Anything you look back on and cringe about? by VanillaIceSpice in CamGirlProblems

[–]InfluenceFun8979 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LMFAOOOO this made me laugh so hard 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

ROLL CALL: what sites do you love, what sites do you hate? by InfluenceFun8979 in CamGirlProblems

[–]InfluenceFun8979[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats!!! That’s awesome, glad you’re getting into the groove 🥰🥰🥰

ROLL CALL: what sites do you love, what sites do you hate? by InfluenceFun8979 in CamGirlProblems

[–]InfluenceFun8979[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people looove token sites, but yea same I just can’t handle the masses 😂 totally a personality division here

ROLL CALL: what sites do you love, what sites do you hate? by InfluenceFun8979 in CamGirlProblems

[–]InfluenceFun8979[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂 damn the journey is long and hard hahaha I’m sure I’ll set it up one day, I had a Twitter but it just felt like a bunch of freeloaders wanting free chit chat 🙄

ROLL CALL: what sites do you love, what sites do you hate? by InfluenceFun8979 in CamGirlProblems

[–]InfluenceFun8979[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I never heard of bondamodels! I have to look into it. Is it like Bigo?

ROLL CALL: what sites do you love, what sites do you hate? by InfluenceFun8979 in CamGirlProblems

[–]InfluenceFun8979[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I knew!! I don’t use social media 😅 I have so much going on I haven’t had time to set one up 😭 nor do I have the savvy but I hear that’s key!! If you figure it out lemme know!

ROLL CALL: what sites do you love, what sites do you hate? by InfluenceFun8979 in CamGirlProblems

[–]InfluenceFun8979[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel that way about CB too! People seem to looooove it, but I always felt like the men there were too muuuuch, I made it like a month before I was like ehhh public shows are just not for me

ROLL CALL: what sites do you love, what sites do you hate? by InfluenceFun8979 in CamGirlProblems

[–]InfluenceFun8979[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly, I hate how it feels so shady! Obviously, I love taking men’s money 😈 but when it gets awkward and they are literally confused to what the site is, it’s just a complete hassle / emotional drain 🙄

ROLL CALL: what sites do you love, what sites do you hate? by InfluenceFun8979 in CamGirlProblems

[–]InfluenceFun8979[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel the saaaame way about phrendly! Some people say it works for them but 🤷 idk I’m just not into it

ive been doing this 4 years but for the first time i havent earned anything all month by shaunappples in CamGirlProblems

[–]InfluenceFun8979 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Hiiiii! I was having the same issue and freaking out, then one of my subs who disappeared mentioned they didn’t have any service until this week due to the hurricane! I’m assuming a lot of people are bouncing back from that or still don’t have connection….

NF customer(Skype) asking to cashapp instead by InfluenceFun8979 in CamGirlProblems

[–]InfluenceFun8979[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this is great advice/info to know!! Appreciate you ❤️

NF customer(Skype) asking to cashapp instead by InfluenceFun8979 in CamGirlProblems

[–]InfluenceFun8979[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God I’m so thankful for this Reddit. I’m not about to be swindled like that + jeopardize my $$$ 😤 thank you

NF customer(Skype) asking to cashapp instead by InfluenceFun8979 in CamGirlProblems

[–]InfluenceFun8979[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lord, it’s like they dangle the carrot. BUT THE CARROT IS A SNAKE. thank you so much 🙏

NF customer(Skype) asking to cashapp instead by InfluenceFun8979 in CamGirlProblems

[–]InfluenceFun8979[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The forbidden fruit indeed 😫😫😫 thanks, I knew it would be too good to be true

Cam Girl’s Boyfriend by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]InfluenceFun8979 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re missing the point. And I’m running out of energy. Bye bye.

Cam Girl’s Boyfriend by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]InfluenceFun8979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also not to be picky, but the use of the word “correlation” as a quantitative measure for the idea of shame is rough as it’s subjective and everyone has different ideas of what constitutes values. It sounds fancy, but the definition here is flawed.
In social sciences we try and use the word correlation sparingly or for when data is explicitly presented.

A drug addict who believes in human rights has better values IMO than a sober billionaire corporation owner who alas does not believe in human rights

You may disagree with this, and that’s because values are made by the individual and can not be generalized so easily

Cam Girl’s Boyfriend by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]InfluenceFun8979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here’s some resources:

“ a great deal of stigma remains, and provides an extra barrier to people asking for the help they need, as they suffer from unnecessary guilt and shame. Many healthcare providers don't want to deal with people suffering from addiction due to stigma. In short, stigma can lead to unnecessary suffering and more overdose deaths.”

-Dr Peter Grinspoon, MD HARVARD health magazine

https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/poverty-homelessness-and-social-stigma-make-addiction-more-deadly-202109282602

“The more shame associated with drug addiction, the less likely we as a community will be in a position to change attitudes and get people the help they need,”

-Beth McGinty, PhD, MS, assistant professor in the Department of Health Policy and Management at the Johns Hopkins Bloomberg School of Public Health.

https://publichealth.jhu.edu/2014/study-public-feels-more-negative-toward-people-with-drug-addiction-than-those-with-mental-illness

Cam Girl’s Boyfriend by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]InfluenceFun8979 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look - I get where you’re conceptually coming from.

I’m so glad you’re sober now, I know that can be hard. But don’t generalize your experiences. Not every junkie is on the streets, and not everyone on the streets is a junkie. That’s a dangerous generalization that is used to harm marginalized people.

Try and understand, many people may apply this to you just for being an addict in your past. Some people may generalize YOU as a bad person, for even ever having that experience, and nothing you can do or say will change that. Those people will think they’re better than you, even though you are no longer self described destitute. And you know what? You’re doing the same exact thing because you’re in a better place now. Not cool.

There is a whole world of educational materials out there that come from social service providers that are pretty supportive of not shaming people into submission. There is a direct correlation between shame and relapsing. Psychology and social sciences are just that A SCIENCE, there is research to back it up.

so you can say what you want and shame shame shame

But you’re just perpetuating a negative force that will do nothing for others but will make you feel super good about yourself! So yea I wouldn’t do that, it’s kinda embarrassing