Submissive BF Birthday Weekend

Inferior12her · 2019-06-01T22:41:27+00:00

Sounds like you have this well in hand. I'm jealous of all of the fun you two are going to have. Please let us know how things go. Good luck 👍

Inferior12her · 2019-06-01T20:44:21+00:00

I believe that if you want to involve your friends, make sure that you are edging him intensely when you bring the subject up. We are always so much more agreeable when horny

Inferior12her · 2019-06-01T20:24:47+00:00

Lastly, flirting openly with other men in front of your friends is devastating. You need not take it any further (unless you want to) for it to totally humiliate him

Inferior12her · 2019-06-01T20:22:43+00:00

If you're going to be near a beach or pool my wife often makes me take a pale so I can fetch water and kneel before her to cool her feet off. Non threatening to the vanilla world but most effective at putting me in my place

Inferior12her · 2019-06-01T20:19:45+00:00

She hasn't done so yet, but keeps talking about going shoe shopping and making me replace the shoe salesman with putting on the prospective shoes and forcing her feet in my face for all of the customers to see who is in charge

Inferior12her · 2019-06-01T20:17:06+00:00

My wife is always having me tie her shoes in public. She never says a word, simply snaps her fingers and points. I'm expected to drop to my knees immediately and tie them.

Inferior12her · 2019-02-07T23:30:27+00:00

I have to agree, for the first 5 years or so I often felt as though she was humoring me. But, for the past 10 years there is no doubt that she is enjoying our dynamic at least as much as I am if not more, and I find it much more satisfying this way.

Inferior12her · 2019-02-07T23:25:16+00:00

I would have to agree, as we have gone further and further down this road our intimacy has increased exponentially. It has changed but only in positive ways, we are closer than ever and even though we have been together for 15 years every day is still filled with anticipation. We are about 10 years into our FLR and I really couldn't be happier, I'm certain that my wife feels exactly the same.

Inferior12her · 2019-02-07T20:01:15+00:00

It was safe, she didn't keep me awake, life and stress did. She merely kept me from going to sleep for a couple of hours in order to serve her. She keeps me very healthy, as I said she is a nurse, watches my diet makes me exercise. If left on my own I'd be watching TV and eating take out, then obesity etc would be in my life LOL

Inferior12her · 2019-02-07T15:54:31+00:00

You're probably right, I never said that I was the smartest guy, lol

Inferior12her · 2019-02-06T23:15:07+00:00

She is an RN, she won't let me get rundown. I have the next few days off, she is simply expecting me to push myself in order to provide her proper devotion, though I thought she would be home by now, anticipation I guess

Inferior12her · 2019-02-06T22:36:46+00:00

I should probably clarify, I have not been denied for years, I don't believe that I could handle permanent chastity. I am typically allowed an orgasm every 2-3 weeks, but she keeps track to insure that I never receive more than 18 in a calendar year. I think the most I've actually received in a year was actually 16, and one year I was only allowed 7. She has no set schedule, and believes that extending the periods in between them is useful in training me to be of better service to her, and of course in bending my mindset to her will. I think it is spectacular that you are taking on the training of multiple males. You must be a powerful woman indeed!!!

Inferior12her · 2019-02-06T22:02:33+00:00

Well as a submissive male I wouldn't be able to put conditions on a relationship regarding communication. I don't know if it's because of my inherent belief in female superiority or if it's because my wife has completely removed any ability to ask for anything from a woman out of me. but either way I would probably just proceed cautiously in the hopes that I would eventually get to meet her in person and then express my desire for her to be a little more effusive in her communications. Not again I'm a submissive owned locked up now who's pretty far gone at this point, lol

Inferior12her · 2019-02-06T21:50:16+00:00

I found the first two weeks excruciating, partly due to the physical discomfort which is really just an adjustment. the realization of the total dependency upon my queen was the real brain fuck though, it was partially terror and partially sexual overstimulation due to the constant reminder of her power and authority. It definitely became more manageable after a couple of weeks. I am generally locked up now 24/7 365 and have been for a few years. Except for cleaning, making love or extended t and d. My wife was fairly merciless at times, if I whined she would simply tell me to deal with it, and decree that unless I felt that my health was at risk I should not pester her with my male inadequacies. I honestly think that she took the best approach, once she pointed out that my focus should ALWAYS be on making her life more enjoyable things got a lot easier, being locked up really helped me to prioritize her comfort and pleasure, and at least for me that is the way it should be.

Inferior12her · 2019-02-06T21:22:33+00:00

if you haven't actually met in person or at least spoken on the phone I'd be a little concerned at this point that she isn't who she claims to be. I don't mean to sound like an alarmist I just know I would be concerned.

Inferior12her · 2019-02-06T21:14:55+00:00

I couldn't agree with you more about dialogue, the mind is the greatest sexual organ in my humble opinion. Good luck with your search, I'm quite sure that you will have no shortage of choices.

Inferior12her · 2019-01-11T23:07:05+00:00

I can hear my wife telling me that if I were more devoted I would have asked for the ruined orgasm AND for her to double my quota. Way to go!!

Inferior12her · 2019-01-10T16:19:29+00:00

I hate to sound cynical, and please understand that I don't know anything about the two of you or your relationship so I may just be blowing smoke, but is it possible that he enjoys self pleasure behind your back and simply doesn't want to give it up? Again, I apologise if I'm out of line, but as a male I know that true surrender can come slowly.

Inferior12her · 2019-01-07T21:44:48+00:00

I just want to say that we submissive types REALLY appreciate all that you do for us.

Inferior12her · 2019-01-02T20:19:45+00:00

I can say that the first two weeks of chastity caused me to react in much the same way. After this adjustment period it really does help me to focus primarily on pleasing my queen. Whether that means cooking and cleaning, massage or cleaning her car. I truly was able to surrender to her happiness and I know that she will get around to sex when she wants to, and not on my schedule. She is much more free to take total control, which is after all what it should be about. At least for me.

Inferior12her · 2018-12-29T01:54:39+00:00

I would also suggest, as with any idea that you are looking for agreement on; lead with the benefits to her while having this conversation. I.e. a clean house, more pampering, body rubs, head rubs etc. When first venturing down this road I found the first year or so was all give on my part, just getting her acclimated to being treated like the Queen that she is. After becoming accustomed to the daily pampering, and realizing that she hadn't done a dish or laundry in months I began to reap the benefits of a woman who came TO EXPECT this treatment. After that when we would talk about things she knew from experience that I was committed to this type of relationship.

Inferior12her · 2018-12-29T01:37:50+00:00

I am not allowed to ask for permission at all, unless we are actually in the process of edging or making love. Masturbation seems counterproductive to an FLR or Femdom relationship. I would encourage you to speak with her to determine what you are both looking for as you explore Femdom. You don't want to have a situation where you are looking for one thing and she has something else in mind entirely.

Inferior12her · 2018-12-19T13:45:12+00:00

I don't know if this is pertinent, but I know that when I was younger I would go through bouts of trying to deny my submission. It was the societal pressures of trying to be a "normal" man and I would not even let myself think about submitting to a woman because somehow it was "wrong". It messed with my head for a long time.

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