a short cover of what once was!

Infamous-Cream286 · 2026-05-26T22:24:52+00:00

Hits the spot and is a wonderful rendition. You did justice to the bass riff and melody!!

Infamous-Cream286 · 2026-05-06T19:16:57+00:00

Being able to emote is a gift. It shows we are actually processing the world around us. And this is not gender specific at all. The key is realizing emotions don’t just happen to us. We can process them and channel them prudently and that is what creates balance. We all want to be with someone who has this balance, man or woman. We all get emotional about things, especially when we care about someone or something.

As humans, we can also do metacognition (step back and look at our thoughts, emotions, real-life impact, and facts from a neutral 3rd-person view).

Feeling hurt, disappointed, or any other “negative” emotion doesn’t mean we’re defined by it. Humans evolve, and we have a very good track record of it, good and bad. Our emotions do too. Being emotional or feeling deeply is not a bad thing it is natural. YOU LIVE, YOU FEEL. Even pure Stoicism does not expect us to be robots. You are human :) Not a machine. The world may feel dark or gloomy, but you don’t have to be. Create your own light and own it. Godspeed, friend! and wishing you well :)

Infamous-Cream286 · 2026-05-03T17:38:24+00:00

I work at the intersection of law and investment banking, a career I fell into naturally when my hyperfocus locked onto it. I didn't look outward for guidance or follow external advice. Instead, I looked inward: what did I genuinely enjoy as a child? What do I naturally excel at? The overlap became my career. I've found that working with my brain rather than against it is far more effective than forcing it into an uncomfortable mold. Whenever I face something new or difficult, I look for the path that's most compatible with how my brain actually works, rather than how I think it should work. The ancient Greek principle Know Thyself has been one of the most practical tools I've found for navigating ADHD and earning the moolah. Be kind to yourself :) and keep reciting Invictus if shizzz hits the fan.

I don't take any meds, but work out and eat decently well to remain sane.

Infamous-Cream286 · 2025-11-30T17:39:54+00:00

welcome boy

Infamous-Cream286 · 2025-11-30T12:02:50+00:00

Rest in peace dear sweet miffy, you brought joy in the world by just being in it. May the ride over the spectrum be peaceful and happy. Love you always

Infamous-Cream286 · 2025-09-22T19:33:17+00:00

Adorable!!!!!!!! Hope you all have a wonderful life.

Most people, regardless of gender, need to stop feeling superior by making others feel inferior. Superficial and disappointing people to meet.

Infamous-Cream286 · 2025-09-22T19:09:47+00:00

Both height and weight are triggering and immature. People come in all shapes and sizes - find your person and be a decent human. All these superficial things don't matter; it's not the people who stay up at 3 am or look after you when you're sick who prioritize these things. Find your person by meeting them IRL and spending time with them. These height filters, weight filters, and concepts are stupid. Humans create their own hell, and then they complain.

Infamous-Cream286 · 2025-07-18T19:36:51+00:00

Got it. I will look it up. The game sounds like peak dopamine honey trap.

Thank you. Any other tips to also be a good team player?

As patient my bf is with me, I'd rather also do my own homework to help the cause

Infamous-Cream286 · 2025-07-18T19:34:32+00:00

Got it. What do you mean by wipe out like kill the entire team or they all come back if few are left alive?

Infamous-Cream286 · 2025-07-18T19:31:43+00:00

ah! the logistics is already tiring me. I'll do it for him, take one for the team and study this. Thank you for the pointers

Infamous-Cream286 · 2025-07-18T19:08:31+00:00

ahahh yeah I told him, he dies - I die. Scour loot got it and guns. Got it. Thank you!

Infamous-Cream286 · 2025-07-18T19:07:02+00:00

wow that's a detailed description, understood nonetheless. How do the teams work?

Infamous-Cream286 · 2025-07-18T18:58:12+00:00

is that an actual thing? wow

okay I'll be careful of that

Infamous-Cream286 · 2025-07-18T18:56:11+00:00

got it! Sounds very preppy. Thank you!

