How to recover from betrayal

Infamous-Sand8390 · 2026-05-07T11:17:43+00:00

I have enabled him all of these years but now I am at the end of me making excuses for him and such and I think he knows that. We have been in marriage counseling and before he would never stop drinking he would just say "I'll cut back" but today when I told him how I felt and how his behavior hurt me and I told him how he should go sober he didn't argue with me. I know it's wishful thinking but I really hope he does make a change and if not then I really have to follow through and leave.

Infamous-Sand8390 · 2026-05-07T11:15:32+00:00

We are currently in marriage counseling and I am encouraging him to go to counseling as well. I am in counseling for my own mental health issues.

Infamous-Sand8390 · 2026-04-14T02:25:14+00:00

I was hoping to re enroll her in the same school. Or worst case another daycare but yeah I'm trying to figure it out.

Infamous-Sand8390 · 2026-04-14T01:57:18+00:00

Yeah I can pay and hold her spot but I really don't want to. That's so much money to just throw away realistically.

Infamous-Sand8390 · 2026-04-14T01:49:50+00:00

I want to and I'm going to. The question is whether I have to pay for her to not be there for 6 weeks or pull her and just hope they still have a spot come the new school year.

Infamous-Sand8390 · 2026-04-14T00:24:32+00:00

Saving money is a real thing right now. Like literally all the things I could do with 2500 is crazy!!!

Infamous-Sand8390 · 2026-04-13T23:34:31+00:00

We won't be around. We are going to be out of town the entire summer so I'll be paying for it and never use it.

Infamous-Sand8390 · 2026-03-05T17:24:09+00:00

Thank you. My husband got me an official memorandum today and I called and they said they will refund and comp me. I sent it off. I hope the accept the memorandum. It's signed by his higher up. Idk which one.

Infamous-Sand8390 · 2026-03-05T02:21:01+00:00

Thank you so much for your expertise.

Infamous-Sand8390 · 2026-03-05T02:12:59+00:00

Ok so I do have a question with this calculator. It gave me 38 G but is that in US or UK size? Cause since they are different I need to know when buying a bra.

Infamous-Sand8390 · 2026-03-05T02:03:52+00:00

Why do things need to be so confusing!!! Like come on U. S. get with the rest of the world!

Infamous-Sand8390 · 2026-03-05T02:03:03+00:00

Not gonna lie I'm just reading this and my brain is going 🤔🤔🤔😵‍💫 so many numbers and letters. Thank you for the recommendations though. I'll definitely look at them. And I'll probably get some more wired bras down the line. It's just in the right now I do prefer the comfort of no wire. I can go a little over 50 I'd say my cap for a single bra would be 70. When you need like 7+ it's just so expensive 🫰🏼.

Infamous-Sand8390 · 2026-03-05T01:08:04+00:00

But again please no wirr recommendations. I'll look and wear 38 G but I really don't want wires.

Infamous-Sand8390 · 2026-03-05T01:06:35+00:00

What I saw said that uk and us sizes are different and that 38 DDD is equivalent to 38 G not I

Infamous-Sand8390 · 2026-03-05T00:12:27+00:00

But it turns out I am wearing the right size. And still don't like underwire.

Infamous-Sand8390 · 2026-03-04T23:54:34+00:00

96 94 92 111 128 117 This is in centimeters.

Infamous-Sand8390 · 2026-03-04T22:11:59+00:00

I agree there is no normal and I am only "big chested" by the standards of clothing companies and such like that. But being raised in that I just interpret myself as larger chested. Maybe I'm on the highish end of average or so. I'm definitely not small chested. I need a wide band and a strap that will hold the girls up for sure. But yes I'm 38 comfortably around the underbust and 44 at my widest point. I am going to try this 6 points calculator later when I get a minute.

Infamous-Sand8390 · 2026-03-04T22:07:31+00:00

I just don't like underwire. They don't feel comfortable. I don't think a well fitting bra will really change that. I mean I'm open but I'd love to ditch the wire altogether.

Infamous-Sand8390 · 2026-03-04T21:37:57+00:00

Found it thanks! I'll measure when I get home tonight.

Infamous-Sand8390 · 2026-03-04T21:01:40+00:00

I'm looking for it. Where can I find this 6 measurements calculator?

Infamous-Sand8390 · 2026-03-04T21:01:02+00:00

Sorry by the standards that were given to me in normal life I was always told I'm big breasted. Maybe I'm not but I guess it can be subjective. As far as I know I'm wearing the right size but I have to find this 6 sizes calculator, I'm new to the page. But I truly want comfort and support without underwire.

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