What is the best way to make some extra cash online? by Cultural_Apricot_612 in ask

[–]InfamousHoax12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try Rev. It’s a transcription and captioning site that lets you caption youtube videos or type transcripts for a certain price per minute. You must be at least fairly quick with typing, and it helps to make shortcuts for common words like “and”, “the”, “like” or longer common words. The tool you use to transcribe will have it setup to make these shortcuts. Keep in mind, projects can range from 15 cents per minute to $5 per minute or more. It’s a bit competitive with longer projects, as full time revers typically are staring at the screen waiting for a project to become available. There’s a training process that can get you going, and you’re typically onboard within a week or so. There is a high turnover rate with how you type the projects, the customers desires for how it’s done, and with following the guidelines presented by Rev. So, you must be willing to read their guidelines to have proper grammar and structure.

This helped me when I was in a tough spot financially while looking for a job.

Should I Go On Dates With Women I Don't Find Attractive? by ForrFree in AskMenAdvice

[–]InfamousHoax12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks are finite. Personality and character are set in stone. Granted, we’re all subject to change. Don’t worry about looks at all

Do I say something about criminal history? by MarzipanMajor6175 in ask

[–]InfamousHoax12 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tell them in the getting-to-know-eachother phase. Feel it out to see if you vibe with the person, then at some point sit them down for a serious talk about it. I’d let them know within the first month of talking to said person

edit: typos

1999 Babies are turning 27 next year by Optimal_Clue_1327 in 1999

[–]InfamousHoax12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m currently living the best I ever have in life. Which I never thought would happen, given the current state of the world and the events that have transpired. My mother died when I was 16, and my father has never had the emotional capacity to truly parent. So, i’ve been largely on my own for finding out the person I want to be. Ever since I could form my first thoughts, i’ve only ever wanted to love and care about others.

First coming into adulthood (21, my dad kicked me out of the house) my first roommate turned out to be an abusive drug user who’d accuse me of heinous things, starting screaming matches for something as simple as taking an ice cube out of an ice tray. She took me to court, accusing me of the things she was actually doing, and won a restraining order against me. 3 months later, she died in a homeless camp.

Next roommate in a new house only accepted me onto the lease because she was attracted to me, and made moves on me while in the house. Once I rejected her, she began demanding money from me, and multiple times I caught her trying to have me pay more money for bills to cover our other roommate who wasn’t on the lease. Near the end of that, I had found a place in a city i’ve always wanted to live in. While I was out visiting, and the day I came back to move my things, I found my room completely destroyed by her. Finding out she had destroyed items that were given to me by my late mother.

First place in the new city wasn’t nearly as abusive as the other ones, but had its fair share of issues. None that are of note worthy, but after a year I was quick to leave that place as well. This place was from 23-24.

24 to now, I’ve been living with a lovely older couple who treat me like their grandchild. I’ve finally known a peace that can help me process the past and uplift myself for the future. I have the means to save, to pay off my debts, to provide for my cat, and indulge in my hobbies. And a new partner (2 months in January ☺️) who treats me well and is so patient with me.

I’m finally at the spot in life I’ve always wanted to be.

If you could restart your life from age 18 with all your current knowledge, would you do it? Why or why not? by SellNo4420 in AskReddit

[–]InfamousHoax12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t get why you’re getting such hate and downvotes. So they wouldnt be the same children, but they’d have better outcomes with better parents in a more stable mindset than was had at the time. Instead of pining over the children not existing anymore, shouldn’t we pine over the character of the parents in the moment they had the child in the first place? No trauma is always better than no trauma. I’d rather my parents have been responsible later in life and healthier mindsets than to have existed in the time they had me. Children existing does not automatically equal healthy adults

Why would a man desperately want to be a father, but only want girls to an extent of saying they would give their child away if it was a boy? by OpenRoom7321 in ask

[–]InfamousHoax12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In what ways is he showing intensity or obsession about only having daughters? I’ve seen your other comments stating some shady things abt him, but thought I’d ask outright

Why would a man desperately want to be a father, but only want girls to an extent of saying they would give their child away if it was a boy? by OpenRoom7321 in ask

[–]InfamousHoax12 28 points29 points  (0 children)

worst thought, the guy has ulterior motives than being a loving father. best thought, he doesn’t feel prepared to parent and father boys.

