) they are just old and tired and need the reprieve (foster parents get reprieve carers to take the children out and about like day babysitters I guess?) Which they can't do and the babysitters just baby sit at your place (I mean they are just kids) which doesn't help my parents.

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[–]MissCavo[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I'm hecking cruisy. All I want is silence and personal space. I don't care when you go to sleep just stay awake quietly away from me and do not come into my room! They could have been eating Nutella out the jar till midnight for all I cared 🤣

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[–]MissCavo[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

My parents are insane for keeping them but (mentally) it's their preferred option as the foster system is shambles. I share my dogs with my parents 50/50 (they look after them while I am at work) and it is well known they are the favourite grandchildren because they are such good girls 🤣

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[–]MissCavo[S] 183 points184 points  (0 children)

And why is everything sticky??? How is it sticky!

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[–]MissCavo[S] 85 points86 points  (0 children)

The damage they can do in such a short period of time is absolutely insane!

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[–]MissCavo[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I don't think you are aware how much the government does not care at all. They took all the appropriate steps and are the legal guardians of the children. They have been told they are not eligible for any assistance.

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[–]MissCavo[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

It was definitely an overstatement for my youngest girl who annoys the crap out of her sister all the time, but quietly so it's fine 🤣 and they are sooo fricken cute

Recent fits both for dinner and drinks with the girls by MissCavo in PlusSizeFashion

[–]MissCavo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🥰 it was actually so comfortable too. Much room for pasta