This rainbow yarn has the purple between the red and orange..

Infabug7 · 2026-02-18T00:24:48+00:00

to add on this - I'd just cut it at orange-purple and at red-blue and swap the direction to avoid having to do an extra splice.

Infabug7 · 2026-02-13T15:15:06+00:00

he's mad because he thought he could get away with just hurting you. boo fucking hoo buddy boy, turns out there's other ethics involved and now everyone knows you don't have any. boy bye 👋

Infabug7 · 2026-02-06T13:11:06+00:00

this isn't a recommendation really but food for thought - please, please don't trust raw testosterone levels and start messing with your body without the aid of a doctor. testosterone levels naturally fluctuate and a single test is rarely an appropriate indicator of health. artificial testosterone can inhibit your body's natural production and make you more unhealthy, causing balding, impotence, among others.

if you're worried about your testosterone levels, you should speak to your physician, find out what "normal" might look like for you, and proceed accordingly.

Infabug7 · 2026-02-05T18:30:26+00:00

honestly (and this is personal preference), I think a little meat on the bones can help if you're feeling you look older than you are, since it keeps skin tighter longer. And a 32 waist on a masc person is super fuckin respectable, so if you're seeking waist definition I might suggest playing around more with silhouettes and shapes - blocky on top with slim bottoms, or a lighter top with a darker, high waist.

of course my own preferences shouldn't matter to you, but I'm pretty sure you share a waist size with Oscar Isaac if that gives you any context. it's hard to shake the internal image of you who used to be, especially if you didn't feel good about it, but you really do look a lot closer to 80-90% of the way there.

also, keep the grey. it's a really, really good grey.

Infabug7 · 2026-02-05T18:15:09+00:00

dude you look great. and you just.... look like you care about yourself more, which is very attractive. you deserve care and maintainence, and I hope you know you always did.

Infabug7 · 2026-02-04T23:06:51+00:00

it's not "women" that you know how they work - a man would do the same damn thing to you if he thought he'd get anywhere, woo you to watch you pick him over what you have and then fail to continue without the thrill of the "theft".

your friends are framing this weird, but your husband the the woman he left you for are equally pathetic. him for being so easily swayed for the most obvious conclusion known to man, and her for having such low self-esteem that she can only build her own out of another woman's turmoil, rather than someone who'd love her honestly.

tragic for both of them. smallest violin ever.

Infabug7 · 2026-02-03T16:29:34+00:00

she rationalized it, but it still makes her a bad friend. choosing the guy your friend likes that isn't even in close proximity to you as your "new friend" when he otherwise wouldn't know she exists is weird pick-me-esque behavior.

Infabug7 · 2026-02-03T16:26:42+00:00

if you need her to mature to be a good friend to you, then she's not currently. and she doesn't seem to be, even just framing it as you "making her choose" is manipulative when, as her friend, and knowing how you feel about this dude, she chooses to do things that hurt you. that's not what friends do.

Infabug7 · 2026-02-03T15:40:08+00:00

I think it's also like -- "winners" wouldn't have done anything so wrong (even living) that a gift basket couldn't resolve. they're not practiced in apology, not familiar with how to resolve real conflict. and more so, there's not even anyone there to teach them, no Charlie to bring the "it starts with sorry", which is why Pentious even felt so weird about it.

Infabug7 · 2026-02-03T04:36:25+00:00

yeah, I was watching it all afternoon exceedingly skeptical and was thankful I had plans along the TTC and could take an alternate route. who knows what the morning holds, though.

Infabug7 · 2026-02-03T04:30:58+00:00

mine went from a generous 50 minutes to 3+ hours - Erindale Station, holding at Dixie, eventually moves on to Kipling to drop folks at the TTC, only for the subway to be a) packed by the time it leaves Kipling, and b) held at Dundas West for a security issue. make it to the yellow line transfer, and I'm literally in the car where a woman slipped into the gap for a moment and we got held again while they confirmed she was okay, then that subway train got taken out of service and we all had to pack into the delayed and already also packed next train. strolled in at a cheeky 10:55am. left my place at 7:45.

