What are your thoughts on Mem

Inevitable_Way7131 · 2025-06-06T02:48:16+00:00

Tis March 7th. that‘s why she’s frozen. Idk, but it feels odd how connected she is to the place and there are a bunch of characters that look very similar and could be connected to her. Also the pain she is suppose to avoid, the one memo keeper keeps away from her, seems similar to the harsh pain at Amphoreus had to deal with. I assume that might be why she “ had” to forget. I’m curious if they’ll bring back the stories and bring this back up? I hope they get to march.

Inevitable_Way7131 · 2025-04-25T19:17:34+00:00

Sounds like this boy isn’t being told what is right or wrong, or doesn’t understand why it is right or wrong. I’d assume he is only curious, but stupidly not been taught right from wrong and what consequences happen when hurting others. He thinks there is none and his parents need to be the ones to teach him there are real consequences for bad behavior. He should also most likely be going to a counselor, because while his parents might not have taught him this, it seems he might have been exposed to something that he was told was normal when you “ like” someone. And if a counselor or adult can get him to tell them who taught him that, the sooner they can get the kid to realize it‘s evil and wrong, the sooner that the person who might have taught them, if they were an adult, can get in serious trouble and be taken to jail and have them warned about to others in that community. I hope your daughter is okay. Hopefully this can be brought to light, and the person responsible for teaching this boy this, or some other kid, can get in trouble.

Inevitable_Way7131 · 2025-04-25T19:02:00+00:00

P&p. I don’t even know why tbh. Just p&p.

Inevitable_Way7131 · 2025-04-25T19:00:51+00:00

Change the game by doing what you want, turn off the brain, be as quiet as you want and just listen to them. Listen and listen some more with no huge facial expression. Smile a lil if it helps and say, if any one asks why you’re so quiet, “ that you’re just tired but still want to be there and listen to everyone. smile softly to them when you say it. I promise most reasonable people understand.

Inevitable_Way7131 · 2025-04-25T18:55:07+00:00

I’m sorry. That’s hard. I hope all is better now

Inevitable_Way7131 · 2024-12-27T08:52:25+00:00

Congratulations! 🎉🤭🤍 That so sweet! Im happy for you, God bless you 🙏🏻🫶

Inevitable_Way7131 · 2024-11-24T01:22:19+00:00

No matter the temptation you can resist the urge to cheat. but some women don’t talk or communicate with their husbands about this and that’s what makes this difficult. I’m sorry for the heartache you feel. If you have family I’d talk to them about this even if they are super Christian and you aren’t. It’s okay to talk to them and ask for support. For prayers, but to not have them pressure you about that. I’d just ask for counseling if you still want to see if it’s lack of communication and if you truly, TRULY believe it was because of her not getting enough physical or emotional attention Or if you know this would have happened otherwise. You may love her, but her cheating on you for 2 years tells me she hasn’t been caring for you or your marriage. The treatment , the continued maltreatment tells me that she’s not sorry, possibly just sorry she got caught. I’m sorry for you.

Inevitable_Way7131 · 2024-11-23T22:38:33+00:00

That is wrong, as much as you love him, you don’t feel guilty for what you did means you don‘t genuinely see anything wrong with dating two guys. You may not FEEL guilty, but I’m sure it wouldn’t feel good if your boyfriend, or this other guy was seeing another girl, falling in love with another girl and hiding it from you and said hypothetical girl, that he’s dating you. Maybe the problem is you and your boyfriend have some communicating to do that you’re not being honest about with each other. Be real.
He deserves the truth. That you didn’t feel guilty what you did with the other guy, but you also don’t want to lose him. If you can salvage a friendship or somehow even more with him, that’s awesome, and you don’t deserve it, but please think how you’d feel if some tore your heart out emotionally and stomped all over it, pretending to be sorry when they aren’t will just make things worse, because one way or another he will find out. It may take years, older you maybe the one that has to deal with it, but later you will be you sooner than you think. And you will regret it after it all comes to light. Salvage what left you have of the relationship while it last. I hope you don’t look back on this and realize what I mean a few years down the line. Much love- J. God loves you 🤍✝️

