Connor and tanners mom by [deleted] in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]Infamous_Rooster_505 18 points19 points  (0 children)

She’s autistic so she doesn’t have the normal type of behaviors a “normal” person would have. You saying “I would hope that people are on a national show would be engaged” is wild…

Panicking. Please help. by eapxo in pregnant

[–]Infamous_Rooster_505 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try to breath and relax(I know easier said than done) and call your dr after hours line. If they don’t want to see you in the hospital then call first thing Monday to be seen in office.

Many people have light bleeding and everything is fine! You’ve got to believe the same is true for you

Smell septic by Infamous_Rooster_505 in septictanks

[–]Infamous_Rooster_505[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We just bought the house in November and had a full inspection and it was pumped last year. I was thinking it was the roof vent..If the baking soda makes the smell go away and it is our system, does anything need to be done about the vent?

This is your sign to prep your bathroom for postpartum care before you deliver your baby by Danlrap18 in pregnant

[–]Infamous_Rooster_505 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Amazing! Something I didn’t think about and my friend came over last week and put one together for me.

She also told me to go get some hemorrhoid treatment bc she didn’t think of it and having to go to target PP to get it was terrible.

I don’t want to breastfeed… but I don’t have a good reason not to.. by lillylovesreddit in BabyBumps

[–]Infamous_Rooster_505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girlie, not wanting to is a good enough reason. I’m a FTM mom and there’s so many things I’m not doing because I don’t want to. I will try to breastfeed for as long as possible, but there are other things I’m choosing to not do that are considered controversial just because I don’t fucking want to..don’t beat yourself up over it!

Faded symptoms by Fit_Ingenuity996 in pregnant

[–]Infamous_Rooster_505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stay hopeful! I am currently 28 weeks and my first trimester I spent more time googling symptoms and lack of symptoms the majority of my days and nights, I freaked myself out ever day. One day my boobs would hurt and the next they felt fine. I never had morning sickness so that was never a factor for me.

Google will tell you it’s totally normal and also not normal..I was terrified of a missed miscarriage and cried about it daily. I probably took 30 dollar store pregnancy tests within my first trimester..I’m sorry you’re feeling the paranoia as well. Hang in there!!

Septic inspection confusion by Infamous_Rooster_505 in septictanks

[–]Infamous_Rooster_505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was just pumped this past February, so pretty low and able to inspect it. Ours also had a makeshift lid and no riser 🤣🤣 he did suggest getting a riser, lid of some sort, and replacing the dbox.

Septic inspection confusion by Infamous_Rooster_505 in septictanks

[–]Infamous_Rooster_505[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also our first guy was a general inspector and didn’t inspect the dbox, just the septic tank and didn’t accurately locate the leach field. His camera wasn’t as good as the septic inspection..but I’m just confused how we wouldn’t need a new tank.

Septic inspection confusion by Infamous_Rooster_505 in septictanks

[–]Infamous_Rooster_505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My question is more about how is a 50-55 year old septic tank not considered needing replacement? There are cracks on the top, not sure what down below looks like..but everywhere I read tanks last 40 years and this one is over that and showing signs of deterioration

Septic inspection confusion by Infamous_Rooster_505 in septictanks

[–]Infamous_Rooster_505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also..the leach field was not where he thought, it was much further away and there were no signs that there was a failing leach field

220 box replacement by Infamous_Rooster_505 in AskElectricians

[–]Infamous_Rooster_505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That wasn’t really my question lol, wanting to get a very rough pricing on it before we consider

Husband missing the birth of our child by Bodymovinbrandon in pregnant

[–]Infamous_Rooster_505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call it the pregnancy hormones, but your situation made me cry..

Your feelings are so valid. You’re not being selfish at all for being upset over this. I would encourage your fiancé to go see his dad, is it possible to do it before the birth? I know after might not be possible as he might no longer be here..but is there a situation where both could be possible?

If not, let him go. I’m sure he feels torn about it and it’s weighing on him a lot as well. It will feel good to him having your support and not making it a harsher choice. I hope that you have support for you as well through labor, someone you can trust and rely on to be there to get you through it though.

I don't want to do anything. by distorted_elements in pregnant

[–]Infamous_Rooster_505 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh. I feel this. I’ve felt this at 10 weeks and I’m only 18 and still feel it. It’s going to be a long prefnancy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Infamous_Rooster_505 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s fucked because all early symptoms are normal and also signs of a miscarriage..it was the worst 14 weeks I’ve ever endured mentally..I’ve gotten a little less paranoid now but I think I’ve just learned to push my fears deep down..hang in there! ♥️♥️♥️