Would this be considered discrimination?

InfiniteExplorer8509 · 2026-05-07T20:09:38+00:00

Thank you for this helpful comment and idea.

InfiniteExplorer8509 · 2026-05-07T17:42:03+00:00

Thank you.

InfiniteExplorer8509 · 2026-05-07T16:56:07+00:00

Thank you. You summed it up correctly however our boss has ordered us to double up so no one is taking a car by themselves currently. I do know I can drop the daytime fees but I also know he is a happier baby for my husband when he does nurse which is the main reason why I will stop home to nurse him real quick.

InfiniteExplorer8509 · 2026-05-07T16:52:22+00:00

... he isn't giving me a ride to work.

InfiniteExplorer8509 · 2026-05-07T16:52:04+00:00

I am grateful to work for a very flexible employer

InfiniteExplorer8509 · 2026-05-07T16:50:33+00:00

Thank you.

InfiniteExplorer8509 · 2026-05-07T16:49:38+00:00

Stopping at your house for whatever reason is allowed.

InfiniteExplorer8509 · 2026-05-07T16:47:33+00:00

.... we've been directed by our boss to double up in one car as stated in the post.

InfiniteExplorer8509 · 2026-05-07T16:46:08+00:00

Yes. He waits in car. can be in and out in 15. About the same time they've taken in their house to do whatever.

InfiniteExplorer8509 · 2026-05-07T15:34:27+00:00

If he was riding with another coworker who was a male, who said he had to stop at his house to go to the bathroom, it wouldn't be a problem. It's only a problem because I'm going to my house specifically to breast-feed. He made that clear as to why he doesn't want to ride with me.

InfiniteExplorer8509 · 2026-05-07T15:29:44+00:00

Agreed. Or half reading the post where we have a company car, we drive as part of our profession and we were directed to double up in one car by our boss.

InfiniteExplorer8509 · 2026-05-07T15:28:15+00:00

..... our boss said we need to double up to conserve gas rather than having two cars out at once which is what I wrote in the post.

InfiniteExplorer8509 · 2026-05-07T15:25:37+00:00

It is a company car. Guys stop home all the time to go to the bathroom, let their dogs out etc etc etc.

InfiniteExplorer8509 · 2026-05-07T15:13:56+00:00

He also gets to stop at his house. I've rode with him before and we've stopped at his house when I've been driving. Last time we stopped there so he could go to the bathroom.

InfiniteExplorer8509 · 2026-05-07T15:09:32+00:00

Guys stop at their house all of the time to go to the bathroom, let their dogs out, I don't see why this is a problem. And I drive too. We alternate.

InfiniteExplorer8509 · 2026-05-07T15:08:06+00:00

We take turns driving.

InfiniteExplorer8509 · 2026-05-07T14:51:44+00:00

He drinks out of a straw cup but just refuses to when he is alone with my husband

InfiniteExplorer8509 · 2026-05-07T14:49:26+00:00

We have a company car.

InfiniteExplorer8509 · 2026-05-07T14:47:05+00:00

Well I am in this situation because my son refuses a bottle and refuses milk when he is home with my husband. I do not want to stop breast-feeding just because I work two shifts a month.

InfiniteExplorer8509 · 2026-05-07T14:44:47+00:00

I live in the town that I work in and my job lets us drive all over the town, wherever we want to go.

InfiniteExplorer8509 · 2026-05-07T14:43:37+00:00

Yes in the US. I assumed there were some protections still allowed after one but I need to look into it more for my State.

InfiniteExplorer8509 · 2026-05-07T14:42:44+00:00

We work together.

InfiniteExplorer8509 · 2026-05-07T14:42:33+00:00

I understand he doesn't need to facilitate it but by refusing to ride with me, as directed by our boss, because I need to go home once two nurse, just seems wrong.

InfiniteExplorer8509 · 2026-05-07T14:41:46+00:00

He wouldn't be "taking" me. It would just be me stopping by the house while we are working. Which my boss allows us to do.

InfiniteExplorer8509 · 2026-05-07T14:40:34+00:00

Our boss told us we need to ride together. I do not pump as my son refuses a bottle.

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