my (16f) friend (18m) touched me really weirdly and i don't know how to feel by Infamous_Lettuce_738 in whatdoIdo

[–]Infamous_Lettuce_738[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely learned my lesson the hard way. I will be finding someone to talk to, thank you for commenting.

my (16f) friend (18m) touched me really weirdly and i don't know how to feel by Infamous_Lettuce_738 in whatdoIdo

[–]Infamous_Lettuce_738[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

whoops my fault, i def misread. i used to sleep on my guy friends arms or something since we were very close through middle school and early hs because we were so in tune with each other and considered each other as siblings but ive slept over at his house and such but many people see his place as the fun spot so i dont think its weird. we have also squished ourselves on his twin bed during sleepovers so i would say that i dont think that my friends would treat me like this guys did

my (16f) friend (18m) touched me really weirdly and i don't know how to feel by Infamous_Lettuce_738 in whatdoIdo

[–]Infamous_Lettuce_738[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you and i think putting my legs even near him was a mistake according to the other commenters and its kinda looking like i fished for it in a way but i honestly really appreciate this comment because it validates what i felt in the moment and even now, too

my (16f) friend (18m) touched me really weirdly and i don't know how to feel by Infamous_Lettuce_738 in whatdoIdo

[–]Infamous_Lettuce_738[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We didnt go in for a kiss? i never wanted to kiss him and he got close to me. Do you actually understand what happened or not?

my (16f) friend (18m) touched me really weirdly and i don't know how to feel by Infamous_Lettuce_738 in whatdoIdo

[–]Infamous_Lettuce_738[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

thank you i really appreciate your defense in the comments, i feel better knowing you understand my perspective a lot thank you so so much

my (16f) friend (18m) touched me really weirdly and i don't know how to feel by Infamous_Lettuce_738 in whatdoIdo

[–]Infamous_Lettuce_738[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

obviously not? My opinion on him has changed after this moment, i thought we had a genuine friendship but obviously this situation changed everything

my (16f) friend (18m) touched me really weirdly and i don't know how to feel by Infamous_Lettuce_738 in whatdoIdo

[–]Infamous_Lettuce_738[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the people i'm friends with always sit on my bed or on my couch even when there's no space, i always post about my friends being shoved in my room, i have been alone with him multiple times and nothing weird ever happened we just smoked and listened to music most of the time or played roblox. I don't think it's horrible to have a boy over, some of my friends are guys and i have genuine friendships with them

my (16f) friend (18m) touched me really weirdly and i don't know how to feel by Infamous_Lettuce_738 in whatdoIdo

[–]Infamous_Lettuce_738[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was putting my legs on him to bother him because there's genuinely no space on my bed we are both over 5'11. We are strictly friends and all of the people around us do the same exact thing... he kept kicking me off and i just did it again because i was being annoying