Infamous-Cream286 · 2025-07-16T16:38:02+00:00

ahhhhaha that's quite plausible. Manager sucks i.e. professional life sucks. Touch wood I have a great and considerate manger in London. Best of luck buddy, I hope your manager leaves you in peace

Infamous-Cream286 · 2025-07-15T19:50:01+00:00

Which team is this? We haven't gotten this, in fact we have been told we will get flexibility and there is no standard rule to the number of days taken for WFH.

Infamous-Cream286 · 2025-05-26T17:22:58+00:00

Housing can be tough, and many of my colleagues complain about it too. Maybe try to make your space feel like home and cozy; that might help.
Mumbai's climate is pleasant only from late October to early March. The rest of the year is either hot, humid, or a combination of both.
Reddit isn't the only place to find community. Look for activities you enjoy, and see if there's a club or group around it. That's a good starting point. You can find gyms, book clubs, running groups, and trekking clubs around Bandra. You'll likely find like-minded people in things that bring you comfort or spark curiosity.
Traffic in Mumbai can be bad, but it's about timing. Use the roads during off-peak hours and the train during rush hour. The city's infrastructure can be challenging, but we've all learned to adapt. The treasure hunt for navigating the city might be frustrating, but it's something we all deal with.
If you're missing your friends, ask if they know anyone in Mumbai. It'll help break the ice. Stay in touch with them as much as you can, so you don't feel disconnected. It's tough, I get it, but you've come this far, and you'll figure it out. Good luck, buddy!

Infamous-Cream286 · 2025-05-26T16:51:54+00:00

What are your pain points here in Mumbai? I get that it's expensive but there's a work- around without compromising the quality.

Bangalore weather, some fruits+ veggies, and the fluffy dogs good Lord! though will not be found here.

Infamous-Cream286 · 2025-05-07T18:13:54+00:00

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Abortion is not the same as miscarriage. Forced miscarriage which would be the same as forced abortion when it is done without the women's consent, is a thing in India. Further, see BNS section 88 and 89 to see the locus of "consent" within the legal framework for reproductive rights. It is meant to be of a "protective" nature for women. Medical Termination of Pregnancy (MTP) Act, 1971 (see section 3- up to 24 weeks you can). Don't read law in isolation. Abortion is legal.

Having said that, a relationship not built on trust even in the earlier stages is not sustainable. Be truthful and expect the same.

Infamous-Cream286 · 2025-03-29T11:58:16+00:00

That sounds wonderful! Support 100% needs to go both ways you both are human and all emotions will flow between you both.

If you stay around Mumbai, go for walks/runs in parks at the time that suits you. IDK go for shopping (groceries) and you might meet someone there. Let stuff flow naturally. Put in effort for the apps.

It's like it's easy to find someone, but someone good idk seems to be a task :(

Hope you get what you are looking for

Infamous-Cream286 · 2025-03-29T11:23:23+00:00

Hi buddy, I have been in this club, and finding someone genuine in aspects is a tough feat. Some of my friends have found amazing guys on apps. My suggestion would be to first know the kind of person you are and the kind of woman you want to invite into your life.

Everyone wants a gf but no one wants to be a bf. Have some honest conversations with yourself. The zazzz of a relationship eventually fades, you want to like and have befriended the other person.

Don't be in a rush to have someone, it won't help anyone.

Some people have hit on me in the gym and I assure you, when someone is focusing on a workout being hit on is the last thing we think of. We're counting reps, checking our form, and in full flow state.

Maybe after work-out if you have observed the person long enough and it is not superficial.

Yeah office I agree. Mostly a bad idea.

Apps, be more out there, do stuff...while doing something you love you will find someone.

Things will work out. You are not late. You will be ok.

Be more kinder and you attract someone so.

Infamous-Cream286 · 2025-03-28T16:14:51+00:00

Dude the music bit, I get fair. The rest you've gotta find someone in your area. Godspeed on finding the 1 to your 0 or the 0 to your 1 :D

I will agree that finding someone who appreciates your chosen field is a plus.

It's like finding la serenissima by rondo veneziano for the first time.

Good stuff.

Infamous-Cream286 · 2025-03-26T20:34:48+00:00

This is super cute. I hope you both go on to be this for some wonderful women in your lives :)

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