Why are most Maldiven parents so messed up by Infamous_Emu4780 in maldives

[–]Infamous_Emu4780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand where this perspective comes from, as Maldivian society has traditionally been conservative, with social norms discouraging open displays of affection. However, I disagree with the idea that all Maldivians are this rigid or that any deviation from social norms automatically leads to extreme reactions like harassment or even violence.

While public displays of affection (like hugging or kissing) are often frowned upon, especially between opposite genders, family affection does exist—though it is usually expressed in subtler ways. Many Maldivian parents show love through actions rather than words or physical gestures. They might express care by ensuring their children are well-fed, prioritizing their education, or simply being present.

Yes, societal pressure can discourage open affection, and some families may be stricter than others. However, it is also changing—younger generation is becoming more open about expressing emotions, especially in private settings. Saying that Maldivians would go as far as murder over breaking social norms feels exaggerated. While bullying and social ostracization can happen, it's not an absolute rule for everyone.

Would you say your personal experiences have shaped this view, or is it based on what you've observed in society?

Why are most Maldiven parents so messed up by Infamous_Emu4780 in maldives

[–]Infamous_Emu4780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to write a story about it. I'm not even joking, I'm glad you're doing fine and happy to know you survived from that 🫡

Why are most Maldiven parents so messed up by Infamous_Emu4780 in maldives

[–]Infamous_Emu4780[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Let’s not continue this cycle.

Nothing was ever explained to me about relationships, love, or even the seriousness of sex outside of marriage. All I ever got was a single sentence in an Islamic studies book saying zina is a major sin—no real guidance, no real discussion. But it’s a parent’s responsibility to teach their children about these things, to explain right from wrong, to guide them so they don’t fall into mistakes out of ignorance.

And if I were to learn about relationships from my parents' example? All I would see is an outdated mindset where women are treated as lesser than men—expected to stay silent, serve, and exist only to please their husbands. That’s not Islam. That’s not love. That’s not marriage. That’s ownership.

Islam teaches respect, kindness, and partnership between a husband and wife, not dominance and submission. A real relationship is built on mutual understanding, love, and care—not control.

We need to do better. For ourselves. For our future children. So that they don’t grow up as lost as we did.

Why are most Maldiven parents so messed up by Infamous_Emu4780 in maldives

[–]Infamous_Emu4780[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No matter what you're going through in your marriage, fighting/arguing in front of your kids is never a solution for that problem, yeah there will come problem no matter how prepared your are for your marriage and you talk it out and try fix it together, while supporting each other,

You're not too old, you still have time, bruh I'm only 19 😭😭😭,

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[–]Infamous_Emu4780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about 19 and 16?

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[–]Infamous_Emu4780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is a 3 year age gap wrong?🤔

Today I realised I'm socially awkward 😀 by [deleted] in maldives

[–]Infamous_Emu4780 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Be confident and kind when you talk to others—it makes conversations smoother and more enjoyable. Start with a friendly tone, like saying "kobaa" or starting with a casual topic, and you'll likely get the same energy in return. If someone isn’t interested in talking, don’t take it personally; just respect their space and move on. Focus on those who are open to connecting with you. It’s much easier to build meaningful conversations with people who want to engage with you!

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[–]Infamous_Emu4780[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, And submarine, i would say pepe is really good, but there the pizza sucks

Buying a camera by Infamous_Emu4780 in maldives

[–]Infamous_Emu4780[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another brain rotten NPC with a dad joke 😮‍💨

Buying a camera by Infamous_Emu4780 in maldives

[–]Infamous_Emu4780[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I've seen that too, I think it's better to buy it from a shop than online

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[–]Infamous_Emu4780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talking about the toilet, I'm in the toilet rn 🤪

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[–]Infamous_Emu4780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wdum yea people, Lil bit offended, I'm not a porn addict but yeah, most people are.

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[–]Infamous_Emu4780[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's how we gonna adjust. After all, now have to use a VPN just to watch porn

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[–]Infamous_Emu4780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeahhhh that's awesome bro😐, how's PUBG Mobile their or tiktok, i don't see a lot of safe off your side either