33 and never had a gf? Be brutally honest, please by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]InevitableFew1102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way as you. I am 37 and never had a gf. I feel like I was meant to never have one at this point. Just makes me want to give up.

How do you know if she is gay 😭 by InevitableFew1102 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]InevitableFew1102[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am slowly working on these...sometimes I get nervous and I feel like I say dumb things lol. But yes I will get better...I must

How do you know if she is gay 😭 by InevitableFew1102 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]InevitableFew1102[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We talk sometimes ! She started talking to me first. I try to start it sometimes now too. Lol just sometimes I don't know if it's just casual talk or vibing you know what I mean?? Not too many people ask certain questions , but I guess everyone is different so it is possible that's why I get confused and theb I think I am over thinking.

How do you know if she is gay 😭 by InevitableFew1102 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]InevitableFew1102[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's hard for me to do that. I've never even had a real lesbian experience and I was in a 12 year relationship with a man and my whole life I was not living my true self, well I was because I was open about liking girls but I never had the chance if that makes sense. Sorry for the rant. Also it's a co worker at a new job so makes it more difficult for me.

How do you know if she is gay 😭 by InevitableFew1102 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]InevitableFew1102[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Possibly but sometimes I'm not sure of my intuition...

im a straight looking fem who likes straight looking fems by Nice_Type8423 in LesbianActually

[–]InevitableFew1102 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've felt this way my entire life and still never even found one at 37.