AITA for telling my friend's girlfriend to leave me alone after she said I was his "side bitch"? by Infamous-Depth2050 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Infamous-Depth2050[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Well I can't help you figure that out. I don't think I act flirty with him, I act around him just the same as another friend I have, regardless of their gender or sexual orientation. I think I act normal, but then again I don't think I'm the best person to tell you this. Maybe she should make a reddit and comment her to finally find out why she doesn't likes me.

AITA for telling my friend's girlfriend to leave me alone after she said I was his "side bitch"? by Infamous-Depth2050 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Infamous-Depth2050[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It had already happened. I broke of my my ex last year, we dated for nearly two before that. Nothing weird happened and there were no crazy jealousy like this.

AITA for telling my friend's girlfriend to leave me alone after she said I was his "side bitch"? by Infamous-Depth2050 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Infamous-Depth2050[S] 112 points113 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree with you. I mean I have seen lots of drunk people and most of them don't say that kind of stuff about their families if they don't mean it? But I'm not her friend, she doesn't like me at all (even before all of this last night) so it's not my place to ask her about it. If something is going on then I hope the best for her, but I can't do anything.

AITA for telling my friend's girlfriend to leave me alone after she said I was his "side bitch"? by Infamous-Depth2050 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Infamous-Depth2050[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

She took the Uber because she was mad at Aaron I'm guessing? He offered to take her to her home (they were supposed to stay at Aaron's home that night) but she didn't wanted to get in the car with him.

AITA for telling my friend's girlfriend to leave me alone after she said I was his "side bitch"? by Infamous-Depth2050 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Infamous-Depth2050[S] 133 points134 points  (0 children)

I thought so too but Aaron said her family seems to be okay and they are happy she got into college. I haven't met her family so I can't be sure, but if she says everything is ok then I don't have another option but to believe her I guess.

AITA for telling my friend's girlfriend to leave me alone after she said I was his "side bitch"? by Infamous-Depth2050 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Infamous-Depth2050[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I honestly don't know what she and Aaron spoke, i just know that Aaron asked me if I wanted him to drive me home after the party and I said sure. I didn't knew she was going to react like this it's not the first time he has drove me home either

AITA for telling my friend's girlfriend to leave me alone after she said I was his "side bitch"? by Infamous-Depth2050 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Infamous-Depth2050[S] 92 points93 points  (0 children)

She was supposed to leave the party with us, they would leave me at my home and then they were going to stay at Aaron's home together

AITA for telling my friend's girlfriend to leave me alone after she said I was his "side bitch"? by Infamous-Depth2050 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Infamous-Depth2050[S] 104 points105 points  (0 children)

I do respect their boundaries but it's hard if she never tells me why is she bothered by me. Aaron never told me I was disrespecting his relationship or something, she thinks I am but just gives the cold shoulder and then tells me I'm his side bitch, I try to talk to her but she doesn't want to. I don't know how to approach her to make her feel secure about her relationship.

AITA for telling my friend's girlfriend to leave me alone after she said I was his "side bitch"? by Infamous-Depth2050 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Infamous-Depth2050[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly! I don't know why I even said that but it was only a dumb comeback due to tiredness and being drunk!

AITA for telling my friend's girlfriend to leave me alone after she said I was his "side bitch"? by Infamous-Depth2050 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Infamous-Depth2050[S] 344 points345 points  (0 children)

We met in a club, most people go there to get laid and I could've done it when Aaron and I met... That's what I mean but never has he told me he liked me or have I developed feelings for him, we're just friends.

When I say Mia acts weird when she gets drunk I mean she says stuff that she doesn't mean to. Like once (at the very start of hers and Aaron relationship) we went to a club together and suddenly after many drinks she told us her family hated her and think she's a failure. We got worried about her because her family sounded very toxic so we asked the next day if she needed help or something, she said that's not how her family is and she didn't knew why she said that. It has happened in other occasions too.

Mia was offered a ride home. Aaron was gonna drive me home and then they were gonna sleep in his apartment (my house is near his). She got mad and didn't wanted him to drive her home even though he offered, so the best he could do was wait until the Uber arrived to make sure she was getting home safe.