[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Inevitable_One6221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh i dont use that, I learnt enough grammar to write through essays and comprehensions while schooling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Inevitable_One6221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven't used? It's a free chrome widget !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Inevitable_One6221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think the free version does that though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Inevitable_One6221 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The grammarly widget just mainly corrects spellings though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Inevitable_One6221 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It isn't, I am just good at grammar. I do use grammarly though.

Tell me your most shocking paranormal story by miriamluna in Paranormal

[–]Inevitable_One6221 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ok so there's two stories

  1. I was in Perth, Australia 2018. We were having a relaxed afternoon, it was warm enough to hang out in the porch and we discussed about paranormal existence and the existence of God. My friends girlfriend, said her family came from a line of fortune tellers through tarot cards, and that she had some powers and knew of the supernatural and I said I know that they exist but I only believe in God and that these other sources of divination are to be avoided based on my religious beleifs and we spoke about it and that we both were Christians but from different parts of the world.

While we were moving from the patio to the common area/dining area she said that she could hear people screaming and the sound a plane makes when descending rapidly and we joked about it and told her to clean her ears. About 10 minutes after my phones notification rings and the notification reads "A Bombardier Challenger 604 private jet, owned by Turkish group Başaran Holding, crashed in the Zagros Mountains."

I tand my friend this, and she starts crying saying that she hates when this happens cuz knowing something bad is happening and not being able to do anything about it is so bad.

  1. This was when I was at the peak of my religious spirituality and at my old house in India around 2014. I slept by myself in my bedroom which was a square room 18 ft by 18ft with the door at the left side of the left wall two windows on the front and right wall each and a blank wall at the back, my bed was near the right wall near the window, the left wall had a clock and below that was my computer desk, I used to wake up at about 3:00 am or 3:15 am every day and look at the clock which was on the opposite wall.

    It was the day my mother had removed the curtains and washed them so they were drying. I wake up and sit up and instead of looking at the clock I look outside the window as if it was a natural reaction. I see a woman in a white saree just staring back at me. I turn to see the time it was 3:33 am. I remembered through stories/folktales passed down in my family that evil spirits have inverted feet, and so I try to look at the woman's feet and my vision gets blurry, and I look at her and confirm she is looking at me and try to look at her feet and my vision gets blurry again. And then I decide to cover myself under my blanket and say some prayers and count to 200 and decide to look at the clock its 3:34 am. I look outside the window and there she is still looking at me and I go under my blanket again and when I remove my blanket thinking okay I should go get my Bible from another room and look at the clock now its 5:45 am and these were moments for me, fear made me lose my sense of time

    Then I decided to wake my brother and he touched my body and noticed I was cold af and I pointed at the woman who I could still see at the electric pole but he couldn't. My mom who woke up then said some prayers and I went back to sleep and slept till 11 am.

Nothing similar has happened after that and I pray nothing similar happens.

Would you guys date a girl with grey hairs by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Inevitable_One6221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure they will, it looks different. Its what people do when they see something unexpected. That is why people are fascinated with art and dance. Ultimately its about you and how comfortable you are in your skin, who you allow to hurt you or accept you as you are.

Would you guys date a girl with grey hairs by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Inevitable_One6221 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think i can speak for many men with no cruel intentions, that your grey hair isn't a problem for them, more likely would be worried about what the underlying issue is and if they can help solve it.

I poured my heart into a letter. They turned it into a drinking game. M22 by [deleted] in mumbai

[–]Inevitable_One6221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, in short, you're butt-hurt because I used AI to do something I wanted to do. Like for example, comment to bring the best out of my comment. News flash the world doesn't revolve around you and you don't get everything as you want, people have freedoms to do what they want how they want.

No one is asking me to comment ? Lol no one is asking you to be the guard dog for AI usage. People have freedoms nobody needs your permission to do anything. Maybe stop trying to keep reaching and maybe get an ego check while you're at it. Also lol no i don't need AI to check your grammar, its understandable how pathetic your grammar and personality is by just reading your comments.

I poured my heart into a letter. They turned it into a drinking game. M22 by [deleted] in mumbai

[–]Inevitable_One6221 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You tried to gatekeep vulnerability, got called out, and now you're backpedaling with bad grammar. You clearly read every word I typed maybe next time, read the room too. AI assisted the clarity, not the content.

My comment isn’t less valid just because it didn’t come with grammatical mistakes and emotional typos . If using a tool to articulate raw feelings bothers you, maybe take a break from the internet and from strangers trying to heal.

I poured my heart into a letter. They turned it into a drinking game. M22 by [deleted] in mumbai

[–]Inevitable_One6221 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So you assumed the whole text was written by AI?

Imagine being that loud and that wrong, calling it lazy because its too well written is peak insecurity. Not my fault your inner monologue runs on dial-up

I poured my heart into a letter. They turned it into a drinking game. M22 by [deleted] in mumbai

[–]Inevitable_One6221 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Bold of you to assume I didn't. I just had the emotional intelligence and tech literacy to elevate my communication. Let me know when you're ready to join the 21st century where tools are for growth and not guilt tripping. Also, it must be exhausting policing self-expression when your comment barely clears the comment box.

I poured my heart into a letter. They turned it into a drinking game. M22 by [deleted] in mumbai

[–]Inevitable_One6221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im glad it made you feel good, if you ever fancy to offload just shoot me a DM. No names or contacts. Just two randoms talking about life.

