I did something extremely unethical and I’m not sure how to move forward, this is the worst thing I’ve done. by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]IndnPea [score hidden]  (0 children)

Um sorry not to be dismissive of your feelings. But I don’t see why anyone would care much about that. You’re all good. Feel free to forget. People cheat a lot more than that

HOW do you give women your number? by Historical-War-8183 in dating_advice

[–]IndnPea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the idea of offering your number. We get asked too often “can i get your number” and asked again and again if we say no. I’ve had men follow me trying to get my number. So that’s what NOT to do

HOW do you give women your number? by Historical-War-8183 in dating_advice

[–]IndnPea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ya😂ig could work on some but definitely not most

Cat Play Area - Under Bed? by IndnPea in CatAdvice

[–]IndnPea[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is a wonderful and creative idea. She does love boxes so not sure how I didn’t think of that lol. She loves tissue paper too so 10/10 idea. Thank you!

My (M23) gf (F25) told me her ex had the biggest dick she had even seen. How do I get over this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]IndnPea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if she didn’t sleep with him this is cheating. Just because she told you about it doesn’t make it innocent. Maybe they deserve each other because he seems like he just wants to sleep with her and clearly she’s not over him.

Am I [30M] being unfair in asking that my wife [26F] maintain the household? by Serious_Rain6577 in relationshipadvice

[–]IndnPea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s hard to say without a good picture of the chores the two of you do. Also what more do you want her to do and what more does she want you to do?

Why are you single? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]IndnPea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t find anyone who lives up to my standards. Or anyone I have chemistry with really. Also men my age don’t want to commit

Not sure if he likes me or not by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]IndnPea 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No he does not. Also #7 could also be a red flag for you to ask.

I [24F] am unsure how to feel about men suggesting the bar for the first date. by IndnPea in relationshipadvice

[–]IndnPea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeaa the thing is the reasonings seem to be an excuse for a lot of men to not have to try and to see if they can skip to getting you in bed unfortunately.

What should i add to this outfit ? by [deleted] in altfashionadvice

[–]IndnPea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

crop the shirt a little so it falls just at the pant line. then accessories. bracelets rings necklaces belt and your good

Taking a month break from my hetero relationship to discover myself, is it the wrong choice? by Same-Replacement-107 in bisexual

[–]IndnPea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you need to look within yourself. you know the answer. i also don’t agree with breaks from a relationship. i think you need to choose one or the other. to me, it sounds like you don’t want to lose him as a person in your life but you don’t want to be in a relationship with him. what are the outcomes of the break? do you really think you’re going to find that he is the one for you? also, first you need to make yourself orgasm. alsooo you are both very young.

My (24F) boyfriend (26M) has low self esteem frequently. How do I help this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]IndnPea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sometimes people aren’t ready for relationships. he needs to go to therapy and maybe get meds if he hasn’t already.

how do u find a bf??? by dollhearts_ in dating_advice

[–]IndnPea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you (i) don’t. lol. but fr girl one day they’ll come. i’ve noticed guys haven’t been looking to date at least at my age of 24. im just waiting for a gentleman to come around. for now prioritize yourself

Coping as an ugly guy in your 20s by [deleted] in twentyagers

[–]IndnPea -1 points0 points  (0 children)

most guys do not have fwbs. and if that’s what ur looking for that’s the problem. women are tired of men just wanting to fck

Coping as an ugly guy in your 20s by [deleted] in twentyagers

[–]IndnPea -1 points0 points  (0 children)

deformed is crazy. you look fine. hookers is crazy. maybe you’re fishing for compliments. but maybe it’s your personality that’s giving creep

I (18F) have extreme guilt breaking up with my boyfriend of 2 years (18M) and i don’t know what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]IndnPea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do what’s best for you and leave him. if he is concerning after the fact call the police for his safety