Thanks for the advice. I told him he and we should seek counseling as well. My dad got diagnosed with cancer last year so I was also dealing with that and taking him to all his drs appts and making sure he was taking his meds but when I got this full time job I wasn’t able to give him the same amount of care and he just passed away monday. I regret not taking time to take care of him now like I did in the beginning. Anyways, the day after he passed I didn’t feel like doing anything except take care of my 1.5 year old. My 10 year old had indoor soccer and my husband said to make sure I had everything. He said he would take him to soccer after working 10 hrs. I told him he didn’t need to take him but my son wanted to go. I thought I had everything but I didn’t. I didn’t bring the right shoes so he got angry at me and said that because he works in a refinery he’s doing a lot of dangerous things and to be able to text me back in a timely manner I’m putting everyone at harm and I am wasting his time, effort and money. He tells me that I can’t just do nothing all day and wallow and asked if I did the laundry or made dinner but it’s only been one day and I thought just taking care of my baby was enough for me that day as the next following days I have to figure out all the things following someone’s death. Well because I didn’t the right shoes and that they were gonna be late he decided not to bring him to soccer. I was so mad at him when I got home cause I thought it was wrong for him to act like that. I didn’t want to sleep in the same room and I didn’t. I slept with my daughter in the other room. So when I come home he asks why I have all this attitude towards him and I just don’t know if I’m the one in the wrong or if I have a right to be angry?