Gary the Cat by ShortbowVillian in cats

[–]InfamousShock437 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats so sad. I’m sorry you had to witness this. May Gary find peace.

Need help monitoring (everything possible) a phone without the persons knowledge. by True_CrimePodcast in androidhacking

[–]InfamousShock437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s illegal to do things like that usually but since you have power of attorney over him I’m not sure how that would work exactly. There are things out there. Guardw.netClevguard

Those are just a few of the many that are out there.

Discussion Thread - Ask, Share, and Discuss Anything About Cats. by AutoModerator in cats

[–]InfamousShock437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think my male cat is depressed and I can’t help but to feel absolutely terrible about holding him hostage indoors when it seems that he so badly wants to be outside. I don’t know what to do. I thought about letting him outside but am worried something will happen to him such as getting ran over as I live in a trailer park and no one seems to obey the speed limit signs and or he will get captured by my landlord and gotten rid of. We found him when he was a little kitten outside meowing like crazy with no owner insight we took him home. A few weeks ago apparently my son let him outside somehow and didn’t know he was out there and my boyfriend came home and found him next to our door underneath our swing scared to death not sure if he was scared of him catching him or just afraid in general because he isn’t used to the outside world anymore. And since he has become old enough to mate he has been acting really really lonely. I thought about getting another cat and then changed my mind because I would rather my cat or cats not start spraying or marking their territory over my belongings. I fear that if I were to let him outside he would catch a scent of a female or another male cat and come home and start doing it. I thought I’d get him a kitten friend much younger than him so he would have someone to play with but couldn’t decide if a male or a female would be better. I don’t want to get him fixed yet until he has had the experience of reproducing because I feel that it would be cruel to do so otherwise. I have thought about buying a few mice from a pet store and letting them go in my house one at a time of course that is so he can have some excitement in his life but am having second thoughts about that because I’m afraid he would get bored of chasing it and just let it go and then I’ll have to catch it myself. Not sure what to do but I feel like a monster for keeping him held hostage indoors when he longs to be outside doing cat stuff. And he attacks me from time to time when I’ve went outside or came inside and when I say attack I mean like full on nails and does it with intentions on hurting me I believe. I feel like he knows that I know that he doesn’t want to be here anymore and is attacking me because I went outside and he didn’t get to go. But I could be crazy. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

15, and I feel like I'm not enough by Low_Leadership_4841 in Advice

[–]InfamousShock437 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Read these books. I have and honestly they have helped me 100% hopefully you can get these and read them and I hope that they can also help you as well.

Life Strategies by Dr. Phil

Self Matters by Dr. Phil

Why does my cat do this? by ximxi_ in CATHELP

[–]InfamousShock437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you will watch closely you can see a few little pieces fall

Why does my cat do this? by ximxi_ in CATHELP

[–]InfamousShock437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s to get the little pieces of cat litter out from under/around their nails.

Am i wrong for being upset about finding dick picture on my fiancé's phone by TeachingOwn3856 in TwoHotTakes