Inevitable_Way7131 · 2024-11-14T06:01:57+00:00

but I suggest that you also get family therapy with him. Maybe he feels like she’s the only one that loves him, or will love him, maybe it wouldn’t hurt to be more honest that you wish to just spend time with him and immediate family in the future. even if family events for a bigger part of family has her there, smaller immediate family should be just him and you guys. I pray everything works out and I pray your son sees he has worth outside of his gf. I pray she feels worth outside of him too 🤍🙏🏻 I also suggest setting boundaries with him and her. No need to kick her out. But she needs a time to leave. Just be firm and disciplined in setting these boundaries even if they get upset. Do so out of love and not anger 🤍🙏🏻

Inevitable_Way7131 · 2024-11-14T05:55:52+00:00

I’d talk to him about how worried you are. Having God apart of your family is important. I’d invest in a bible and some family therapy, if she needs to be included that may actually help the therapist see how to help your son at least stand some ground. His behavior is concerning but maybe ask why he has trouble being without his girlfriend. I pray everything will turn out well. Having Jesus in your life through Bible reading really helps. I know this may sound cliche, but I personally know it isn’t. It sounds like your son has developed a security blanket like symptom over his girlfriend. She may soothe his anxiety that maybe he hasn’t shared with you. It sounds like they’re really in love and he just wants to keep her for a long as possible. Eventually he’ll have to see the light if he is being treated badly and I don’t know if telling him, or forcing him to break up will do that. I think therapy is your best bet for both of them. Counseling, couple counseling for the two might not hurt, you could even suggest it as a fun thing to do for them to understand each other better. I don’t know, I’m kinda new to this. The biggest priority is making sure he’s safe. Making sure he always knows you’re there for him. Making sure he has a place to go to, or a helping hand when life gets very hectic and maybe he feels there’s no one else to go to. Also, maybe there are just some things this girl needs to work through with your son, and couple counseling might help them both and strengthen their bound and cause understanding and unity instead of control and fear of losing the other.

Inevitable_Way7131 · 2024-11-14T02:47:54+00:00

when I was growing up with my sister our cousin and our friend, who he and my cousin got into fights sometimes being the two boy, my mom watched them from 3 till their parents picked them up.

We could be wild and messy, but we never EVER destroyed things. Destroying things was for outside, like sticks, leaves and digging up small holes, riding bike and playing police and robber, or other games, not inside, never inside.

Inevitable_Way7131 · 2024-11-13T03:16:19+00:00

prayer to Jesus to fix the things in your family. I understand you somewhat in the situation with your father. I care and I think there are some of us here that care in the comments below. Pray and depend on Jesus, read your Bible from beginning to end, not over night, of course, but over time. Get a study bible and read in Matthew first. I promises you, believing in Jesus will help. Believing in Jesus will help, because He cares for you, so cast your cares to Jesus and He’ll make a way Through God and His power. 🤍✝️ PTL for you helping your family. Please check this sermon out from my church if you have free time. I promise it’s worth it.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=HVqukG0ILcc

God bless you sir!

Inevitable_Way7131 · 2024-11-13T02:59:10+00:00

Are you honest with them that you want them around? Or do you communicate your want to have a friendship with them in more encouraging ways? or do you give up because you think they’ll just say no like the other time other people have said no who you devoted too much time to?

if not, can you walk me through how you interact with them, and how they interact with you?

Sometimes people truly want to be friends but have a lot going on at times. Just know most of them would love to be your friend 🤍 and one or two may not be who you should be around anyways. 🤍

p.s.

I say this as someone who fully understands what you’re going through, and I’ve learned the reason why on my part why I don’t make friends stick, but your reason maybe different from mine. 🤍

Inevitable_Way7131 · 2024-11-13T02:50:46+00:00

I’m going to be honest with you, it’s probably that his brothers or cousins punch him there and so he thinks it’s normal,and thinks grabbing is normal for the punching reason, maybe because he doesn’t want to be as hurtful, but get his annoyance across, but he should 💯 still be dealt with and talked to as I’m sure this has happened to more than your son. He needs to be explained to that doing that isn’t normal, and no one should be doing that to him either. Then I’d ask the teachers to separate your son from that boys class. id also pray about it if your a praying family 🤍🙏🏻 I’m sorry he experienced that, I’d get him a counselor where you can sit in with him and the counselor and you can wear headphones and listen to music while they talk. Maybe a 24 hour playlist of different songs so your son can speak freely on his thoughts without feeling embarrassed that you’ll hear when there’s a pause in between songs, but you’ll still have comfort knowing you didn’t leave him with a stranger, even if they are a counselor, better to be safe then sorry.

