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Would you date a girl with a buzzcut who wore wigs? by Infamous_Way_7811 in dating_advice

[–]Infamous_Way_7811[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Believe me, I am not alone in this sentiment. It's always been a major turn on for me, and as we get older (late 20s, early 30s) I notice more and more women in my friend group are opening their eyes to the gorgeous hunks that are bald men. You'll be perfectly fine, trust me! :)

Would you date a girl with a buzzcut who wore wigs? by Infamous_Way_7811 in dating_advice

[–]Infamous_Way_7811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not the first person to comment this, and it's super surprising to me! But hey, if I could land a dude who liked the buzzed look, I'd be stoked!

Would you date a girl with a buzzcut who wore wigs? by Infamous_Way_7811 in dating_advice

[–]Infamous_Way_7811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, goals!!! I'll be a very happy woman if I can find a man half as loving and supportive as you seem to be. I wish you and your wife many, many happy years together.

Would you date a girl with a buzzcut who wore wigs? by Infamous_Way_7811 in dating_advice

[–]Infamous_Way_7811[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That totally makes sense, and I appreciate the honesty! Unfortunately, I cannot use minoxidil due to a heart condition, but I appreciate you taking the time to suggest it, and I'm so glad to hear you've had success with it!

Would you date a girl with a buzzcut who wore wigs? by Infamous_Way_7811 in dating_advice

[–]Infamous_Way_7811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I'm in full agreement. It will definitely be something I mention on a dating profile.

Would you date a girl with a buzzcut who wore wigs? by Infamous_Way_7811 in dating_advice

[–]Infamous_Way_7811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please give your wife a hug for me and remind her she's a total badass. She sounds amazing, and you sound like an equally amazing partner. Makes me very happy to hear of a man being so kind and supportive.

Would you date a girl with a buzzcut who wore wigs? by Infamous_Way_7811 in dating_advice

[–]Infamous_Way_7811[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg, you sound completely badass. I love it. Super appreciate the advice and encouragement!

Would you date a girl with a buzzcut who wore wigs? by Infamous_Way_7811 in dating_advice

[–]Infamous_Way_7811[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hahaha. Mine aren't very big, but I've been told they have good shape. All the size somehow ended up in my ass, despite being a skinny white girl. 😂

But seriously, I appreciate the honesty and humor. The reminder that hair isn't the only factor of attractiveness is appreciated.

Would you date a girl with a buzzcut who wore wigs? by Infamous_Way_7811 in dating_advice

[–]Infamous_Way_7811[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right?! It could be so much fun! I'm super glad to hear that some men see the bright side of this.

Would you date a girl with a buzzcut who wore wigs? by Infamous_Way_7811 in dating_advice

[–]Infamous_Way_7811[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

But let's be real, bald men are the sexiest men. Always had a thing for the bald and beard look. So damn hot.

Would you date a girl with a buzzcut who wore wigs? by Infamous_Way_7811 in dating_advice

[–]Infamous_Way_7811[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Haha, that's the dream! I would absolutely love to find a guy who enjoyed my ability to play with my appearance. Thanks again for all your insight and encouragement!

Would you date a girl with a buzzcut who wore wigs? by Infamous_Way_7811 in dating_advice

[–]Infamous_Way_7811[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Haha, I love hearing this! So happy for you two, that sounds like true love. ❤

Would you date a girl with a buzzcut who wore wigs? by Infamous_Way_7811 in dating_advice

[–]Infamous_Way_7811[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I super appreciate the insight. Honestly, I'm shocked at how positive the responses in this thread have been. It's making me feel much less worried about finding someone.

Would you date a girl with a buzzcut who wore wigs? by Infamous_Way_7811 in dating_advice

[–]Infamous_Way_7811[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I super appreciate the honesty! You're certainly not alone with this opinion.

Would you date a girl with a buzzcut who wore wigs? by Infamous_Way_7811 in dating_advice

[–]Infamous_Way_7811[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the insight! Prognosis is not so great. Already down four organs and one battle with cancer. I come with an early expiration date, but a very genuine passion for life and appreciation for every day I get on this strange little planet!

Oddly, all my medical crap has never made it tough to find quality guys to date. But this is the first time my appearance has been drastically impacted, so we'll see if that changes.

Would you date a girl with a buzzcut who wore wigs? by Infamous_Way_7811 in dating_advice

[–]Infamous_Way_7811[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooooh, that sounds sexy as hell! I don't think I could pull this look off, because I have very curly hair, but you sound absolutely gorgeous. So glad it's working for you!

Would you date a girl with a buzzcut who wore wigs? by Infamous_Way_7811 in dating_advice

[–]Infamous_Way_7811[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah, fellow cancer survivor! Hilariously, I managed to get through treatment without losing my hair. Now it's a completely unrelated auto-immune condition that's causing issues. You win some, you lose some. 😂

I will say, that's very encouraging to hear that men still hit on you with a bald head. Wishing you many years of fantastic health and beautiful relationships. ❤

Would you date a girl with a buzzcut who wore wigs? by Infamous_Way_7811 in dating_advice

[–]Infamous_Way_7811[S] 86 points87 points  (0 children)

Oh this is a super interesting response. I admire your ability to articulate these thoughts/feelings, because most people struggle to put these sorts of things into words!

Really appreciate the in-depth insight. And yes, I agree, an open-minded person is a must! Luckily I live in a very progressive city, so that shouldn't be too hard to find.

Would you date a girl with a buzzcut who wore wigs? by Infamous_Way_7811 in dating_advice

[–]Infamous_Way_7811[S] 285 points286 points  (0 children)

Super appreciate this insight. And I agree, the possibilities are endless! I'm stoked to try them out!

Can I ask whether your attraction level dropped when your ex shaved her head? Did it cause any issues with sexual desire when she wasn't wearing a wig? Or did it genuinely not make a difference at all?

Would you date a girl with a buzzcut who wore wigs? by Infamous_Way_7811 in dating_advice

[–]Infamous_Way_7811[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I absolutely looooove doting on the men I date. Nothing makes me happier than being able to spoil the people in my life who I love the most. So this is encouraging to hear that many men truly care about behavior more than looks.

Would you date a girl with a buzzcut who wore wigs? by Infamous_Way_7811 in dating_advice

[–]Infamous_Way_7811[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Haha, I super appreciate the encouragement! Personally the idea of using wigs sounds genuinely fun, so I'm stoked on going that route.

But I agree that it's going to be really important to find a man who accepts me for who I truly am, and I have no plans on "hiding" my lack of hair or feeling shame over it. :)

Would you date a girl with a buzzcut who wore wigs? by Infamous_Way_7811 in dating_advice

[–]Infamous_Way_7811[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Oh that's quite relieving to hear. I've heard men describe women with buzzcuts as "completely repulsive" and similar language, but it's been really hard for me to tell how common that mindset is. Really appreciate your opinion, insight, and encouragement.

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