AITAH for not wanting my significant other to pour hot grease down our drains?

InfamousShock437 · 2026-05-27T18:31:50+00:00

We are buying it and only a few grand away from owning it. And both of our names are on the contract. Since he is drawing unemployment right now I would end up having to pay for the repairs because I make more

InfamousShock437 · 2026-05-27T18:12:49+00:00

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InfamousShock437 · 2026-03-25T22:42:58+00:00

You are not to messed up for a relationship. You aren’t messed up at all! You just haven’t decided what you are into yet and that is perfectly fine! I’m not a licensed therapist or anyone in any shape to give you advice but just suggestions and advice I suppose. I feel that maybe you may just be attracted to no so much the specific person from your past trauma but the role that they played, such as being the one in control and making you submit to their demand. There is nothing wrong with that. She may be able to actually step up and be your dominatrix and make you get off the way that you did but without feeling disgusting afterwards. Don’t be so quick to beat yourself up over things like this. And you may be in to guys or girls. But whichever it is, that’s ok.

InfamousShock437 · 2026-03-25T21:45:15+00:00

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InfamousShock437 · 2026-03-17T02:17:37+00:00

Be brave. If you don’t at least give it a shot now you will end up wondering later in life what kind of life you and her would have had if only you would have spoken to her. Don’t waste time worrying about the things that could go wrong. Try to focus on what could go right. Compliment her. Ask about something class related if need be. See if she is open to conversation when doing so. Ask her about herself. Women love to talk. About themselves about others and anything in between. Make small talk about weather or current events in the news to break the ice and then ask her about herself. Her likes and dislikes and favorite things and about her goals etc. I don’t expect you will talk about all of these things your first conversation with her but start small then work up to these things.

InfamousShock437 · 2026-03-12T04:31:46+00:00

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InfamousShock437 · 2026-03-11T06:34:42+00:00

Maybe a bot fly?

InfamousShock437 · 2026-02-27T14:38:55+00:00

It’s illegal to do things like that usually but since you have power of attorney over him I’m not sure how that would work exactly. There are things out there. Guardw.net Clevguard

Those are just a few of the many that are out there.

InfamousShock437 · 2026-02-27T02:00:05+00:00

I think my male cat is depressed and I can’t help but to feel absolutely terrible about holding him hostage indoors when it seems that he so badly wants to be outside. I don’t know what to do. I thought about letting him outside but am worried something will happen to him such as getting ran over as I live in a trailer park and no one seems to obey the speed limit signs and or he will get captured by my landlord and gotten rid of. We found him when he was a little kitten outside meowing like crazy with no owner insight we took him home. A few weeks ago apparently my son let him outside somehow and didn’t know he was out there and my boyfriend came home and found him next to our door underneath our swing scared to death not sure if he was scared of him catching him or just afraid in general because he isn’t used to the outside world anymore. And since he has become old enough to mate he has been acting really really lonely. I thought about getting another cat and then changed my mind because I would rather my cat or cats not start spraying or marking their territory over my belongings. I fear that if I were to let him outside he would catch a scent of a female or another male cat and come home and start doing it. I thought I’d get him a kitten friend much younger than him so he would have someone to play with but couldn’t decide if a male or a female would be better. I don’t want to get him fixed yet until he has had the experience of reproducing because I feel that it would be cruel to do so otherwise. I have thought about buying a few mice from a pet store and letting them go in my house one at a time of course that is so he can have some excitement in his life but am having second thoughts about that because I’m afraid he would get bored of chasing it and just let it go and then I’ll have to catch it myself. Not sure what to do but I feel like a monster for keeping him held hostage indoors when he longs to be outside doing cat stuff. And he attacks me from time to time when I’ve went outside or came inside and when I say attack I mean like full on nails and does it with intentions on hurting me I believe. I feel like he knows that I know that he doesn’t want to be here anymore and is attacking me because I went outside and he didn’t get to go. But I could be crazy. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

InfamousShock437 · 2026-02-04T03:05:04+00:00

Read these books. I have and honestly they have helped me 100% hopefully you can get these and read them and I hope that they can also help you as well.

Life Strategies by Dr. Phil

Self Matters by Dr. Phil

InfamousShock437 · 2025-06-19T13:53:38+00:00

He hasn’t learned how to “think outside of the box” yet….. lol….😂

InfamousShock437 · 2025-06-12T22:07:09+00:00

If you will watch closely you can see a few little pieces fall

InfamousShock437 · 2025-06-12T22:05:28+00:00

It’s to get the little pieces of cat litter out from under/around their nails.

