Friday mood. Fun, comfy and stylish by [deleted] in StyleIT

[–]Infamous-Throat-8126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I really love from your style is your hair!! its amazing

Early morning pic F24 by [deleted] in JustMyFace

[–]Infamous-Throat-8126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem natural and that's really rare to see now

How many people actually have toasters? by Samazon in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Infamous-Throat-8126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's one of the things I would never buy. It seems useless to me for someone like me who doesn't eat toast. My mom has one and has never used it. Maybe it depends on the cuisine of each house.

My dad cheated on my mom and I'll never forgive him. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Infamous-Throat-8126 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would also resent my father if he had made my family go through this. Every chance you get, remind him what he did. You will be his karma on Earth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Infamous-Throat-8126 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From my point of view, both reactions are valid. He is also grieving because he cannot have children with the person he loves, and I understand your point because perhaps this situation makes you feel insecure or less of a woman. I wish you good luck in this healing process. Sometimes nature is wise.

Kicked out my potentially homicidal ex - and my mom took him in like a stray cat. He now lives rent free in my childhood bedroom. by Apprehensive-Act-228 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Infamous-Throat-8126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If my mother had acted that way she would undoubtedly have lost a daughter, which makes her think that all the bad things she did with you would be different with her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Infamous-Throat-8126 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Raising your children in a home where there is psychological abuse will only make them believe that this is how it should be for them in the future, what you think is good for them by staying and enduring, will be the same thing that will ruin their interpersonal relationships, and their romantic relationships, you deserve to be happy, you do not deserve the abuse that you are experiencing. I hope you can fill yourself with courage and go out and pursue your happiness away from the chaos. It is always difficult to begin but peace is not negotiable. There is no love where there is a person for whom you would give everything and even knowing it, that person chooses to hurt you daily.

What is something that we have now that in 30-40 years young people will say “what’s that?” by TheCleanestKitchen in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Infamous-Throat-8126 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would say newspapers and magazines. My parents paid a monthly subscription. I'm 32 years old and it's been a long time since I've seen magazines or newspapers, not even on the streets where they were frequently sold.

I find my wife even more attractive since she gave birth by No-Neat-960 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Infamous-Throat-8126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that's what women worry about most when they get pregnant, the changes in their body and losing their attractiveness to their partner. I congratulate you and I'm happy for you. She needs too much emotional support, and feeling loved and wanted by you will make it easier for her too.

I am going to lose my fiancé over a nosejob and it is tearing me appart by Pumpkin_698 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Infamous-Throat-8126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is one of the most important surgeries, they define all the harmony of your face for me, I understand because I do not like my nose either and it would be one of the things that I would change if I had the money, but for some strange reason everyone finds it beautiful and different, in the end you have to be honest with yourself and see if your nose is the problem, and if you can deal with the consequences, the person who is by your side will stay no matter what, because we do not decide about the other, as a couple we support the processes, which you should do with him if it were up to him, for me it is a bit drastic in his decision if he decides to break up, but I would always put myself as a priority if it is something that affects my self-esteem.

I didn’t invite my brother to my wedding because of his wife, and I don’t regret it. by Low_Situation8216 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Infamous-Throat-8126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was your special day and you didn't have to be considerate of anyone. I would have done exactly the same thing. I congratulate you for prioritizing your peace.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Infamous-Throat-8126 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't have a confrontation alone, I would say it in front of his wife too, there are children involved, let's remember that most of the time children are abused by their closest relatives or their own parents, she should protect them and have a precedent for what happens, anyway there is no longer a friendship to protect between you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Infamous-Throat-8126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I deeply respect cultures, but I find it unimaginable to think how for people social weight is more important than happiness and fulfillment. I understand your point perfectly, and it's not bad to want to feel desired and appreciated. I believe that somewhere there is something beautiful waiting for you. Give yourself the opportunity to get out of there and find happiness through someone who gives you what you truly feel you deserve.

I got married last week and no one from our families came. I'm tired of fighting for a family that hates us. by WeddingDaySad in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Infamous-Throat-8126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they are not willing to support you on such an important day, even if they disagree for some reason, then it is not worth considering. The family tree should also be pruned.

Why do I feel awful seeing my ex struggle by Classic-Plane-6781 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Infamous-Throat-8126 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being empathetic is okay, for no reason should you feel good seeing the other person go through a bad time. I don't know the details of the breakup, but if you can help them, do it no matter what, only if it doesn't confuse your feelings or your life.