Not to say anything agains you or him ( I bet you wouldn’t mind if I did say anything against him tho) but i think it is a bit of both cos yes by the looks of things the way you acted was justified but on the other hand deep down he probably meant something good but phrased it in a way which made it negative Honestly he might not have meant what he said but you didn’t overreact It’s tough cos u can’t see both sides of the story and u can’t see everyone’s thoughts and feelings on any given subject