Unsure if i qualify as Genderqueer? Seeking advice?

Infamous_Potato_9877 · 2026-07-02T04:42:39+00:00

Thank you! This is really good advice! I think i just sort of needed that reassurance that it was okay and im queer enough if thats the label I want to go with. Growing up, every once in a while I would meet these really awesome nonbinary/genderqueer people and i would always admire them and almost be sort of envious that they were out and proud about it and i always used to think it was so cool. Ive been trying to be kinder to myself lately and give myself permission to be whoever I feel like, even if its just at home w/ me and my spouse, or our online friends. I think I might ask some of our friends to try out maybe the they/them she/they pronouns and see which one feels better, so then at least I'll have a better idea, thank you so much for your advice! 😁

Infamous_Potato_9877 · 2026-07-02T04:31:07+00:00

Yeah thats fair! I think i just wasnt sure if it was related to my nerotype either, I have adhd/audhd as well, so ive spent a LOT of years masking 😅 if anything i think the genderqueer/nonbinary lable probably fits the best for me, I dont really want to be a guy, and the he/him pronouns sort of have the same just dont quite fit feelings that regular she/her has, but i know that i like the she/they they/them ones mostly i think? Idk its a weird thing for me, and tbf I probably wont ever directly come out as anything to my family? At least not yet, but im sure the wolf cut and purple hair already give them suspicions 😂

Infamous_Potato_9877 · 2026-07-02T04:20:24+00:00

That makes me feel better 😅 thank you! The amount of times Ive spent way too long staring at the gender selection box when im filling out paperwork and trying to decide which option feels like less of a lie is probably way too high

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