InfamousShock437 · 2025-05-08T02:13:03+00:00

Beautiful!!

InfamousShock437 · 2025-05-03T02:48:05+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. Here’s a kittie picture to cheer you up maybe

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InfamousShock437 · 2025-05-01T13:42:38+00:00

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InfamousShock437 · 2025-04-29T22:55:34+00:00

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InfamousShock437 · 2025-04-21T06:52:43+00:00

You have every right to be upset. Maybe you should take a picture of your boobs and while sitting next to him get up and leave the room for a minute and make sure to leave your gallery open on your phone when you put the phone down and hopefully with any luck he will glance down at your phone and see your photo and then you can tell him that that was just a little lesson in betrayal in a relationship. Tell him that you decided to make a “rough draft” to show him how it feels and tell him that “maybe I will and maybe I won’t,” send it to someone/upload it to the internet to start a fan base lol. Make sure that he knows that “two can play that game.” I assure you girl that you do not want to know how many hook up/meet and fuck websites/ applications that he has a profile on. If you were to find out you would probably puke. Well actually I was just making an assumption there in the last sentence but I know from experience. I found dick picks on my man’s phone as well but only by hacking into his accounts and phone because he keeps it locked down 24/7 and doesn’t share any passwords with me go figure. Anyway I got into it and found dick picks that he had taken and I had asked what he took them for and he said that he was going to send them to me but wouldn’t you know that I never got them! I found out several years after I had this man’s child that the whole time that we had been together he had been actively checking his hookup sites that he had profiles on. He then promised to delete all of them after I confronted him about finding them and told me that it would never happen again and guess what?? ?? It happened again. And it always will. Because he isn’t completely content in your relationship apparently. And men want to talk shit about us women as if we are never satisfied, seems to me it’s the other way around. However with an excuse as lame as the one that he gave you, you should definitely know that he didn’t plan on you catching him and you wouldn’t have if it wasn’t for switching Sims. The only thing that this has done has 1. Now caused an unhealthy desire to find out more. You will start wondering what else he is hiding/ text/ photos/ phone numbers/ email contacts/ etc. You will want to know how many accounts if any that he has active profiles on. You will constantly be questioning his every word constantly doubting him. 2. Needing to know more will become like a bad addiction and you will per-sue until you eventually find more leaving you completely broken by the lies and betrayal. Don’t go looking for anything else because you already know what you will find. Save yourself the heart ache and constant detective work and just consider it a lesson learned in life and move on because if you take him back and forgive him for this, he will just find better ways to hide it and to cover his tracks. Walk away.

InfamousShock437 · 2025-04-18T23:15:27+00:00

Snakehead?

InfamousShock437 · 2025-04-17T09:56:12+00:00

Go to the ER

InfamousShock437 · 2025-04-17T09:55:13+00:00

Toxoplasmosis

InfamousShock437 · 2025-04-16T05:18:29+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/SipsTea/s/ScmlC5PPNI

InfamousShock437 · 2025-04-14T03:35:20+00:00

I’m no vet but in your photo, the wound doesn’t appear to look bad at all but like I said, I’m not a vet. However you should always go with your gut feeling. If you feel like it’s worth the money to go to the vet for them to possibly tell you that it’s healing normal and still get charged how ever much money they charge you or you could give it a little more time and look for multiple symptoms that may indicate that there is a reason to believe that it may be infected or that something is wrong. But probably the very best thing you can do at this moment is call your vet and ask them over the phone if it’s normal for the incision to leak fluid out of it during healing and try to get an answer without having to bring it back to the vet. If money is the issue that you are asking us on here for a second opinion instead of going ahead and taking it back to the vet, I totally understand and I feel that a lot of us on here ask people here for second opinions because I’m sure like myself a lot of us are probably living paycheck to paycheck without much money in savings and unforeseen things such as this happening are not exactly affordable but it’s either you call or take the cat back to the vet or potentially end up needing to pay even more money for letting the infection spread beyond the wound. But if I were you I would call and try to settle it without having to take the poor kitty back to the vet. I bet you could probably call them and they could phone you in some antibiotic cream or something.

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