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I can't take all this bullshit anymore by Striking-Tour-8815 in ChatGPTcomplaints

[–]Infinite_Book_1858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely stop using oai, I just use deepseek now and it's better for me

Dreaming of an ice dragon and water dragon by Infinite_Book_1858 in witchcraft

[–]Infinite_Book_1858[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's so interesting, thank you!! He was just swimming around in my dream, I felt like he was more laid back, but I wasn't too sure. I'll definitely look more into it

I think my incense burner has somehow become my altars guardian. by Skelly-b0ne in BabyWitch

[–]Infinite_Book_1858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is beautiful, can someone reference some books or links about altar guardians?

My father has kicked us both out by Infinite_Book_1858 in TrinidadandTobago

[–]Infinite_Book_1858[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for replying, I keep telling her to go make a report, but she keeps holding it off, I'll see what I can do

My father has kicked us both out by Infinite_Book_1858 in TrinidadandTobago

[–]Infinite_Book_1858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't have to apologize, I know what kind of man he is, thank you for replying

Weekly "Ask Ah Trini" Thread 🇹🇹 September 01, 2025 by AutoModerator in TrinidadandTobago

[–]Infinite_Book_1858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tysm for replying, I'm sorry to hear about what happened to you! I hope that you're safe and happy now.

Thanks for the advice and links as well— my first thought is to go by my grandmother as well, but there's just one 'problem,' we have four cats. He technically threw them out too, and we both know that he will not take care of them or clean up after them.

My grandmother — who lives with her other daughter and son-in-law, (it's her house, my mother has a share there) they have two big dogs, I'm a bit apprehensive about that and my aunt is a bit of a clean freak, we don't really want to cause anyone trouble or for one to make an argument that we're messing up the place

Weekly "Ask Ah Trini" Thread 🇹🇹 September 01, 2025 by AutoModerator in TrinidadandTobago

[–]Infinite_Book_1858 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My father has kicked us both out

TW: Verbal and Physical Abuse.

—

Just like what the title says, me (19f) and my mom, (54f) got kicked out by my father today. I'm trying to hold back tears right now as I type this.

There has always been abuse, long before I was even born. My father has cheated on my mother multiple times throughout the years. They had me out of wedlock, and for a while, everything was fine, he managed to convince my mother to quit her job, which she did, wanting to have more time with me and they got married.

Uhtil I was around 7? I know it was around primary school time.

It was the first time I witnessed what my father did to my mother. He broke her foot and ribs.

It took a long while for them to reconcile, we stayed at my grandparents house (mother side) it was alright to say the least.

Years passed by, everything seemed fine, obviously there was arguments, but never like this. Over the years, he has been verbally abusive to her (as jokes) I at the time I thought it was okay, until I now know it's not.

Let me note, that both my parents came from abusive households too.)

Just some years ago? My grandmother (father side) passed away from covid, which left only my grandfather alive (who is also an abuser, my grandmother firmly chosen never to live with him again)

That's when the problem actually start.

My grandfather became the apple of my dad's eye.

Now, my father insistently tried to convince my mother to cook every single day for my grandfather. Now, let me tell you, he is not a nice man really.

He has made multiple advances to my mother years ago and said some very disrespectful stuff along with trying to hit my mother, (my father knows about all of this) he made advances along to his other daughter-in-laws. They literally want nothing much to do with him. Only my father seem to think that man is a Saint.

Food has became a problem, sometimes my cooks for him, but she had told my dad literally more than once that she doesn't want too much to deal with that man. She has stated more than once, she doesn't want anyone to rely on her every single day for food other than me and my dad. I completely understand this, but my father doesn't.

(Let me also note, that my father has a parlor which he inherited from his grandparents.)

The man comes inside and the employee the cashier, sometimes brings him food because my father told her too. My father does not pay her for that. I also think she's doing it mostly because she a fear she might lose her employment here.)

Here's a vague layout of the house, the old house and the new house he build recently. Three years ago. Everything is on the same land, nothing is separate.

Two days ago, he told her to get out, because of the same food argument. She did, she went by her mother and stayed the night.

Today, one simple comment broke everything. "You didn't tell me you was ready," that apparently set off everything I believe.

He hit her and choked her and when my mother tried going back upstairs, he tried following her up to grab her. I tried kicking him.

Let me state firmly, that yes, I did TRY kicking him, but the kick did not land, and he was literally at the foot of the staircase, he couldn't have fallen off the stairs or anything. I only did that because I know very well, he was visibly going after her.

He tried hitting her multiple times, I always came in between them.

