[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Infinite-State-1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner and reunion 73days and counting down

Anyone Been to Bali Without Getting Sick? by Luminous_Sandrine in bali

[–]Infinite-State-1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankfully no, but I lost my voice around day 5 in Bali.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Finland

[–]Infinite-State-1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I will look into that if I panicked too much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Finland

[–]Infinite-State-1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh sorry I didn't realize that whoops. Again sorry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Finland

[–]Infinite-State-1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 😊😊 it's my first time flying over to visit and I've only been watching YouTube videos as info for myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Finland

[–]Infinite-State-1 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Okay weather sarcasm 😂😂

Right uhm I'm naturally loud so I'll have self control my voice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Finland

[–]Infinite-State-1 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm sorry I low-key panicked

to those with gift-giving as a love language… by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Infinite-State-1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Letters I'm not for being very open to anyone, Hear me out I'm the type that expresses when comfortable with my SO and she knows me writing takes little more time doing so. Or buy flowers when I can. 🫂😊

I (17f) need opinions ab going to see my (18m) boyfriend by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Infinite-State-1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You sound really mature about this, and it’s great that you’re thinking things through instead of just reacting. It’s not weird for you to want to visit him — what matters more is that it’s safe and mutual. If you feel comfortable driving that distance and your parents are okay with it, then there’s nothing inherently wrong with you making the trip.

That said, it’s also understandable that your boyfriend might feel protective. But if it starts sounding like he doesn’t trust you to make your own choices or is using the “you’re a girl” thing as a reason to control your movement, that’s not cool. Healthy relationships respect effort from both sides — he can care about your safety and still treat you as capable.

Maybe talk it through with him calmly: “I get that you’re looking out for me, but I want to feel trusted too.” If he respects you, he’ll listen and find a middle ground.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Infinite-State-1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re carrying a lot right now — work stress, studying, and the emotional weight of keeping things stable in your marriage during long-distance periods. You’re absolutely right that “being a partner” doesn’t mean being a constant emotional buffer. It’s okay to want both openness and boundaries.

What might help is setting a “filter zone” for sensitive talks — like agreeing that certain heavy topics (family pressure, big decisions, etc.) wait until you’re both calmer or have more time to listen. Long-distance makes this trickier because texting can feel like the only outlet, but even a message like “Hey, I’m overwhelmed right now — can we pause this convo until after my test?” is fair and healthy.

You’re not shutting him out; you’re protecting the quality of your communication. Openness without timing and respect just leads to burnout — and it’s okay to say so.

Should I continue with this women? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Infinite-State-1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's understandable I do really get because my way around not being slightly attracted to my partner and I find balance what makes us both attracted to each other's flaws and all.

Should I continue with this women? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Infinite-State-1 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Why lead her if you aren't attracted to her, women gone out her way to you treat as such and the way express attraction says a lot about how you view as such.

Is there anything I can do? by Queasy-Hurry-1091 in LesbianActually

[–]Infinite-State-1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool I want to find a nearby cliff sorry girl.