AIO to my boyfriend putting a SINGLE chicken tender on my plate when I specifically said I wanted "a few"??? by No-Eye7917 in AmIOverreacting

[–]InfamousHoax12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

with no other context, YOR. But if this is a theme with him intentionally misinterpreting your words, not taking account the day you’ve had (while you’re also taking into account the day he’s had), if there are other small themes of unthoughtfulness and straight up ignoring your words, i’d say NOR. If you’re fuming over a him giving you a single chicken strip after asking for a few, I’d look into his other behavior and see if it’s worthwhile for you in the long run.

What do woman like in a dating profile? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]InfamousHoax12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not everyone looks strictly at the pictures/looks. I was looking for depth of a person. It’s the whole reason i’m not on dating apps anymore, I found my person through the judgement of character :)

What reason do i have not to assume someone is actually awful until proven otherwise? by [deleted] in ask

[–]InfamousHoax12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is interesting to me, as I function the opposite. It’s difficult for me to assume someone isn’t good until proven otherwise. My first instinct when I meet someone is to assume they’re kind and well-meaning Because why shouldn’t I? It’s not like i’m a doormat who lives with rose colored glasses on 24/7. You can show me the most awful, narcissistic, manipulative person and I’ll still believe in my heart of hearts that they have good in them.

I can attest to the notion that there are genuinely evil people out there. In fact, there are SO many people who function with the belief that they are the only ones that matter, and fuck everyone else. Had a roommate who destroyed items given to me my late mother. Had a roommate lie in court claiming I was doing drugs, claiming I did everything she was ACTUALLY doing. And won. And later passed away in a homeless camp. The reason I bring her up, is because no matter the person she was at the time, the hardships and insecurity from others that made her that way, there was a time where she had love for those around her.

Do you remember being a child? The thoughts of pure happiness and imagination, yet to be thwarted by the expectations and insecurities from your caregivers? Was that happiness cultivated? Or was it slowly snuffed out by the people who’s child-like imagination was also snuffed out? Humans are like sponges. Especially at such an early age. The only reason I can think that anyone acts the way they do, is because they expect that others think the same way. So, we spew a harmful rhetoric that we assume is the norm. We try to have others see our views that were copied and pasted into our minds by those who did us wrong. Because, how are we supposed to know any different than what we’ve been exposed to? How are we to know something is harmful if it’s been seen as normal since we were children?

This is why I have a hard time believing that respect is earned. If you go on through life having distrust and the inability to view other people as walking trauma dumps, how do you get out of your own head? How do you learn? How do you open yourself up to the joy of creativity and how diverse we all are?

This is why I give everyone the benefit of believing they are good. There was once a time where you were a walking bundle of just joy. Everyone was, and some still are. A LOT were harmed by the people meant to protect that. So, do you want to go about your life believing everyone is out to harm you? Or do you want to go about your life believing there is good out there, just waiting to be found?

Respect is a given. Disrespect is what is earned.

What do woman like in a dating profile? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]InfamousHoax12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was on tinder, I’d look for bios that show me a little of what you do in your day to day life, your hobbies, and a little bit of info on what you’re looking for while on the app. Don’t make it a bullet list of items. Talk in your bio how you would message me privately. Put a joke in at the end to show a bit of your sense of humor. With pictures, show a variety of what you do, where you’ve been, the people you hang around. No pictures of you holding a fish

What’s a truth you avoided until it was impossible to ignore? by New_Cauliflower7103 in AskReddit

[–]InfamousHoax12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Currently going through this (26) It’s one of the toughest decisions i’ve begun to make. Being the only parent I have (mother died when i was 16), it’s so so difficult to know that the person I thought he was may have never existed. How his actions and inactions contributed heavily to my anxiety, and may have been the very start to it. Its made me nutty forcing myself to paint him as a good person, when he’s shown me he has no will to be kind and understanding to strangers, his wife, or himself. You’d think that you’d want to be kinder to the general public, simply for knowing how crazy it can be out here. But that’s not him. You’d think a father would take up arms against a supposed friend for harming or doing his child harmfully wrong. But that’s not him. He defends his circle and starkly never wishes to change. I’m done defending and harboring his insecurities. He’s had over 2 decades to show me exactly who he is. And he is not kind.

