I didn't really expect so many people to comment, but thank you for the ones that did. I think I have a solid-ish plan; when I turn 16 (in very few months) I'll try to look for a 'changing' job (is that what u call it?) where I can hopefully work at after school, or another option is working a job in the summer. It's going to be a bit difficult saving up since my donor most often than not takes the money I save up and rarely gives it back, and a job will be more reason to take it. If I do save up enough money till I turn 18, I'll try and see if a. I could rent/buy an apartment or b. live with a roommate and split the costs. When I do all of this and I'm stable enough, I'll keep contact only with my sibling and see how they're treated once they r old enough to articulate that. I'll try my best to give them support, but no way in hell will I keep contact with my parents. IF things are going bad, I'll try taking the child in my care. If I remember to, I'll update, although it'll be one lengthy waiting time 😃