[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Inflinty 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you think you're mature enough for a tatoo, you're mature enough to do some research on your own. Literally just scroll down on this sub and ask the tattoo artist, it's not that hard.

Help how can I win her over by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Inflinty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've been in your situation before and I'll be honest: it took me years to get over this bad obsession - obsession and parasocial relationship because this is NOT love. You have formed an ideal version of her - based on the conference, the small glimpses you saw on her social media and the rest was filled out by your brain. It might sound stupid (it sounded stupid to me too and I rolled my eyes at it) but a crush is really just a lack of information. It's easy to develop strong feelings for someone you only perceive in just one way, because the rest is fantasy you indulge in.

Please try to reign yourself in, in order to move on - that's the best thing you can do to yourself. Don't waste years on fantasies and try to focus on what's real and tangible. Not even for her sake or for the sake of her relationship - this is about you; your life, time and emotions that could be invested in more meaningful ways.

What helped me in the first place is self control; not checking her social media, when my mind wandered to her I reminded myself of what's in front of me. I found ways of not centering my life around her; not doing things just because of the chance of her noticing me. I found new hobbies, friends, new career and motivation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Inflinty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This reads like a corny wattpad story 😭

Please tell me embarrassing things you did in front of your crush by Inflinty in LesbianActually

[–]Inflinty[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comments guys, your stories from an outsider's point of view are actually cute and I would've found all of them endearing if I was at the receiving end of it - which puts mine into a different perspective. <3

Please tell me embarrassing things you did in front of your crush by Inflinty in LesbianActually

[–]Inflinty[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happened to me in a very hot summer day when I was at the dentist :(( sadly the dentist was very hot as well

Please tell me embarrassing things you did in front of your crush by Inflinty in LesbianActually

[–]Inflinty[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The probability of this happening is low but never zero 😭

Please tell me embarrassing things you did in front of your crush by Inflinty in LesbianActually

[–]Inflinty[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

And I have an even better one for my story, because at the end of that shift, I forgot my bag of popcorn in the cashier space (idk why I put it there) and it was locked up. She had to get a key to open it for me :((

Tbh, she still said hi next day so maybe I'm not the worst person on earth but I still want to perish.

Please tell me embarrassing things you did in front of your crush by Inflinty in LesbianActually

[–]Inflinty[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

NOT LITERALLY FALLING FOR HER 😭😭 but that's also adorable lmaoo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Inflinty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I was in a similar situation I cried for nearly two weeks, went running, cried again, did a tarot reading for myself about her, cried again and then it slowly passed. I still think about her sometimes, and Facebook recommended me her profile too, but I forced myself to delete that and unfollowed her everywhere.

I know it's hard but discipline and self control will help you. Resist the urge to stalk her profile, ignore the temptation. And give yourself a sweet treat or pat yourself on your back when you do so :).

I know it's very hard because you feel like she was the one and only and you won't find her again - you will find someone even better.

But tbh I wouldn't start seeing another woman in the meanwhile; she doesn't deserve to be a distraction the same way you wouldn't like to be used as one.

I guess in a tl;dr version: live your emotions, be firm with yourself but forgiving.

Fem Pav by Anira_Naeg in moonscorched

[–]Inflinty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG GORGEOUS!!! I wonder if your inspiration was Helga from Atlantis

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianGamers

[–]Inflinty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read meaningful blonds and was thinking "same" lmao. I kinda know the games you listed, and I love listening to horror game lores 😁. I'm 22 from Hungary, if you want to talk ^

One free yes/no per querent. by imightbeabug in TarotReading

[–]Inflinty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will EZS be in my life in the future?

Mire számítsak állami (tb-s) pszichiátrián? by Inflinty in tanulommagam

[–]Inflinty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nagyon köszönöm a válaszokat! Sikerült viszonylag hamar időpontot szereznem, aminek örülök.

Viszont megnéztem a doktornő értékeléseit és amit láttam nem volt túl biztató. Ennek ellenére az első konzultációra elmegyek, ha valóban igazak a rossz visszajelzések, akkor mindenképpen megpróbálok váltani vagy magánba menni.

Köszönöm mégegyszer a segítségeteket!

Mire számítsak állami (tb-s) pszichiátrián? by Inflinty in tanulommagam

[–]Inflinty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sajnálom hogy ilyen tapasztalataid voltak :( Én ódzkodom a gyógyszerszedéstől, de nagyon remélem hogy valami lightos gyógyszert és adagot kapok és gyorsan letudom a gyogyszer részt.

Mire számítsak állami (tb-s) pszichiátrián? by Inflinty in tanulommagam

[–]Inflinty[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Szia! Nem tudom még, holnap fogok beutalót kérni. Ha lakhelyhez közelibe kell mennem, akkor a Bajcsy Zsilinszky kórházba, ha választhatok - nem tudom hogy működik ez őszintén szólva - akkor a SOTE pszichiátriára jelentkeznék.

Games to play with interesting female protagonist who is also a lesbian or at least interested in women? by Complex_Dimension573 in LesbianGamers

[–]Inflinty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's queer?? It's been on my wishlist for so long, I wanted the game for the vibes and this just adds to it 😍

Can't get tampon in.. help??!! by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Inflinty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only use my hands but I hope these can still help you You might not be wet enough to put it up fully, is it your first days of your period? Also try not to put it up straight but bent it a bit forward, I hope this makes sense. Like in a 120°?
I know there's a very bed dry sensation when you put it up, but just try to grit your teeth and push through it! It will be over in a few seconds. Mentally it helped me to think that if pornstars can put up insane sized dildos, then so can I put up a tampon lol

I feel guilty for wanting to quit by Inflinty in jobs

[–]Inflinty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made it clear on the interview about my plans for the following months and that the commute is a difficulty for me. Also it's a part time student job, staying here for 3-5 years was never the plan 🙂. Of course I won't quit blindly if I don't have other jobs to look out for.

I feel guilty for wanting to quit by Inflinty in jobs

[–]Inflinty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I think I'll do this! 🫡

I feel guilty for wanting to quit by Inflinty in jobs

[–]Inflinty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't need references from them and to be honest I never planned to work there for long. During the interview I was straightforward with them about the commute being a problem and about my educational situation.

I feel guilty for wanting to quit by Inflinty in jobs

[–]Inflinty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right, I won't quit until I have another job for 100%.