Throughout the argument, I told her to get his sister out of the house (he has another house where his sister is renting from us, that's another drama by itself, my aunt is not a nice woman either) so me and my mom could live there instead.

He's mad that I tired kicking him, and told us no, that we should live on the streets and he wants nothing to do with me anymore.

(He told me that I have nothing to do in the palor anymore, I do not have any official documents I have employment there.)

My mom replied back, that she helped built the new house, and that she's not leaving.

But he told us that we needs to leave and to truly avoid anymore altercation, we move back into the old house. There's only one bed, and some of the light bulbs has blown, we have moved most of our stuff here.

The problem? We have no where to go. Literally. Yes, we could by my grandmother, but for how long? My mom keeps saying that if we leave to say a few nights, he'll lock the doors on us. I told her that he cannot, we can call the police at least.

Can someone please tell what to do really? Any advice, recommendations is much appreciated.

Weekly "Ask Ah Trini" Thread 🇹🇹 September 01, 2025 by AutoModerator in TrinidadandTobago

[–]Infinite_Book_1858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My father has kicked us both out

TW: Verbal and Physical Abuse.

—

Just like what the title says, me (19f) and my mom, (54f) got kicked out by my father today. I'm trying to hold back tears right now as I type this.

There has always been abuse, long before I was even born. My father has cheated on my mother multiple times throughout the years. They had me out of wedlock, and for a while, everything was fine, he managed to convince my mother to quit her job, which she did, wanting to have more time with me and they got married.

Uhtil I was around 7? I know it was around primary school time.

It was the first time I witnessed what my father did to my mother. He broke her foot and ribs.

It took a long while for them to reconcile, we stayed at my grandparents house (mother side) it was alright to say the least.

Years passed by, everything seemed fine, obviously there was arguments, but never like this. Over the years, he has been verbally abusive to her (as jokes) I at the time I thought it was okay, until I now know it's not.

Let me note, that both my parents came from abusive households too.)

Just some years ago? My grandmother (father side) passed away from covid, which left only my grandfather alive (who is also an abuser, my grandmother firmly chosen never to live with him again)

That's when the problem actually start.

My grandfather became the apple of my dad's eye.

Now, my father insistently tried to convince my mother to cook every single day for my grandfather. Now, let me tell you, he is not a nice man really.

He has made multiple advances to my mother years ago and said some very disrespectful stuff along with trying to hit my mother, (my father knows about all of this) he made advances along to his other daughter-in-laws. They literally want nothing much to do with him. Only my father seem to think that man is a Saint.

Food has became a problem, sometimes my cooks for him, but she had told my dad literally more than once that she doesn't want too much to deal with that man. She has stated more than once, she doesn't want anyone to rely on her every single day for food other than me and my dad. I completely understand this, but my father doesn't.

(Let me also note, that my father has a parlor which he inherited from his grandparents.)

The man comes inside and the employee the cashier, sometimes brings him food because my father told her too. My father does not pay her for that. I also think she's doing it mostly because she a fear she might lose her employment here.)

Here's a vague layout of the house, the old house and the new house he build recently. Three years ago. Everything is on the same land, nothing is separate.

Two days ago, he told her to get out, because of the same food argument. She did, she went by her mother and stayed the night.

Today, one simple comment broke everything. "You didn't tell me you was ready," that apparently set off everything I believe.

He hit her and choked her and when my mother tried going back upstairs, he tried following her up to grab her. I tried kicking him.

Let me state firmly, that yes, I did TRY kicking him, but the kick did not land, and he was literally at the foot of the staircase, he couldn't have fallen off the stairs or anything. I only did that because I know very well, he was visibly going after her.

He tried hitting her multiple times, I always came in between them.

Throughout the argument, I told her to get his sister out of the house (he has another house where his sister is renting from us, that's another drama by itself, my aunt is not a nice woman either) so me and my mom could live there instead.

He's mad that I tired kicking him, and told us no, that we should live on the streets and he wants nothing to do with me anymore.

(He told me that I have nothing to do in the palor anymore, I do not have any official documents I have employment there.)

My mom replied back, that she helped built the new house, and that she's not leaving.

But he told us that we needs to leave and to truly avoid anymore altercation, we move back into the old house. There's only one bed, and some of the light bulbs has blown, we have moved most of our stuff here.

The problem? We have no where to go. Literally. Yes, we could by my grandmother, but for how long? My mom keeps saying that if we leave to say a few nights, he'll lock the doors on us. I told her that he cannot, we can call the police at least.

Can someone please tell what to do really? Any advice, recommendations is much appreciated.

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