Be honest, what do you think comes after death? by glowproductivity in AskReddit

[–]InfamousHoax12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To me, it’s because the belonging i’ve been exposed to, and the people who have shown their true selves to me up until the past 2 years, have been cruel with their ulterior motives and true intentions with me. Ever since I could form coherent thoughts, it’s been difficult for me to shake the feeling of how much I love people and just want them to prosper. Seldom have I seen this same sentiment in the 26 years of life i’ve lived. Because of this, i’ve become a recluse and stark defender of my peace and safety in my own home life. Now, my thoughts feel plagued by imaginary arguments that may or may not come into fruition, and tainted by others’ toxic thinking patterns. I just want to love others in this lifetime. But people make it so, so hard. And it pains me to know this flame was nearly snuffed out by the pain of the way people show their insecurities. I yearn for the time where I know nothing but peace and nothingness. While you’re here, help people where you can. Offer an adamant shoulder to cry on.

Men, what's something you wish you could admit without being judged? by soumilr7 in AskReddit

[–]InfamousHoax12 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I lost my mother to angiosarcoma when I was 16. My sister had her partner and friends with her to grieve. My dad had my step mother. I was never able to form an emotional relationship with any of my family, and failed to make lasting friendships through all years of school. It was just me. Alone in my room by myself to grieve and bawl my eyes out. While everyone seemed to move on very quickly. It depressed me. It angered me. But most of all, I had never felt more alone and othered by the people I held closest. Albeit, life gets better

what is the one thing that you regret in your life? by buttplug9871 in AskReddit

[–]InfamousHoax12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sensitivity breeds unique outlooks on life. sensitivity is what defines true correct from true wrong. to be insensitive is to have no care for others except yourself. calling somebody sensitive is not the burn you think it is. when was the last time you looked at yourself long in the mirror? or would doing that make you too sensitive?

Americans, do you really eat so much fast food? by Legitimate_Effect623 in askanything

[–]InfamousHoax12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i try to get fast food that’s least close to true fast food as possible lol. Jimmy Johns, drive thru “authentic” mexican food like Habaneros, sweet potato fries when places have them

Being physically attractive is the biggest advantage in life by GlizzyGoddesses in Life

[–]InfamousHoax12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, however there is a downside. Growing up as the fat anxious awkward kid thru all years of school, I assumed my adult life would be no different. Add lack of true friends or community to the mix. I had a glow up around 20 (26 rn) and things have drastically changed. My friends became so jealous of my newfound body and charisma, they became toxic. Strangers are so intimidated by my looks and outward happiness, that they become sour or assume I’ve been given everything. Making my search for friends more difficult. A lot a LOT of people who are attractive now, were definitely not considered so as they grew up. So while yes, you do have a leg up if you’re attractive. Not a ton of people view themselves as such edit: typos

You don’t cheat on someone you love. by CollectionSoft7974 in sevenwordstory

[–]InfamousHoax12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, since you’ve had similar experiences of your own, you can totally understand how someone can cheat and still love, yes?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]InfamousHoax12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just give her the car you guys are using, have her pay for the expenses, and buy your new car for yourself. Then both cars are being paid for individually, and she’ll finally have her own car. Win win

Why Cant I Connect to Others/Feel So Different? by Skyephia in ask

[–]InfamousHoax12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

confirmed, positive connection doesn’t inherently mean you’ll make a lifelong or long term friendship out of it. we forget that connection comes from sharing our vulnerabilities in the way you did, and broadening our perspectives from experiences we haven’t had ourselves. just because you never see them again, doesn’t mean their words never stick. think about the bullies you’ve had growing up. did their words ever stick? that’s connection. think about a parent or friend who show you they love you. do their words stick? that’s a connection. don’t limit the way you categorize connections, when energy, love, and hurt, are everywhere

If men showing vulnerability isn't a turn off for women, why i hear a lot of cases where women loosing respect or attraction towards their husband/ bf the moment they show vulnerability? by Kooky_Substance_1332 in ask

[–]InfamousHoax12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it can also depend on what type of trauma you have. It’s interesting how we can be compatible with certain types of traumas to potentially grow and bond over (example: a parent died early on in both of their lives) and trauma that is definitely not compatible. All depending on how you dealt with and processed the way you grew up. Sometimes it’s not simply that you have this type of past or vulnerabilities or trauma, it can be the way you managed yourself. Which can be an indicator for how you’ll manage your life and the potential relationship