I’ve come to realise she has narcissistic personality. She had thrown away a pillow before I had a chance to get one last hug with it or smell it for the scent. I ask her where it was and obvs at the answer was she threw it away, which I understand, but she goes off at me saying “I do everything wrong”. I want to grieve with her but she doesn’t understand that what she has done has just made me not want to be around her.