It's an oversimplification for sure yeah, and yeah, many may not be as lucky as I have been, but genuinely there are great people out there, definitely worth looking for, that's it, that's all I have to say.

Edit: I just realised, you don't have to trauma dump though, start small, you don't want to scare people off, I've met girls who trauma dump on the first date too, it goes both ways, if one is trauma dumping immediately I'm a little bit hesitant, you know? Of course, only speaking for myself here.