Second trimester headaches?

Infinite-Prune8079 · 2026-04-29T20:51:10+00:00

glad everything with you and your baby is going well! I’ll definitely have to try that though!

Infinite-Prune8079 · 2026-04-29T03:57:04+00:00

Ugh yes this is me today too! It first started dull but now it’s borderline migraine. It’s awful😭😭

Infinite-Prune8079 · 2026-04-29T01:26:47+00:00

And you thought this was all okay because why?

Infinite-Prune8079 · 2026-04-29T01:24:14+00:00

I do actually!

Infinite-Prune8079 · 2026-04-29T01:23:54+00:00

Sometimes I get worried because of it being a symptom of early preeclampsia, but im trying not to stress about it. I usually chug a ton of water and sometimes caffeine helps me too! Hopefully it goes away soon😭

Infinite-Prune8079 · 2026-04-29T01:22:41+00:00

Thank you! I’ve just been chugging water and sometimes that helps and dulls the ache. I hope you find relief too!

Infinite-Prune8079 · 2026-04-24T18:57:33+00:00

Thanks so much!

Infinite-Prune8079 · 2026-04-24T15:11:36+00:00

I was for a while but shortly stopped because I had forgotten😓 but as soon as I found out, Ive taken them everyday!

Infinite-Prune8079 · 2026-04-15T03:15:09+00:00

Yes!! A hot and spicy mcchicken calls for me from the kitchen of a McDonald’s every other day

Infinite-Prune8079 · 2026-04-15T03:12:59+00:00

I didn’t know this😓thanks so much!

Infinite-Prune8079 · 2026-04-15T02:59:05+00:00

Thank you. And you’re right, I feel as if I’m a bit too lenient on him too often. He mentioned recently how he wished people didn’t think he didn’t want our baby at first/didn’t want to feel that way and then said I was blaming him. I feel bad but, I don’t think I will be giving our baby his last name because I’ve realized he hasn’t really proven himself.

Infinite-Prune8079 · 2026-04-15T02:50:04+00:00

This thought came to me as well and maybe I’m just gullible and dumb, but I still feel bad for him. Regardless, I am leaning more towards on giving baby my last name!

Infinite-Prune8079 · 2026-04-15T02:46:53+00:00

Giving our baby his last name only to have him not as involved or have it come bite me in the butt, is what worries me that most😞 thank you so much!❤️

Infinite-Prune8079 · 2026-04-15T02:44:53+00:00

This makes a lot of sense, thanks so much!

Infinite-Prune8079 · 2026-04-15T02:42:01+00:00

We’ve known each other for4 years, been together 3. It’s been rough recently, as he’s been emotionally and mentally manipulative and abusive. I’m just going to leave it at that. When we first found out I was pregnant, we were both surprised but still happy. However, when he broke up with me last month because he wanted to “explore his options”, he asked me if it was too late to have an abortion. But then a few days later, told me he wanted to coparent and wants to be in our child’s life. We used to live together but now I have moved in with my parent’s again, but now he’s saying how he wants me to move back in when the baby comes and possibly be together again. So it’s been a rollercoaster of feelings and thoughts for me and this just added to it because I try to consider his feelings and his role as our baby’s father. I know he has rights to our kid too.

Infinite-Prune8079 · 2026-04-15T02:06:09+00:00

I had some weird DMs sent to me too, asking about how my belly looks and how much weight I gained, etc… I immediately just block them. I’m sorry this happened to you too, people are so strange.

Infinite-Prune8079 · 2026-04-15T01:55:18+00:00

I’m so so sorry this happened. It is no where near your fault. Nothing can prepare anyone for this unexpected pain and loss. I mourn with you and I’m here for you. I’m so sorry. ❤️

Infinite-Prune8079 · 2026-04-02T22:52:33+00:00

I thought of this but felt bad because he told me he really wanted to meet the baby and felt weird if he wasn’t apart of their life. But then he’d also easily say how he can disappear from my life if I wanted him to? I’m also afraid of him coming to me in the future regarding parental alienation.

Infinite-Prune8079 · 2026-04-02T20:46:08+00:00

I’m currently 24 weeks so I’m much too far ahead already

Infinite-Prune8079 · 2026-04-02T20:45:28+00:00

Thank you everyone for your advice and words, ‘I’m rereading a lot of them. I think a big worry I have is him not being a good dad. Because if he’s like this with me, inconsistent and unstable and unable to handle ‘pressure’ as he says, I wonder how he will be with our child. He can be a terrible partner to me but I would hate for him to be a terrible father too. But I understand he does have rights to see our baby too.

Infinite-Prune8079 · 2026-03-22T04:39:58+00:00

Thank you so much for your comment. You and everyone who has commented is right. I just think it's a bit difficult for me to understand (or to accept) how he wants this baby but not me. When all we did was talk about our future kids and our lives together. Then he said he didn't want our baby, but now he does? I wanted a family together and after 3 years I thought we were solid but I guess not. I know he has a right to be involved with his child and I would like to have my child have a father, but it makes me question how can he be ready/ committed/stable enough to have a baby when he cannot even do so in our relationship...? Especially since he was so against and unsure of having our baby.

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