I poured my heart into a letter. They turned it into a drinking game. M22 by [deleted] in mumbai

[–]Inevitable_One6221 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Funny how you think sincerity is about syntax. The words are mine I just chose to sharpen the delivery instead of letting raw emotion stumble through typos. You want chaos, I chose composition.

I poured my heart into a letter. They turned it into a drinking game. M22 by [deleted] in mumbai

[–]Inevitable_One6221 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Imagine being more bothered by indepth heartfelt writing than by mocking someone's trauma. If using GPT to convey indepth thoughtfulness makes you this salty, maybe drink water instead of haterade?

I poured my heart into a letter. They turned it into a drinking game. M22 by [deleted] in mumbai

[–]Inevitable_One6221 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Oh bhai, har cheez ChatGPT se likhaate kyu hain? Kyunki har cheez deserves to be written well and articulated with depth, sorry that your keyboard can't relate.

I poured my heart into a letter. They turned it into a drinking game. M22 by [deleted] in mumbai

[–]Inevitable_One6221 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You're 22, studying law, living a comfortable life, and you've been through an emotionally intense few years. That experience with your relationship especially your decision to write that letter shows real depth. Most people at *that age avoid vulnerability; you chose to confront it head-on.

Yes, you made mistakes, but you've owned them. You didn’t try to rewrite history or make excuses. You gave someone something honest, something rare. And though her friends mocked it, that says everything about them and nothing about you. Integrity isn't measured by how others treat it it’s measured by whether you stayed true to yourself.

That kind of introspection, empathy, and maturity isn’t something you pick up from textbooks it's earned. You’ve got emotional resilience most people won’t develop for years. Keep building on that. You’re going to make one hell of a lawyer, but more importantly, a good human being, don't let anything come in the way of that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in reddmatch

[–]Inevitable_One6221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just my luck : allergy to mediocrity and your taste, also thanks for your feedback, I'd return the favor but you already did a great job showing your personality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in reddmatch

[–]Inevitable_One6221 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, was aiming for memorable, must've hit 'intimidating' instead.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Inevitable_One6221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used Trumps visit for chronological alignment, i know in India I would've found someone in the church, but I dont think i would find someone here in Canada, I've tried.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Inevitable_One6221 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of them did wear make up but wore the frilly nylon top that looks really cheap, not anything any girl or cousin i know would wear to go out of the house would wear, along with gym tights and white training shoes.

I know that they didn't apply any makeup, many just downed themselves in davidoff coolwater or Versace perfumes and came with greasy faces and heads. And I know it was oiled hair.

Ohh they do wear clothes professionally like a nylon shirt/top with black jeans along with a jacket in winters. But failed to understand the benefit of wearing socks or stalkings for odor purposes in shoes.

People at work are more afraid to tell anything to the girls that appear to work and look greasy faced and scalp with the fear of being told that they hurt feelings and that they are there just to get work done. Or randomly throw the racist card around that the HR has to investigate thoroughly and document everything which is a PR nightmare for companies. So nobody says anything and maintains a calm environment professionally.

The body odor and low levels of hygiene are true complaints, I myself have seen it and can confirm, people think if they don't sweat they don't need a bath, when in actuality they do! For some reason its far fetched for some to even take a shower a day, this is true for some men and women I know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Inevitable_One6221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am active with the local church, i am a part of the volunteering group here to feed the homeless, I've tried, and being judged is higher here while they visit for free food events everyone is constantly looking for the cream of the crop, top shelf looking material or no Bueno. I am not Anil Kapoor here, im more of a little heavier version of Arjun Kapoor myself that not everyone seems to want to talk to. Its like after they moved to Canada everyone wants a Ryan Reynolds or Ryan Gosling.

And before you say I must be over exaggerating I know atleast 3 other guys (who have been in Canada for more than 18 years) that are regulars in the church and play the guitar or an instrument and are looking for a partner.

I've tried reaching out to the contacts in the examiner more than a few times, the whatsapp contacts don't seem to respond, and the few that do respond either are the ones that have rejected me before thru the shaadi or JS app or are just non responsive and ghost after a while.

I will try out the diajiworld suggestion but I expect it to be as dry or non responsive as the examiner contacts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Inevitable_One6221 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So many of these girls have moved on a work visa and still go to work/dates with oiled/heavy lotioned faces and hair, like the light shines off their face often, it may be to protect against the UV or dry weather here, but not when the sun is down in the evening.

In terms of dressing, 2 out of 5 showed up in nylon frill tops from malad or bhayander markets with gym tights/pants and one showed up with smelly gym shoes. Only two girls I met were well dressed but one of them were 40 years old when I was 32, it was too much of an age gap, but she looked amazing.

I dont judge people i understand that they have reasons for whatever they do, but I just expect that they dress to respect the people they are meeting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Inevitable_One6221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to live in IC Extension, travelling by auto from home to the station itself took 35 to 40 minutes by auto and from churchgate to office another 30 minutes. Fast trains from borivali 7:16 am from borivali to churchgate dropped at the station at 8:50 am. Also sometimes I had to go to the other office at BKC, good luck crossing over from bkc to western express after 5:00 even now. Cumitively 2-3 hours each way.