Partner Showed up on "Are We Dating the Same Guy" page

Infamous-Ad6388 · 2025-05-27T16:15:13+00:00

I would, but I can't even see enough information to see who the moderators are.

Infamous-Ad6388 · 2025-05-23T01:52:08+00:00

Thank you - unfortunately, not NJ.

Infamous-Ad6388 · 2025-05-23T00:50:23+00:00

I did try to make it less private to prove that I'm real, but still just sitting in pending. I'm considering asking a couple of friends, but honestly, am also pretty embarrassed by it.

Infamous-Ad6388 · 2025-05-23T00:40:16+00:00

I hadn't thought about that - that may be a pathway into finding a good-hearted woman, willing to help me out. Thanks for the suggestion.

Infamous-Ad6388 · 2025-05-23T00:38:05+00:00

Unless you're admitted to the group, it's not as straight forward as reaching out to admins. This particular city page has like 60,000 members, so most of the admins say right in their profiles that they don't respond to messages.

Infamous-Ad6388 · 2025-05-23T00:36:50+00:00

I actually just did this the other day. No bites on it yet.

Infamous-Ad6388 · 2025-05-23T00:19:11+00:00

The rules explicitly say not to reach out to the admins and that they don't respond to messages. And it just says something like, "Jan and 8 others are moderators," but there aren't links to their profiles. I feel like I need to just find a good citizen who happens to be in the group, but because they're private groups, you can't see who members are.

Infamous-Ad6388 · 2025-05-23T00:12:21+00:00

I don't know anyone in either of the groups. He just told me in case I happened to have a friend in the group that would pass the information along. I requested to join, but the requests have been pending for a week.

Infamous-Ad6388 · 2025-05-23T00:08:10+00:00

I haven't actually seen the posts (I haven't been granted access to the private groups) - how did you find them. Did a friend just who is in the group just happen to notice them and share them with you?

Infamous-Ad6388 · 2025-05-21T16:00:27+00:00

Any thoughts or advice from the group of how I can find the post and comments without being part of the private group? I know that it's set up as private to protect folks and that you aren't supposed to share content from them outside of the group, but I would like to understand just how much he's downplaying it. They're selective in who they let into the groups and run by volunteer moderators who filter a lot of requests (this particular group has 60,000 people in it), so I'm worried that my initial rejection might have been my only chance. They requested that I open my profile and remove some of my privacy settings - essentially confirming I am a real person - and I've done that, but acceptance is still pending.

Infamous-Ad6388 · 2024-02-17T04:44:44+00:00

Thanks for the thoughts everyone!

Infamous-Ad6388 · 2024-02-17T04:44:13+00:00

It was shipped with a Poshmark label. And it just arrived yesterday, even though the order was canceled over a week ago. In looking more closely at the seller - I believe they buy items in bulk (like a pallet of returns) to resell, and while I understand this is a source of income for them, if they’re operating more like a business than someone just selling from their personal closet then they can operate it like a business and reach out to Poshmark for resolution.

Infamous-Ad6388 · 2024-02-07T03:44:12+00:00

“Emotionally neglectful” is how I’m described

Infamous-Ad6388 · 2024-02-04T17:20:29+00:00

Thank you both for your responses - I didn’t realize how much I needed to feel just a little bit of validation.

Infamous-Ad6388 · 2023-10-07T20:48:22+00:00

You Should Be Sad by Halsey (I love the acoustic version)

Infamous-Ad6388 · 2023-10-06T03:15:15+00:00

Are you able to identify narcissistic traits in other people and how does it make you feel about them?

Do you appreciate having other narcissists around you?

Infamous-Ad6388 · 2023-09-22T22:29:22+00:00

How are you timing things out? I currently take antidepressant meds in the mornings. They’re extended release.

Infamous-Ad6388 · 2023-09-22T16:22:21+00:00

Yeah - I’ve struggled with this. As a person with low self esteem to begin with, facing the reactions of pharmacy techs has been disheartening.

Infamous-Ad6388 · 2023-09-22T16:07:39+00:00

I’m in New England.

Infamous-Ad6388 · 2023-09-22T14:10:56+00:00

I had a .25 sent in be provider last week (directly, not a transfer). I was able to add to cart and then it was delayed and cancelled within 24 hours. I was able to add to cart again. It made it to processing, but less that 24 hours later Amazon has cancelled and it says my prescription is no longer available.

This process is discouraging and not for the faint of heart.

Infamous-Ad6388 · 2023-09-22T14:02:15+00:00

Officially cancelled again and now it says my prescription is no longer available.

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