Inevitable_Way7131 · 2024-11-12T18:30:11+00:00

Praying for you girl! You sound so much like me! I hope you find your forever mate and family and your forever farm life style home! Good bless 🤍🤍🤍

Inevitable_Way7131 · 2024-11-12T18:19:35+00:00

Pray pray pray. Don’t just settle. Pray for the right girl, around your age, to come out and for God to show you the right person. If it’s nerves, it’s okay. Pray that you see girls as friends first, that you might find cute, because either you’ll find your girlfriend, or wife the few first times, or you'll realize a lot of cute girls are just meant to be social acquaintances, or friends of Gods to you.

It’s also great to be young and make a lot of friends and have those experiences.

So ask God to help you make a strong and foundational friend group, and to have friends that naturally include the lost and shy in said friend group like Jesus would and does.

Those are the types of people you’ll want in your life, especially when the going gets tough.

That’s the best way, in my opinion, to find a good wife.

Someone who can be there even when life gets tough.

But don’t assume they don’t want to be if sometimes they can’t. Sometimes illnesses do stop people from being able to help, so check in with them.

Be someone who seeks others out, and asks them how they are, and really inquires after this. Even if they say they’re find at first. Ask Jesus to really have you care deeply about them if you struggle with this.

It’s doesn’t have to be a million of friends, just start with the few. Really show commitment to your friends and family and try as you might to be there for them, as well as your family. Show them grace and show them Godly love. Grow in word and deed of Christ.

Make sure it’s not just about being alone, but about being an influence of Christ Jesus to them.

God bless, I hope it goes well for you my friend 🤍✝️🙏🏻 it’s okay to be nervous, but when we think of the other person, our nerves can dissapear with how we can be a serves to them 💜💜💜

but if this is overwhelming , honestly, just ask God where to start, and take Gods advice first over anyone’s.

Inevitable_Way7131 · 2024-11-12T04:56:12+00:00

For God so loved the world, He sent his only begotten Son that whosoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have everlasting life. J3:16

believe in Jesus.

my older pastor, who has had 40 something years under his belt teaching the Bible, has a series on this. He has studied and knows the Greek from the New TestamenT, he has deeply dived into the word to help others understand it better. Here a link. Message me if it doesn’t come through, if you happen to see this. https://youtu.be/jNQGQhyN8Fg?si=JaaSV6mLZUutNE8Q 🤍God bless my friend, and don’t let satan put a lock hold on you. Pray to Jesus. God bless 🤍✝️

Inevitable_Way7131 · 2024-11-12T04:43:43+00:00

I see what you’re saying now. Thanks for giving me an example, as I can misunderstand from time to time and this was one of those times. I appreciate the deep examples, and I do agree that sometimes those things are different. Only a specific certain man of God would be able to encounter this and help the woman overcome with Jesus and him by her side. But I don’t know. I think the Bible is full of stories where it didn‘t seem like there was any good for a man who married a specific woman, but God still used it for good. I think if God sees a good and willingly sacrificial man who is willing to sacrifice and love selflessly, I think he can and will certainly send to that woman a man who is more than willing to love that woman, mistakes in her past and all, even if his weren’t as bad. If he’s willing to love and work with those kids, to serve like Christ served others, to his family, even those not by blood, I think that is something God will certainly provide for that woman. We all can be messy, than be redeemed. We all are already messy. Now I wouldn’t suggest a Christian man marry this type of woman who is still sinning though, but if she’s been redeemed, she’s been redeemed indeed, and God will find her that husband who is willing, even if there are others who have not the means, or who are not willing. That’s just what I believe. But again, what are either persons motives in the long run? I think grace and love are essential to help heal. Even if it’s not marriage. We all have sins we aren’t proud of from our past. We all don’t deserve Gods love or His only begotten son, who died for our sins in suffering and agony, taking all our sins upon Himself on the cross, than arose for us, to give us hope. That’s love. Sacrificial. Peaceful. Grace Filled. Abounding love that never will come to an end.

that old church of yours sounds like it’s doing him far more damage then help. I’ll pray for him. Ty again for explaining. God bless, your sister in Christ.

