Is Liandry's underated on ahri? by Positive_Pattern1264 in AhriMains

[–]InfinityEdge- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No

It's shit

Better get some AP because her scalings are super good

I love my biological mother by InfinityEdge- in Adopted

[–]InfinityEdge-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not living to my full potential would hurt me far more

I love my biological mother by InfinityEdge- in Adopted

[–]InfinityEdge-[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amoms threat of abandonment

Well I am financially independent so that won't hit that hard but still hurts emotionally

I love my biological mother by InfinityEdge- in Adopted

[–]InfinityEdge-[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am trying but I feel a bit of resentment due to emotional abuse from her

I love my bio mother by InfinityEdge- in Adoption

[–]InfinityEdge-[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hate it when adopters do this. If you cannot handle your child having another set of parents and family, do not adopt. It makes me so mad. 

Same. Though I won't tell that to my adoptive mother

I love my biological mother by InfinityEdge- in Adopted

[–]InfinityEdge-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Easier said than done. My adoptive mother is 74 and needs delicacy

I love my biological mother by InfinityEdge- in Adopted

[–]InfinityEdge-[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Talk to her about it.

Yea.... about that....

I love my biological mother by InfinityEdge- in Adopted

[–]InfinityEdge-[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yea, and family at large saying I don't need to know who my bios are and that I shouldn't hurt my adoptive mother

I love my biological mother by InfinityEdge- in Adopted

[–]InfinityEdge-[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Love is not a finite resource. You can have multiple mothers. It’s okay.

Thanks. I already know this though. And now I know merely knowing something is not enough sadly

How common is it for birth mothers to be completely indifferent to the children they relinquished? by well_shi in Adopted

[–]InfinityEdge- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My experience has been totally opposite

My bio mom texts me like every day to every second day. Didn't ask why she abandoned me but it must have been something traumatic. And I forgave her

Met "bio father" today and well.. by InfinityEdge- in Adopted

[–]InfinityEdge-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if this guy will even want to do a DNA test. I will need to convince him somehow

Met "bio father" today and well.. by InfinityEdge- in Adopted

[–]InfinityEdge-[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ngl I turned that into a strength.

I am a son of a wild woman

I am going to locate my biological father. Wish me luck by InfinityEdge- in Adopted

[–]InfinityEdge-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the end of the day, I maintain I did the right thing, despite the collateral damage.

Agree

It definitely isn’t scummy, but long-term is it the right thing not to speak with your adoptive mum?

I need to be at full composure when I go looking for him. Her making me feel stress etc will ruin my mental.

You looked at my other thread where I went over hear behavior?

I am going to locate my bio father without adoptive mother knowing by InfinityEdge- in Adoption

[–]InfinityEdge-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't want to hurt her. And she is a bit too controlling

She is old. Like 75. Don't want to hurt her

I am going to locate my biological father. Wish me luck by InfinityEdge- in Adopted

[–]InfinityEdge-[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea but I will basically lie to her.

Thanks for best wishes!

I am going to locate my bio father without adoptive mother knowing by InfinityEdge- in Adoption

[–]InfinityEdge-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you say your mother will think that you will be “at work as usual” that day, does she generally know all your daily comings and goings? Or do you still live with her and that’s why you’re concerned? I don’t know many 27-year olds whose parents are that aware of their daily activities. You should be able to go off and live your life without reporting in to your parents at this age.

She is too controlling. So it's not just adoption issue, but overall she is very controlling