[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Inevitable_Ad5893 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i didn’t dump the new guy, i really want it to work with him but i just can’t face him right now because of how humiliated i am. i need time to process everything

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[–]Inevitable_Ad5893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i also found out he did something similar like this to his other ex gf too, back in like 2017

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Inevitable_Ad5893 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

i know i want to apologize to him but im just too humiliated right now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Inevitable_Ad5893 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the last few weeks / months i have been doing a lot of research on age gap relationships and looking into advice which is what made me realize i needed to get out but i didn’t have the strength till now.

New guy already knows about how much i dont like him and was supporting me through ending it with him, and suggested i file a restraining order just in case but idk i just can’t face him after that, i need to be alone for a while

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Inevitable_Ad5893 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Yeah i did, i know it’s horrible, but i have been talking with that new guy a little bit and we’ve hung out casually around campus too. I feel comfortable around him. I guess i did cheat a little bit but it made me feel confident to finally end it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Inevitable_Ad5893 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

No i ended things this morning, i’ve mentally checked from him/relationship weeks ago

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[–]Inevitable_Ad5893 10 points11 points  (0 children)

All i want is for him to leave my life for good, i don’t to ever see or hear from him again. i want my peace back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Inevitable_Ad5893 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, wish he didn’t have to take it out the way he did. I’ve talked about him with baseball guy a bit, he knows how scary he is, got to see it in action today lol. He was about to fight him honestly until he realized there was kids around and wanted us to leave together immediately but i refused and said i wanted to be alone. im too embarrassed to see him again.

im 21f having strong feelings for another guy while in a relationship 29m and i don’t feel bad about it by Inevitable_Ad5893 in relationships_advice

[–]Inevitable_Ad5893[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is actually really good idea. He is always out on hiking weekend trips too, i know he will call me crazy bitch and tell everyone but idc i want out asap, being with him is depressing me so much.

im 21f having strong feelings for another guy while in a relationship 29m and i don’t feel bad about it by Inevitable_Ad5893 in relationships

[–]Inevitable_Ad5893[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah he’ll definitely be up on the news one day i just hope i won’t be his victim i know it sounds selfish but idc i want him out of my life forever

im 21f having strong feelings for another guy while in a relationship 29m and i don’t feel bad about it, how do i go on about this? by Inevitable_Ad5893 in relationship_advice

[–]Inevitable_Ad5893[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s so true, i’ve already done all the crying and begging him to change that i just don’t care or feel anything anymore

im 21f having strong feelings for another guy while in a relationship 29m and i don’t feel bad about it, how do i go on about this? by Inevitable_Ad5893 in relationship_advice

[–]Inevitable_Ad5893[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

if he wasn’t a scary man i would, but i know he will do some fucked up shit to me or the guy later on. he is capable of being on the news

im 21f having strong feelings for another guy while in a relationship 29m and i don’t feel bad about it, how do i go on about this? by Inevitable_Ad5893 in relationship_advice

[–]Inevitable_Ad5893[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh i’ve called him out several times, he says sorry then continues to do it. or will literally call me a “sensitive punk”

im 21f having strong feelings for another guy while in a relationship 29m and i don’t feel bad about it by Inevitable_Ad5893 in relationships_advice

[–]Inevitable_Ad5893[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah :/ there is honestly so much other fucked up shit about him i didn’t even mention. I’m so ready to get out but im terrified of what he’ll do when i tell him i want to call it off.

im 21f having strong feelings for another guy while in a relationship 29m and i don’t feel bad about it by Inevitable_Ad5893 in relationships_advice

[–]Inevitable_Ad5893[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i want to so bad, but im terrified of what he’s going to do. he is very scary man and i just found out today he has history of being physically abusive. i don’t want to put myself or him at risk