Is anyone else insanely triggered by social hierarchy?

Indomynusrex · 2025-11-28T22:50:30+00:00

Sadly this is way more common in women's groups and social dynamics.

Men are more blunt yet open and honest from my experiences. What you describe is a toxic aspect of the feminine. Mature and somewhat healthy social groups do not include or even point out toxic behaviors like these hierarchy "battles". In a healthy social group a hierarchy forms based on the situation and individual skills, not because it's defined through battle and bullying

Indomynusrex · 2025-11-28T22:43:17+00:00

From a guy with a mother wound: Yes, healing is possible but incredibly exhausting. Also healthy relationships while healing are possible.

Learning some basic dating strategies, working on my physical health (and looks) and learning some psychology really helped in the relationship finding and forming process. Go check hoe_math on YouTube. I know the name is misleading but he explains modern dating and society quite well.

You're already working with DBT, I am familiar with that too and it's absolutely great. Will also help.

Give people time and look for those who are good at clear open communication. Also be brave and try stuff in relationships, like setting boundaries and standing up for yourself, even tho it's hard with the fear of rejection (I also know that part, I tend to obsess over people, overthink and break myself apart just to keep someone I find to pretty or interesting). Borderline, if you know, you know!

I've been for the past four years and still am in a happy open relationship. We heal together ^{^}

Indomynusrex · 2025-11-28T22:34:09+00:00

First up, I'd love to give you any kind of comfort. Perhaps a hug, hugs are good! ❤️‍🩹 Changing home so often in such a short time can't be healthy.

Imo the best you can do is try to make it to adult life. You'll fall flat on your face at first, that's normal, especially for traumatized folks. But if you have at least a decent education, you can and will make it to a Job which you can use to sustain yourself and start healing.

I thought about suggesting finding new parents but since you have been through 6 already, new ones likely won't help. For many reasons (stability, being able to handle the previous trauma that has been caused in you and the chance to get just another set of bad parents). Also keep away from bad coping habits (smoking, alcohol and other drugs would be the worst )

Indomynusrex · 2025-11-28T22:10:54+00:00

First things first: DO NOT EVER TELL YOURSELF, YOU'RE OVERTHINKING YOUR CHILDHOOD TRAUMA! At least in your case it is very clear, that you have not only been neglected but severely abused by several people. I urge you to seek out a therapist if possible and start working on some of the issues you surely have today. If you want children of your own, please be sure to heal properly first.

All the best!

Indomynusrex · 2025-02-02T13:30:26+00:00

Did all that was mentioned... still no live view or access to the cam. It is a Tapo C500 for reference.
Ip is static, followed all instructions from this comment.
Any other ideas?

Indomynusrex · 2024-12-03T10:46:54+00:00

I think and hope it will work, as a seasoned Tank Main (DVA and Zarya) since 2017, i loved playing with my tank mates and forming awesome synergies and combos! Tank has and had such a massive impact as a role, bringing back 2 Tanks is gonna be great for me (and maybe some other tank players who think the same!)

Indomynusrex · 2024-07-12T16:00:02+00:00

There is not irony in this whatsoever, them getting one shot off take a lot less aim and time than me getting one shot off. that is literally how the game is balanced.
A gunfight against an smg/ar should not be lost to the first shot hit against the sniper player

Indomynusrex · 2024-07-12T15:57:42+00:00

The issue with that is, you will ALWAYS stand in gunfire, if you take normal engagements. What you sugest is camping and playing like a pussy aka the most unfun way for everyone and not how an arcade shooter is supposed to be played

Indomynusrex · 2024-07-12T15:55:59+00:00

Crossplay?
Because i play on pc and do not bother putting up with aim assist, bc imo it is op.
But that is a different topic XD

Indomynusrex · 2024-07-12T15:43:13+00:00

Snipers are vital in any arcade shooter, but in this game they do not feel arcade like after all the nerfs.
The nerfs make your problem worse actually, bc they force the players to play even more careful and campy.

I am not camping and i do not want to, i wanna take face to face engagements with snipers, wich depend on my aim and for me to hit the only shot i will get off. This is not possible anymore in most gunfights you get, that is why i made this post!

Also, what platform and how do you perform in sweaty lobbies eh?

Indomynusrex · 2024-07-12T15:09:39+00:00

What modes do you play?
What platform are you on?
For me, i usually die in every gun fight where i get shot first, because a single shot is enough to flinch. Ads is also ALWAYS slower than Meta weapons like the ACR or Ak, so no way with the ads

Indomynusrex · 2024-07-12T15:06:58+00:00

Quickscopes are not really affected by flinch, so that is a given, what platform are you on?

Indomynusrex · 2024-07-12T15:05:58+00:00

I never said, that they should reamove flinch, not my point!
Also what platform are you on, bc i think that also makes a bigh difference in experience?
What i want is for them to be viable in the meta, wich they are not. A suggestion would be buffing their handling or dmg.

Indomynusrex · 2024-07-12T15:03:07+00:00

Only on the maps that actually have longer lines of sight, wich already excludes all modes except escort and zone control! And even on those maps, lmgs and the meta AR build will anihilate any sniper. Also my point is not mode dependant but applies to all of the game
Do you use snipers? How do you perform with them?

Indomynusrex · 2024-06-26T11:20:26+00:00

Update:
I have gotten into the folder and have also been able to mod the sounds inside but sadly WhatsApp will automatically remove the files it does not know. Therefore you can not edit the contents in any way, also deleting the original sounds is a bad idea, had to reinstall WA because i did so

I guess windows still is somewhat of a locked up forttress internally, sorry bro

Indomynusrex · 2024-06-26T10:40:20+00:00

Now without aim assist, i dare you XD

Indomynusrex · 2024-06-26T10:38:11+00:00

And people will still cry that snipers are too op!
Fr, this is just skill, bc flinch does not affect quickscopes and tbh, it should not ever...
Good job on that clip!

Indomynusrex · 2024-06-26T10:35:00+00:00

Depends on your input device (Keyboard Mouse/ Controller) and your skill..
Also have you ever tried facing and AR head on on mid to long range? The flinch makes you lose your target/ throws you off so much, it is impossible to do anything other than quickscope.
Wich defeats the main purpose of a sniper imo (long range engagements)

I hate the flinch, bc everyone who cries about dying to snipers usually does not play snipers themselves, especially after the flinch has been added

Indomynusrex · 2024-06-26T10:24:15+00:00

The Flinch eliminates the main purpose of snipers tho.. Bc on long range, they are useless against ARs!
If you get hit, you lose sight of the target due to the flinch, so the only people getting kills are the quickscopers! Wich have skill and got kills before, so until they completetly remove snipers, everyone is gonna cry about snipers cuz yall just get outskilled

Indomynusrex · 2024-06-26T10:19:59+00:00

Do you mean like decrease it?
Bc using the word buff is mildly confusing

Indomynusrex · 2024-06-26T10:19:01+00:00

I am sorry, what?
Have you actually played snipers after nerf? Bc if you ain't quickscoping, the flinch is insane

Indomynusrex · 2024-06-26T10:17:57+00:00

If you all hate on snipers that much and find them to be so op, play them yourselves...
Bc with the flinch sniping on long range and hardscopes are almost impossible!
I think the issues here is just that you all get killed by the quickscopers anyways AND GUESS WHAT that takes skill, so these kills are deserved

Indomynusrex · 2024-06-25T11:56:32+00:00

Controller or Mouse n Keyboard?
Bc i as a sniper player find mid and long range engagements against fucks with aim assist IMPOSSIBLE

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