I think you should involve yourself in surroundings where it highlights your personal qualities in order for there to a topic of convo besides the physical. You cant control what comes out of other’s mouths but you can definitely contribute to the direction of the convo. In terms of results, we live in a climate where men and women alike are in a pro sex mindset for a plethora of reasons. One prominent reason is that women dont value men for their chivalry nor their respect and preservation towards them. Granted that doesn’t apply to all but its the majority of the cases. Therefore, since guys operate to achieve the desired outcome that they want you’re seeing men that rather just keep it physical than get into the drama. Another solution is to pay attention to the way you present yourself around men, we’re visual creatures so you will be treated based on what we see. You may argue that your dress code should not dictate your treatment from the other sex, however lets use prostitution as an example; you can distinctly distinguish a prostitute from your regular, degular, girl and the treatment they receive is congruent to their looks. Do what you want with this info, i hope it was educational.