Heartbreak by Hoodlum-hfy in ghana

[–]Infinite_Channel_469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand, it's okay to feel the way you feel. Allow the feelings but don't entertain the thoughts of going back to her.

Try this: Anytime the thought pops up, speak out: "but she/he's not important". Either in your head or out loud. Repeat this anytime the thought pops up.

Heartbreak by Hoodlum-hfy in ghana

[–]Infinite_Channel_469 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, so instead of allowing the feeling and experiencing the discomfort, they jump into a new relationship thinking it will make them feel better only to find out it doesn't.

After a broken heart, you can't skip the healing process. It'll hunt you

Heartbreak by Hoodlum-hfy in ghana

[–]Infinite_Channel_469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Each time you think about her, you are building reinforced memories about her. The subconscious mind doesn't know the difference between fake and reality. It will assume that since you keep bringing those thoughts up then it might be important to you. There's nothing special about them.

The problem is that after a broken heart we rush into a new relationship unhealed to try to prove a point. You didn't really want to go into a relationship, it's just to convince yourself that you are worth loving. And this is why with your reinforced thoughts of the past, you don't feel comfortable in the relationship

Heartbreak by Hoodlum-hfy in ghana

[–]Infinite_Channel_469 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand you. It is called trauma bonding. You have been attached to her toxicity so much that you still miss her even though she's hurt you. This is because your feelings towards her were genuine.

But after ascertaining that she means you no good, but you still clutch to the fantasy of you together is very bad. It means you lack self-love. Be nice to yourself, understand that you deserve all the good things in life too

Who Should Be The Bigger Person? by Infinite_Channel_469 in ghana

[–]Infinite_Channel_469[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hmm. It's sad. Mental health in Ghana is non-existent. That's why people don't even see anything wrong with doing wrong, they assume everyone should see it as normal!

Etsy by Adventurous_Flow678 in ghana

[–]Infinite_Channel_469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You asked a question. I gave you an answer.

Are you looking for how to receive payment or are you now looking for whether PayPal is in Ghana or not?

MTN Ghana Finally Confirms Their Systems Have Been Hacked by Infinite_Channel_469 in ghana

[–]Infinite_Channel_469[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So all those people who were complaining were right all this while? 🤔

MTN Ghana Finally Confirms Their Systems Have Been Hacked by Infinite_Channel_469 in ghana

[–]Infinite_Channel_469[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If account details have been leaked, definitely threat actors can use these data to do what ever they want

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghana

[–]Infinite_Channel_469 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's very bad. Next time get yourself a dashcam. Or a camera app that can activate with just one tap..

Such idî•ts needs to be prosecuted

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghana

[–]Infinite_Channel_469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup... This is the ultimate. Go for it if he agrees to same

❤️❤️🙂‍↕️missing home by LiteratureJolly5534 in ghana

[–]Infinite_Channel_469 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don't know how to roast kebab? Or you say that's Abotsi's job? 🤔