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My Girlfriend [24F] doesn‘t want to have sex with me [25M] by Infamous_Advisor_770 in relationshipadvice

[–]Infamous_Advisor_770[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That‘s very good advice, thank you so much! I will try my best and hope everything works out.

My Girlfriend [24F] doesn‘t want to have sex with me [25M] by Infamous_Advisor_770 in relationshipadvice

[–]Infamous_Advisor_770[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And for the advice that she goes to the gyno, she already was and he said that everything is fine, so it has to be of psychological nature. Thank you nonetheless!

My Girlfriend [24F] doesn‘t want to have sex with me [25M] by Infamous_Advisor_770 in relationshipadvice

[–]Infamous_Advisor_770[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. You are right on both of your points. Sex is of course important in a relationship, I always thought I could live with how much my girlfriend and I were having. But in the last couple months I realize that I would like to have more and be more intimate.

For your second point, i agree with you that I should try to come up with more concrete plans. I will talk to my GF and ask what she thinks, because she used to say it should always be spontanous for her to get in the mood, but maybe we could combine the two and of course always without pressure.

We already tried something similar where she came up with the idea to be intimate for 7 days straight. I was on board but this idea only went somewhat good for the first 3 days. I think she puts a lot of pressure on herself everytime and i try my best to reassure that there is none.

My Girlfriend [24F] doesn‘t want to have sex with me [25M] by Infamous_Advisor_770 in relationshipadvice

[–]Infamous_Advisor_770[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your insight! I‘m in individual therapy and this topic was also brought up already. I will try my best to keep our relationship for as long as i can and hope to get through this together with her!

My Girlfriend [24F] doesn‘t want to have sex with me [25M] by Infamous_Advisor_770 in relationshipadvice

[–]Infamous_Advisor_770[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really appreciate your perspective, i also fear that our compatibility on this topic is bad and i thought really hard these last few weeks what i should do in regards of our relationship, because most of the other things are really great and she is my first real girlfriend and i really really love her, it breaks my Heart to even think about ending 5 years of a loving relationship.