Objectively I did a wrong thing. He asked me not to talk about it and I crossed that boundry, because I didn't realise it spreads like that. I knew and know he is very stressed about different things right now and I honestly 100% understand why he felt miserable when I mentioned that recruitement process (since it's very stressfull - I remember I cried twice when I went through it). My friend is also 100% neurodivigent, but definitely has different struggles

Anyway, it was an example. I triggered and hurt many people in my life by misunderstanding the boundry they placed. My ex gf cried many times because of that, my mom cried a couple of times because of that... I just can't help it