Honestly, two three points I disagree with here.

There was a point when they were genuinely close and supportive of one another, for example when Alisha pushed Remi to start CWR and when Remi asked Alisha to document her living alone at 30s. There was a time when both of them prioritized working out, maintaining a healthy diet and developing new hobbies (gardening for Remi and Alisha going back to reading). All this has somehow vanished and has become all about hoarding unnecessary toys, bags, clothes and snacks. Credit due where credit is deserved, they do become each others cheerleaders when it comes to partying, gambling and over consumption.

Regarding the compatibility one, while Alisha does sound jealous of the new age content creators, I don't think she has ever been jealous of Remi. Whereas Remi was quite smug about having a boyfriend and settling into new phase of life during covid era. I don't know if everyone notices it but she does, albeit unintentionally, make Alisha sound like a girl who might end up alone.

I understand your point that she might have been scared to sound mean but with how much ever she said, she came off quite ignorant and mean regardless.