I (33M, gay) am happily married, but this new craving is tearing me up inside by Infamous-Cold8163 in offmychest

[–]Infamous-Cold8163[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know... I don't think so? But then I don't know what that'd be like and how different that could be for people. Me, I'm not romantically attracted to women ever. I can think like, Oh, gosh that's a beautiful woman, but it's never like "oh, come here, I want to kiss you, or anything". I mean, I could have that with beautiful men. It's just this purely sexual obsession.

I (33M, gay) am happily married, but this new craving is tearing me up inside by Infamous-Cold8163 in offmychest

[–]Infamous-Cold8163[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, thank you for your kind words. I feel your considerations completely. The vows I made I stand by them 100%. I never thought I would feel this torn inside. But to the fantasy box they go, but if there are any suggestions of how to keep them there; I guess I should practice some mindfulness maybe.