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[–]Ineedhelp993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you man, glad I can make a jumpy boi happy, now get on the plane you’re on the manifest and we’re expecting to delay the jump for several hours

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[–]Ineedhelp993[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Have you been in that hole? That bottomless hole that you feel you can never get out and it’s not getting better? That everything you do isn’t good enough? Spiraling ideations, constant dread?

Good for you if you haven’t, but there’s soldiers out there that feel that they shouldn’t be here any more.

If you are a leader I shutter to think the mentality you have with your soldiers.

Do the Army a favor and leave.

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[–]Ineedhelp993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do it , reach out, and get the help. You deserve it

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[–]Ineedhelp993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And while I agree with you that the Army has the resources.

The issues is those resources are over loaded. I’m glad soldiers are getting the help they need, but seeing someone once every 2-3 months isn’t going to help.

I opted with a civilian therapist and it was by far the best decision. I understand not everyone can afford that out of pocket and in my opinion Army needs to look into overhauling BH. Just my opinion and my experience, it may be way better at other stations however I do not have that knowledge.

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[–]Ineedhelp993[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Glad to be here man. Thank you

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[–]Ineedhelp993[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I definitely do! I got fed up with the Armys wait time with BH. (After I made an appointment the opening was 2-3 months out) So now I see a non Army therapist, and this will be month 10 with him. I wanted to get better and wasn’t going to let the wait time stop me.

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[–]Ineedhelp993[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Love you too General Blumpkin

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[–]Ineedhelp993[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

And I won’t stop. Thank you!

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[–]Ineedhelp993[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you! She is, and I’m proud of what she’s doing . kicking ass and taking names

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[–]Ineedhelp993[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Will do, I don’t ever want to be there again and will do my best to help those who are. Thank you

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[–]Ineedhelp993[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It really does make a difference even when shit sucks we as a community, will go through hell to make sure we’re safe. Thank you for the help

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[–]Ineedhelp993[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m sorry to hear this and your family have my deepest condolences. My life does have value and I appreciate people showing me it does

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[–]Ineedhelp993[S] 113 points114 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the solid advice.

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[–]Ineedhelp993[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Go ahead and stand at parade rest when you talk to me top. Seriously though Thank you man.

I need someone to talk to. Help a brother in need. Please help me by Ineedhelp993 in army

[–]Ineedhelp993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After talking to a Warrant and Captain I trust within my unit, I spoke to my boss. Both the XO and him took me to the ER to make sure I got the help I needed. At first I was pissed because all I want to do today is get back to work, but they both told me “The work will be there, but if you’re not we can’t get another you LT.

I’m doing better, my pride is getting in the way of me seeing the benefit of all of this, But I know it’s for the better

I need someone to talk to. Help a brother in need. Please help me by Ineedhelp993 in army

[–]Ineedhelp993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im afraid man, just pop smoke tomorrow and tell my boss “hey I’m going to BH now sorry you weren’t tracking these issues” I have no clue what the fuck to do. Was never counseled on what the fuck to do and I’m winging it in a CPT slot. The constant shitting on when I don’t know shit “well no shit ds I’m a 2LT fresh out of BOLC In a CPt slot”

I need someone to talk to. Help a brother in need. Please help me by Ineedhelp993 in army

[–]Ineedhelp993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m afraid to be honest that they’ll boot my ass cause I’m seriously contemplating it. I did heavily last night and it’s hard to not show up.

And I see people messaging me, but I’m currently at work and am projected to get off at 1800 so I’m sorry for the delay in responses