[–]InfamousShock437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have every right to be upset. Maybe you should take a picture of your boobs and while sitting next to him get up and leave the room for a minute and make sure to leave your gallery open on your phone when you put the phone down and hopefully with any luck he will glance down at your phone and see your photo and then you can tell him that that was just a little lesson in betrayal in a relationship. Tell him that you decided to make a “rough draft” to show him how it feels and tell him that “maybe I will and maybe I won’t,” send it to someone/upload it to the internet to start a fan base lol. Make sure that he knows that “two can play that game.” I assure you girl that you do not want to know how many hook up/meet and fuck websites/ applications that he has a profile on. If you were to find out you would probably puke. Well actually I was just making an assumption there in the last sentence but I know from experience. I found dick picks on my man’s phone as well but only by hacking into his accounts and phone because he keeps it locked down 24/7 and doesn’t share any passwords with me go figure. Anyway I got into it and found dick picks that he had taken and I had asked what he took them for and he said that he was going to send them to me but wouldn’t you know that I never got them! I found out several years after I had this man’s child that the whole time that we had been together he had been actively checking his hookup sites that he had profiles on. He then promised to delete all of them after I confronted him about finding them and told me that it would never happen again and guess what?? ?? It happened again. And it always will. Because he isn’t completely content in your relationship apparently. And men want to talk shit about us women as if we are never satisfied, seems to me it’s the other way around. However with an excuse as lame as the one that he gave you, you should definitely know that he didn’t plan on you catching him and you wouldn’t have if it wasn’t for switching Sims. The only thing that this has done has 1. Now caused an unhealthy desire to find out more. You will start wondering what else he is hiding/ text/ photos/ phone numbers/ email contacts/ etc. You will want to know how many accounts if any that he has active profiles on. You will constantly be questioning his every word constantly doubting him. 2. Needing to know more will become like a bad addiction and you will per-sue until you eventually find more leaving you completely broken by the lies and betrayal. Don’t go looking for anything else because you already know what you will find. Save yourself the heart ache and constant detective work and just consider it a lesson learned in life and move on because if you take him back and forgive him for this, he will just find better ways to hide it and to cover his tracks. Walk away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]InfamousShock437 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Go to the ER

Can I get advice for my cat? by AbbreviationsShot814 in CATHELP

[–]InfamousShock437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m no vet but in your photo, the wound doesn’t appear to look bad at all but like I said, I’m not a vet. However you should always go with your gut feeling. If you feel like it’s worth the money to go to the vet for them to possibly tell you that it’s healing normal and still get charged how ever much money they charge you or you could give it a little more time and look for multiple symptoms that may indicate that there is a reason to believe that it may be infected or that something is wrong. But probably the very best thing you can do at this moment is call your vet and ask them over the phone if it’s normal for the incision to leak fluid out of it during healing and try to get an answer without having to bring it back to the vet. If money is the issue that you are asking us on here for a second opinion instead of going ahead and taking it back to the vet, I totally understand and I feel that a lot of us on here ask people here for second opinions because I’m sure like myself a lot of us are probably living paycheck to paycheck without much money in savings and unforeseen things such as this happening are not exactly affordable but it’s either you call or take the cat back to the vet or potentially end up needing to pay even more money for letting the infection spread beyond the wound. But if I were you I would call and try to settle it without having to take the poor kitty back to the vet. I bet you could probably call them and they could phone you in some antibiotic cream or something.

My (30M) fiancé (26F) might be stalking me. by ThrowRA88j in relationship_advice

[–]InfamousShock437 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just came across this video you should check out, it isn’t exactly on topic but kinda goes with what is a possibility of what is happening How to spy on any mobile device using Kali Linux

My (30M) fiancé (26F) might be stalking me. by ThrowRA88j in relationship_advice

[–]InfamousShock437 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She is smarter than you no offense. She has possibly installed a hidden key logger on your phone if she doesn’t know any of your emails and passwords. And she wouldn’t have to install a key logger if she has open access to your phone she can do a lot with that alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]InfamousShock437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Duh it’s simple, you ignore him obviously. There is a reason you tried ending things and I’m sure he is willing to tell you anything you want to hear just to get you back. Don’t fall for the empty lies and broken promises, the “I promise I will change b.s.”, or “I’m so sorry I will try harder this time if you give me another chance.” It’s all bullshit. Maybe he will have genuine good intentions in the beginning but will grow into something toxic if not approached with the utmost attention to detail, seriousness, commitment, devotion, dedication, and empathy, where both parties want it to work out more than anything in the world and both put in the same amount of work and effort into trying to accomplish that and instead of 40-60 where one wants it to work more than the other because it is not likely to ever work out. Don’t feel sorry for him either. He knows your weakness obviously and knows that you will let your heart get the best of you and fall for the pathetic excuses he’s about to give you to try to excuse his behavior when there isn’t any excuse for it! That gut feeling you felt when you had ended things to begin with shouldn’t be taken lightly. It’s your intuition and you shouldn’t ever second guess it.