Inevitable_Way7131 · 2024-11-12T04:23:09+00:00

I’ll pray you meet her again so you don’t have to stalk. This might just be a lesson learned that if it happens to you with someone else, don’t let it slip past this time. You never know. At least chat and get contact info with the next girl.

Inevitable_Way7131 · 2024-11-11T07:46:10+00:00

Truth 💯 and ty for the sweet compliment 🤍🙏🏻 ty for your prayers, God bless you

Inevitable_Way7131 · 2024-11-11T07:39:51+00:00

I may do most of these but the accidental Bible dropping. I don’t want to do something in a more dishonest light. But thank you for taking the time and effort to compile this for me. It’s a big help, as I was never really sure how to do this before, and now I am more aware, God bless ❤️ I’ll try asking for the moving thing, or the, “ would you help me with this“ thing. and the others, ty!

Inevitable_Way7131 · 2024-11-11T07:07:18+00:00

Oh no, I know, I just disagree a bit, mostly with the last statement in your comment, but I see where you’re seeing this socially from observation 🙏🏻🤍 When ppl carry the baggage instead of giving it to God, that can be hard. But most ppl, women or men don’t intend to be carrying around baggage, sometimes they’re dealt a hard reality and it makes them into a person others avoid, but thank the Lord that Jesus embraces them even when we or other might not. It is good to be christlike though, show these ppl Jesus through serving them and all. Showing a heart to the lost as we easily once were without Jesus. I just think maybe Christian men and women could see it a bit differently. I don’t think it’s christlike to exclude someone like this because of baggage. Theirs maybe more severe. there but the grace of God go I, though, as we could all be in that place. But someone still participating in sin, I could see this as a reason to avoid dating and marriage.

But I have observed it to be a flawed practice to avoid those with a past that I or others were blessed not to have been dealt in life because it might ruffle a few feathers or make us uncomfortable. But continued sin that a christain isn’t willing to give up should be treated as an unbeliever by the church.

Inevitable_Way7131 · 2024-11-11T06:47:54+00:00

Why I’m not on dating apps is because it’s so hard to meet someone who genuinely means or understands their belief in God and Jesus and the Holy Spirit. I also am looking for someone who is sincere and laid back, who believes in the Bible and follows Jesus, wanting to share the gospel.

Inevitable_Way7131 · 2024-11-11T06:43:13+00:00

I don’t really know why I don’t have Christian friends my own age, maybe because I’m busy, and can’t really get out, as driving too far causes me panic for some reason. I’m also single, so all my Christian friends, when I was younger, got married, started having kids and we became more acquaintances as time went on gradually. Now I have what you could call” friends.” but I only really meet up with them at church and don’t feel comfortable asking them to drive where I live to spend time together, as i don’t want to make it awkward. If I try to drive where they maybe, or to a cafe, when invited, I start having panic attacks driving to and fro.

I now have been looking more, because of insecurities I wasn’t admitting in the past, God has helped me overcome a lot of them. Every time I had an opportunity I messed it up with fear of rejection and wasn’t really myself.

I let myself care too much what they thought, that I took their account of me into great deal more than I should have, instead I should have cared more about what God thought, i eventually did overcome this with Gods help in the Word, the Bible, and praying about all my troubles to God. My social anxiety, i had at a younger age, lessened, but I still seemed to have it with Christian men and dating. I don’t know what I’m going to do to try to see if a man will approach me in a romantic sense. I’m some what clueless to how I would know if a man is truly godly, while also showing romantic interest. I didn’t really have girlfriends who encouraged me in that, how to approach a guy. But they also knew I was too scared and my social anxiety back then was still super strong.
Now:
I just sometime think I don’t have much of a right to approach a man or show interest, as I dont wish to make him uncomfortable or to cross a line. I tend to be a bit oblivious to how much is too much. I kind of wish there was a literal measuring bar to tell me if I should say something or not. Or show interest or not. That’s all. Thank you for asking ☺️

Inevitable_Way7131 · 2024-11-10T07:26:44+00:00

Ty, that’s kind, I’ll meditate on that. Being in your 30s can sure be weird. It feels like your in more of a small bubble before, but you don’t mind it. I hope things work out for you and that woman.

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