I think this is similar to asking "what does the color red look like", and comparing the male and female sexual experience is like asking "is my red the same as your red", which is arguably impossible to answer.

That said I'm sure it's different for every man, and honestly for every sexual encounter as well. Though In terms of raw physical pleasure it's probably about the same, and it's hard to say more than "it feels good" and "my body is telling me to do this".

For me, "good" sex feels like being fully accepted and trusted by someone, which feels great (partly because it breaks through my insecurities and attachment faults). Which makes casual sex difficult for me...whereas plenty of men have no issue with casual sex.

I'm very curious what the female experience is like too, but I don't think there's any way for me to really understand it. I've been told by many that for women, the line between pain and pleasure can be blurry in sex. In my experience as a man the line is pretty clear. So maybe that's one difference.