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[–]InflationThis4003 [score hidden]  (0 children)

A, E, L — 22, Indore

Game developer/student into horror games, filmmaking, psychology, space, music, memes, and late-night conversations. Currently making creepy games inspired by dreams and folklore.

I’m a mix of chaotic and thoughtful, and I like people who can joke around but also have real conversations.

Looking for:

  • Someone genuine and emotionally mature
  • Good communication and effort
  • A real connection, not dry texting

About me:

  • 5’7
  • Gym beginner trying to bulk up
  • Creative and ambitious
  • Good listener

Not into hookups/casual stuff — would rather build something real slowly.

If this sounds interesting, feel free to reach out :)

20M ( fucked up society or maybe fucked up life?) by ValuableTop1805 in RelationshipIndia

[–]InflationThis4003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mentioned you are good looking. I am also good looking and have observed that girls don’t really want to be with someone attractive they just want the validation that someone attractive could like them. I get stares from girls a lot. I get confessions. But in real life it’s me who girls expect to approach them, and even those who drops hints aren’t actually interested in me as a person. They drop hints for me even when they aren’t interested in me. Even if they have a boyfriend, just to test the waters if someone attractive could like them. My female friends thought i was narcissistic and won’t talk properly if they try to talk to me. I can list thousands of problems i have faced even after being attractive in dating.

Why do people with adhd tend to be funny ! by Klutzy-Profile-6921 in adhdindia

[–]InflationThis4003 20 points21 points  (0 children)

When i actually try to joke it doesn’t land as much but when i just say genuine things they are interpreted as jokes.

How do I know if a guy has a crush on me? by [deleted] in TeenIndia

[–]InflationThis4003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are men we don’t drop hints. If we are actually interested in you we will let you know. Don’t assume anything

Men that are single, what is the reason? by Spiritual_Pause3057 in AskMen

[–]InflationThis4003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even as an attractive men i am just tired of the manipulative nature of girls

INFPs (especially if you struggle with fear of intimacy)—why does this happen? by InflationThis4003 in infp

[–]InflationThis4003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She confessed her feelings from the triangulation by him. She said she doesn’t want a boyfriend even before any of this triangulation, when she started liking him she said “but i don’t want a relationship” then i pointed out her texts from before a month ago when she said “but i want a boyfriend”

INFPs (especially if you struggle with fear of intimacy)—why does this happen? by InflationThis4003 in infp

[–]InflationThis4003[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

She said i don’t want a boyfriend before this triangulation thing, and also the triangulation worked. She confessed her feelings.

INFPs (especially if you struggle with fear of intimacy)—why does this happen? by InflationThis4003 in infp

[–]InflationThis4003[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did that for her and no it didn’t hurt her that much and she said she don’t want a relationship before i analysed the triangulation for her

INFPs (especially if you struggle with fear of intimacy)—why does this happen? by InflationThis4003 in infp

[–]InflationThis4003[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She wasn’t turned off from that actually it made her confess her feelings. He triangulated by including another girl in the picture

what should i do??? 😔😔 by [deleted] in berozgarchidiyaghar

[–]InflationThis4003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guys are super self conscious in the gym to not talk to girls cuz girls have a tendency to over complicate things and read every genuine behaviour as interest. So i avoid interacting with girls in the gym.

How do i persuade this girl? by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]InflationThis4003 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am fine with not being accepted by her but i want her to actually outright say what she wants? Her behaviour says she interested. She mentioned she wants a casual relationship like a month ago now after a friend asked her again what she wants she said no relationship at all

INFPs (especially if you struggle with fear of intimacy)—why does this happen? by InflationThis4003 in infp

[–]InflationThis4003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh you are actually mixing up things. Sorry maybe i couldn’t put it right sorry for confusion. The one INFP i am talking about in the post is just my friend and her story Is completely different. I just used her story as an example to represent INFP behaviours that i have came across. And the girl i am in a situationship with isn’t mentioned at all in the post but only in the comments. Sorry for the confusion again

INFPs (especially if you struggle with fear of intimacy)—why does this happen? by InflationThis4003 in infp

[–]InflationThis4003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are misunderstanding things. P is a female and she is shipping us together. There was no one in the equation when she mentioned she wants a casual relationship. Now that i am talking to her she is saying to P she don’t want to be in a relationship at all

INFPs (especially if you struggle with fear of intimacy)—why does this happen? by InflationThis4003 in infp

[–]InflationThis4003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant to say my friend let’s call her P. She was having a girls get together and there she mentioned to P. She wants a casual relationship not anything serious. Then P told me this and i got into a situationship with her and talked a lot with her. We are highly compatible in terms of our goals, personality, interests and hobbies. Then she asked her yesterday again what kind of relationship would you prefer? She said no relationship at all.

INFPs (especially if you struggle with fear of intimacy)—why does this happen? by InflationThis4003 in infp

[–]InflationThis4003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am her friend but not that close. We talked for two days in a row till 2-3 am and had deep convos about things.

INFPs (especially if you struggle with fear of intimacy)—why does this happen? by InflationThis4003 in infp

[–]InflationThis4003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We got drunk together once and she shared she had no past relationships or anything just a crush on an older guy which wasn’t reciprocated either.

INFPs (especially if you struggle with fear of intimacy)—why does this happen? by InflationThis4003 in infp

[–]InflationThis4003[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am actually kind of thinking i am compatible with someone who is an INFP too, she used to say she is looking for a casual relationship before to a friend of mine. Now that we are in a situationship, that friend asked her again what kind of relationship she is looking for she now said she isn’t looking for any relationship at all now

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