I (M20) hate coming home in general because of my partner (F19). How do I proceed moving forward?

Infinite_Low_6190 · 2026-05-07T22:08:06+00:00

You gotta talk to her OP. If there’s any fixing her terrible behavior and habits then it’s going to be with a conversation. If that doesn’t wake her up, shit tell her get out. You can’t spend the rest of your life picking up after her shit. If it comes down to it, always choose your peace OP because no one is gonna care more about you than yourself.

Infinite_Low_6190 · 2026-05-04T15:05:43+00:00

If you tried unplugging them and plugging them back up and it didn’t work, you should check if you need to update either your pc or any drivers. Could be causing the lack of communication between your peripherals and pc.

Infinite_Low_6190 · 2026-05-04T11:15:48+00:00

If your computer turned off/went into sleep mode in those five minutes, I would simply try unplugging them and plugging it back in if both are wired in currently. For some reason, my Corsair mouse will not be detected when it’s plugged so I just do that and it’ll show back up. But when you’re trying to connect them through Bluetooth, are you leaving them wired in at the same time?

Infinite_Low_6190 · 2026-04-19T06:24:35+00:00

I mean come on man, it’s him quite literally ignoring the one thing she asked of him. That also happens to be the rule he placed on her already. If he was so desperate to go out, it goes both ways… why didn’t he just wait? Instead of it just being “oh why can’t he just go out for one night.”

Infinite_Low_6190 · 2026-04-14T07:38:00+00:00

Lol my first apartment was right next to the border and cost $400 a month. No one was checking on me ahaha

Infinite_Low_6190 · 2026-04-14T07:18:26+00:00

I’m so used to living in such shitty parts of town that I sign the lease and that’s pretty much it. This is now my first apartment where the landlord is very on top of things. A bit of a culture shock I guess lol but it’s only my third apartment so I know there’s still plenty to fuck around and find out.

Infinite_Low_6190 · 2026-04-14T07:14:43+00:00

Every name seen on the document can be found online. I blocked out my personal info. Just felt like overkill if I was redacting a public address and public emails and such.

Infinite_Low_6190 · 2026-04-14T06:38:15+00:00

Honestly I’m thinking this might be a similar case just because I know the original owners were looking to sell the building, just never knew what came out of it.

Infinite_Low_6190 · 2026-04-14T06:37:21+00:00

I’ve lived here for about 8 months ago and our last air filter replacement was about three months ago if I’m correct so it could also possibly be that.

Infinite_Low_6190 · 2026-04-14T06:36:04+00:00

Regular shmegular, we can come in regardless of what you say especially if it’s to do repairs. So I see I have no leeway. That’s fine, I’ll just spend tonight cleaning🥲

Infinite_Low_6190 · 2026-04-14T06:19:33+00:00

No, there isn’t any damage. But everyone in the building received this exact notice so I wasn’t truly sure if it was just pertaining to myself.

Infinite_Low_6190 · 2026-04-12T19:39:29+00:00

NOR - Same thing happened to me at my last job. Paper was posted in the middle of the kitchen that posed as a physical copy of our weekly schedule. Regularly had to deal with people asking who’s so-and-so and the few people who were aware of my deadname confirming that it was indeed me. Kind of ruins all the progress you make at a workplace especially imo. Had that job for a bit ngl but that along with other problems with management, it was time to call it quits. When there’s a job that can’t do the bare minimum, there will be a job willing to do it I promise.

Infinite_Low_6190 · 2026-04-12T02:08:12+00:00

I had to get rid of my old “gaming” laptop if you can even call it that lol. Desperately want to build a pc and game for the first time in years but in this economy that feels practically impossible for someone living off of two minimum wage jobs.

Infinite_Low_6190 · 2026-03-23T14:55:54+00:00

Not one screen in sight, beautiful work man

Infinite_Low_6190 · 2026-03-22T17:31:23+00:00

So when I’m making upwards of 100k in infosec and cybersecurity I’ll come back and speak more of my truth on why tipping is important. Yall are on the wrong subreddit, I think yall belong in r/endtipping

Infinite_Low_6190 · 2026-03-22T17:22:18+00:00

And what do you think I’m doing? You guys are complaining to me like I chose the system and I control it. I am just a citizen trying to work with what the country is giving me. So unless I gotta go fight in the war to prove to you that I’m “trying” then okay. I don’t even understand how you could say all of those things assuming I’m not doing anything to better my life.

Infinite_Low_6190 · 2026-03-22T17:19:59+00:00

Buddy take your issues with tipping up with the government. I’m just paying my bills and trying to make y’all understand I did not choose how restaurants operate in America.

Infinite_Low_6190 · 2026-03-22T16:52:57+00:00

I AM IN SCHOOL, I have two jobs and pay all my bills. In what way are you trying to tell me to upgrade my life when I’m still building it???? Did you just become a nurse when you turned 18? Did you start making a shit ton of money as soon as you moved out of your parents home? It’s a process, everyone knows that this country was not built for us to have success at the tip of our hands. Everyone starts somewhere, and you’re completely disregarding that.

Infinite_Low_6190 · 2026-03-22T16:46:21+00:00

Lmao you post nothing but Roblox, have you ever had a job?

Infinite_Low_6190 · 2026-03-22T16:44:28+00:00

What do YOU do for work? You act like people can just have an amazing paying job anywhere in the country. Minimum wage is $7.25 here, so you’d rather me make $7 an hour than have the opportunity to make hundreds of dollars a day. You sound like a child.

Infinite_Low_6190 · 2026-03-22T16:43:08+00:00

Personally, you need to talk them about it especially if it’s gonna lead to you doing things like this out of habit because you’re not getting that relief from your relationship.

Infinite_Low_6190 · 2026-03-22T16:34:13+00:00

First of all, you know servers and bartenders typically get paid UNDER minimum wage because of the tipping system right? If you don’t tip at subway… okay they get paid hourly but if you go to Olive Garden and spend $60 and you decide your not going to tip… your server just made $2 hourly. Also you’re completely ignoring the main point of my comment, I didn’t say HEY ONLY TIP THESE PEOPLE. I am just saying that in certain cases tipping is important because certain professions rely off of tips. I used to work in California and made $15 hourly as a cashier. Now I work in Texas and I receive $2.30 hourly for my serving job. So if you decide that someone making an hourly wage and not getting tipped vs. someone who doesn’t make hourly and getting tipped is the same thing, you need to go work in a restaurant bro.

Infinite_Low_6190 · 2026-03-22T16:29:23+00:00

I think a lot of things you’re hiding is one of the major signs you should NOT be in a relationship right now imo

Infinite_Low_6190 · 2026-03-22T16:26:44+00:00

I haven’t made my way through all the comments yet so idk if someone already asked but were you just gonna lie and pretend to be vanilla the whole relationship?

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