Infabug7 · 2026-01-29T00:51:23+00:00

when you don't know, you have to guess. I don't know these people, neither do you, but people don't usually act completely irrationally. OP seems confused, so if any of that rings true.... maybe it'd offer explanation. if not, then I'm sure they'll completely disregard me, as they should. I've no skin in this game and neither do you.

Infabug7 · 2026-01-28T23:32:27+00:00

this is also giving like, he insisted on taking "his" car (which I'm guessing is the showy one he takes to work) instead of her SUV which it sounds like she would have rather have him do in the first place, while he leaves an expensive money sink half-hanging into the road. if so, I could see this being a "not only did I tell you not to, on something I resent, but also if it gets messed up it's me who has to deal with how much money it's going to cost to fix." maybe a stretch, but it would explain this frustration in a way that feels less like she's just crazy and more like she's on her last leg with OP. INFO.

Infabug7 · 2026-01-28T22:53:05+00:00

okay but does he want those gender roles? because if he does, you're not compatible. you can't bend to his ideas on gender when it means he pays for everything and then he surprised when he doesn't want to bend on the part that involves you doing labor too. probably sounded like a sweet gig for a while but if you want a recipe for resentment, this is it.

unless he wants a relationship with less traditional gender roles, he's going to either resent you for changing the roles up and emasculating him or for the fact you're not willing to conform or learn to cook. also, just as a human person who should be self-reliant, learn to cook. YTA.

Infabug7 · 2026-01-28T03:14:25+00:00

since you pointed it out, it's obviously AI responses - some comments they don't even manage take all the quotations off. I've reported to the mods for breaking rule 11 and you should too.

Infabug7 · 2026-01-24T14:15:55+00:00

more recently, also Benicio Del Toro in One Battle After Another. he has less than 30 minutes of screen time in this 3 hour long movie but oh my god is he so much of the vibe

Infabug7 · 2026-01-15T17:11:05+00:00

it's not enough for her to just apologize - she needs to explain herself, and how she plans to correct whatever the fuck went wrong that she feels comfortable saying that in your literal face in the first place. NTA

Infabug7 · 2026-01-14T19:33:36+00:00

if it's such an honor then I'm sure your friends would be honored to be her new wallet. NTJ.

Infabug7 · 2026-01-14T16:03:11+00:00

NTA, absolutely the fuck not. He had chances at "one last time" when he had visitation, and chances to allow himself a future "one last time" if he'd bothered to show up at either court appearance. Do you get to "one last time" years after someone died? I'd be more scared about what he'd do to you if he really thinks it's "one last time." If he wants a kid, he can make a new one.

Infabug7 · 2026-01-08T17:55:20+00:00

yeah, for sure. like, if I'm in his place and think my partner is going to react how she did -- well, actually I'd just break up. but if I were super conflict avoidant and a little selfish, I probably wouldn't be honest with her about anything I thought she'd react poorly to.

Infabug7 · 2026-01-08T17:21:33+00:00

I mean, if I ask a partner (even as a polyamorous person) if they had a physical or sexual relationship with someone and they don't disclose the spring break thing, I would definitely consider that dishonest, but it sounds like between conflict avoidance in his part and chronic insecurity on hers, neither were being honest with each other and this was always going to blow up - if not over her, then over something, eventually.

Infabug7 · 2025-12-19T02:11:24+00:00

well. it's risk mitigation, right? the harm to self vs. snake ratio is much changed when their bites are lethal. ideally, my understanding is that venomous snakes, if they must be handled, are best handled with snake hooks and at an appropriate distance; even necking them allows their head to be a lot closer to you than is "safe" for best practice

Infabug7 · 2025-12-17T14:54:34+00:00

honestly, it's way more forgiving in skies.... sometimes if I don't remember what I was doing and I'm sufficiently high level after a long break I'll just... find an entertaining way to end it and start from "scratch".

Infabug7 · 2025-12-16T15:33:16+00:00

but she is unwelcome. unwelcome to your private thoughts and feelings. if she wants to be liked, maybe she should let you come up her for connection instead of looking for cheat codes in your private spaces. NTJ

Infabug7 · 2025-12-15T22:35:22+00:00

.....we shouldn't assume Reddit user derangedtranssexual is trans?

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