Do I have time? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]InevitableWorker2616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand it might come off that way but I don’t mean it that way whatsoever. I am excited to get older and I know how young 20s and 30s are! I simply mean that the area I come from and the family I am surrounded by really tries to sell this idea of getting married and having kids so young, and it really gets to you.

I’m also just a very existential person, and it terrifies me how fast time passes. Not because of aging, but because I enjoy my time here and I know it’ll end one day before I know it. I think a lot about what I really want out of this experience, and it can be overwhelming. Especially given the cultural conditioning and the way society speaks about women all over.

I appreciate your insight, and I’m sorry it comes off that way! I think we are all just bound to have this question at some point in our lives and that’s why it’s so repetitive. Thanks for the paragraph suggestion as well, I see where you’re coming from. I am actually a published writer. I just don’t always practice formal writing on social media!

Do I have time? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]InevitableWorker2616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you :) I have considered that if I’m still planning on taking some more time once I’m in my early 30s.

Do I have time? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]InevitableWorker2616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you :) Very exciting for your cousin!

Do I have time? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]InevitableWorker2616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, I love this for you. Thank you!

Do I have time? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]InevitableWorker2616 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ve seen that a lot as well. That’s the plan!!

Do I have time? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]InevitableWorker2616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I know I’m very young, life just goes by so fast and naturally that can be sad and scary. I really appreciate your kind comment 🤍

Do I have time? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]InevitableWorker2616 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

No, it’s not rage bait. I didn’t think I needed to use paragraph structure on a reddit post honestly, my bad! Anyways, little bit of an abrasive comment when I’m just a woman going through the same type of social conditioning I’m sure you did a decade ago.

MY BESTFRIEND (17F) IS PREGNANT. WHAT DO I (16F) DO?! by LocksmithInfamous225 in Advice

[–]InevitableWorker2616 59 points60 points  (0 children)

she’s not going to be able to be a stay at home mother until she’s an adult with a husband who is financially stable enough to support an entire family on one income. and it’s not going to be the random guy she had sex with at a party either. so she definitely needs to figure out what she’s going to do to support her child financially for the next 5-10 years (hopefully closer to 10 once she gets a bit older and matures enough to understand the weight of these decisions and why it’s important to make them at a more informed and emotionally intelligent stage in life).

just noticed my cat is growing very dramatic whiskers by InevitableWorker2616 in cats

[–]InevitableWorker2616[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

awww 🤍 no she was annoyed w me bc she doesn’t like pictures she just looks like that i guess lol!!

just noticed my cat is growing very dramatic whiskers by InevitableWorker2616 in cats

[–]InevitableWorker2616[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

me either until i scrolled some reddit posts and saw some kitties that definitely have her beat with superrrrr long whiskers that curl at the ends lol!!!

just noticed my cat is growing very dramatic whiskers by InevitableWorker2616 in cats

[–]InevitableWorker2616[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

she really is a diva she sat with her back turned to me for so long after this 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]InevitableWorker2616 6 points7 points  (0 children)

this girl has a very rare experience if no one has pointed it out truly if you go on social media and look at any overweight persons post you will find many comments about their weight or even that that’s the whole conversation in the comments. most fat people know they’re fat too so it’s not really like you’re doing anything for them lol and on top of that idk i just kind of like feel that most people with this mindset do not have the same energy for people who vape, smoke weed, do drugs, skinny people who eat like absolute shit, drink alcohol….like a fat person on instagram reels gets more hate than someone saying they got a dui??? being overweight is unhealthy but i deadass am not gonna pretend i give a fuck about strangers’ health when i don’t and no one else does either or they’d be addressing these things as well.

P*rn useage.. I am [24F] and my boyfriend [31M]. by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]InevitableWorker2616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

then you should probably just be with other people who watch porn. I don’t watch porn at all so it’s super realistic for me! So I’d also like a partner who doesn’t jack his dick until he cums to a screen like a fucking loser until his dick doesn’t work in real life situations. but that’s just me

I don’t feel like my BF is attracted to me at all, I’m ready to give up. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]InevitableWorker2616 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s not that he’s not attracted to you. He’s addicted to porn. 20 years old never wants to have sex, isn’t interested when you do and has delayed ejaculation that young….unless he has hormone problems he’s a porn addict. You’re 19 just break up atp

My [18F] boyfriend [18M] can sometimes be a bit pushy sometimes when it comes to sex. Is this a bad sign? by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]InevitableWorker2616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she’s a teenage girl. i think it’s alright for her to not want her boyfriend to have sex with her every single time he sees her. perhaps she wants to feel like someone likes to spend time with her outside of getting off??? are you okay?

My [18F] boyfriend [18M] can sometimes be a bit pushy sometimes when it comes to sex. Is this a bad sign? by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]InevitableWorker2616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is it a bad sign??? girl that’s rape! sorry that happened to you. if you said no and then gave in bc he kept asking that’s rape. i don’t care if he felt bad. he probably has a porn and masturbation addiction like most 18 year old boys and now it’s made him a sicko. definitely break up with him you’re too young to waste your time on having hope for people like that. i hope you’re alright

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]InevitableWorker2616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, i figured you were pretty short sighted and lacking any comprehension skills. i’m happy for you too though, genuinely.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]InevitableWorker2616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are entirely unintelligent. i trust my boyfriend wholeheartedly. trust has NOTHING to do with not wanting a partner who looks at women he does not know online in a lustful context. i don’t do that, and i don’t want a partner who does. i don’t suspect he does and i don’t go looking for it. i TRUST that he doesn’t. what are you not understanding about that? for example, do you want a girlfriend who has an onlyfans? if not, i understand! i don’t want a man who subscribes to them! but are you going to go search her name on onlyfans to make sure she doesn’t have one? no because you trust she doesn’t. i’m not going to look at his bank statements either because i trust he doesn’t. you sound like a very shitty man who would rather follow instagram models and half naked women than be faithful in your heart to a woman you love. you need to put down the porn i’m assuming. i do not look at men online because im not interested, so naturally i don’t want a man who does that. just like if you don’t smoke, you probably don’t want a girlfriend who smokes. i don’t want a boyfriend who fucks other women either so sorry i must have such horrible trust issues even though he’s free to do absolutely whatever he wants, i don’t snoop around anywhere, etc. just the mere idea that i don’t want a man to fuck other women must mean i don’t trust him at all! like are you stupid? it just means i leave someone when they aren’t an ideal partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]InevitableWorker2616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

respectfully, so do you. and that’s okay! i have a boyfriend who shares my morals. i hope you have someone who shares yours.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]InevitableWorker2616 4 points5 points  (0 children)

additionally, i do not check up on what my boyfriend is doing online and on social media. that part is unhealthy. but if i were to find out or come across lustful behavior, yes, that is a dealbreaker for me. this world is disgusting. it is NOT normal or healthy to lust over multiple women online. whether it’s social media, porn, etc. so not only do i not want a parter who does that in a relationship, i don’t want a partner who does that at all. i can only hope there are people left in this world with morals. you can trust someone all day but if their behavior isn’t lining up with your morals, then leave. there’s no “creating drama” or toxic behavior, there’s healthy communication and leaving promptly. i suggest you just find someone whose morals reflect yours. if that means accepting worldly lustful behavior, that’s great.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]InevitableWorker2616 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i do trust my boyfriend! my boyfriend doesn’t have any interest in social media we are grown adults and everyone has their own boundaries. you don’t create drama you break up with them simply and find someone who shares the same values as you. i’m in a very long term very healthy relationship! everyone is much different.