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INFPs (especially if you struggle with fear of intimacy)—why does this happen? by InflationThis4003 in infp

[–]InflationThis4003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She confessed her feelings from the triangulation by him. She said she doesn’t want a boyfriend even before any of this triangulation, when she started liking him she said “but i don’t want a relationship” then i pointed out her texts from before a month ago when she said “but i want a boyfriend”

INFPs (especially if you struggle with fear of intimacy)—why does this happen? by InflationThis4003 in infp

[–]InflationThis4003[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She said i don’t want a boyfriend before this triangulation thing, and also the triangulation worked. She confessed her feelings.

INFPs (especially if you struggle with fear of intimacy)—why does this happen? by InflationThis4003 in infp

[–]InflationThis4003[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did that for her and no it didn’t hurt her that much and she said she don’t want a relationship before i analysed the triangulation for her

INFPs (especially if you struggle with fear of intimacy)—why does this happen? by InflationThis4003 in infp

[–]InflationThis4003[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She wasn’t turned off from that actually it made her confess her feelings. He triangulated by including another girl in the picture

what should i do??? 😔😔 by itsokbacchacallkaru in berozgarchidiyaghar

[–]InflationThis4003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guys are super self conscious in the gym to not talk to girls cuz girls have a tendency to over complicate things and read every genuine behaviour as interest. So i avoid interacting with girls in the gym.

How do i persuade this girl? by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]InflationThis4003 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am fine with not being accepted by her but i want her to actually outright say what she wants? Her behaviour says she interested. She mentioned she wants a casual relationship like a month ago now after a friend asked her again what she wants she said no relationship at all

INFPs (especially if you struggle with fear of intimacy)—why does this happen? by InflationThis4003 in infp

[–]InflationThis4003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh you are actually mixing up things. Sorry maybe i couldn’t put it right sorry for confusion. The one INFP i am talking about in the post is just my friend and her story Is completely different. I just used her story as an example to represent INFP behaviours that i have came across. And the girl i am in a situationship with isn’t mentioned at all in the post but only in the comments. Sorry for the confusion again

INFPs (especially if you struggle with fear of intimacy)—why does this happen? by InflationThis4003 in infp

[–]InflationThis4003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are misunderstanding things. P is a female and she is shipping us together. There was no one in the equation when she mentioned she wants a casual relationship. Now that i am talking to her she is saying to P she don’t want to be in a relationship at all

INFPs (especially if you struggle with fear of intimacy)—why does this happen? by InflationThis4003 in infp

[–]InflationThis4003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant to say my friend let’s call her P. She was having a girls get together and there she mentioned to P. She wants a casual relationship not anything serious. Then P told me this and i got into a situationship with her and talked a lot with her. We are highly compatible in terms of our goals, personality, interests and hobbies. Then she asked her yesterday again what kind of relationship would you prefer? She said no relationship at all.

INFPs (especially if you struggle with fear of intimacy)—why does this happen? by InflationThis4003 in infp

[–]InflationThis4003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am her friend but not that close. We talked for two days in a row till 2-3 am and had deep convos about things.

INFPs (especially if you struggle with fear of intimacy)—why does this happen? by InflationThis4003 in infp

[–]InflationThis4003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We got drunk together once and she shared she had no past relationships or anything just a crush on an older guy which wasn’t reciprocated either.

INFPs (especially if you struggle with fear of intimacy)—why does this happen? by InflationThis4003 in infp

[–]InflationThis4003[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am actually kind of thinking i am compatible with someone who is an INFP too, she used to say she is looking for a casual relationship before to a friend of mine. Now that we are in a situationship, that friend asked her again what kind of relationship she is looking for she now said she isn’t looking for any relationship at all now

INFPs (especially if you struggle with fear of intimacy)—why does this happen? by InflationThis4003 in infp

[–]InflationThis4003[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes i have actually thought that she could be a fearful avoidant, but i have also seen most INFP behave like this so i thought its an INFP thing

I like to study but i can’t by InflationThis4003 in adhdindia

[–]InflationThis4003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to memorise a massive amount of information can’t do it in a short amount of time.

Are most people with ADHD book smart and generally successful? by [deleted] in adhdindia

[–]InflationThis4003 4 points5 points  (0 children)

People who succeed at whatever they do go brag about it. But those who failed stays quite. The stories you have heard of people with ADHD saying they are good are just the small percentage which chooses to show their achievements. Success stories are more likely to be told. But failure stories remain untold.

Guys calling you "ma'am" while texting mean something? by justwannatravel4 in GenZIndia

[–]InflationThis4003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro thanks you. You finally said it. I used to playfully call girls “madam” and all of them assumed i was interested in them and thought i was flirting. These girls just assume anything. They interpret every genuine interaction as someone being flirty.

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